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hgf33
Jun 23, 2011, 2:06 AM
Just a couple thoughts...

Ok, now, I KNOW there are a lot more bisexual women out there than are on this site! COME OUT COME OUT WHEREVER YOU ARE!!! Haha! I love this site and I love participating in the forums, but I get bored when there's nothing to comment on bc it's so full of men talking about men. (Can't really give my :2cents: on that! LOL!) Don't misunderstand me, I have no problem with it, but damn, my lady parts are wishing there were more women to banter with. Locally would be nice... as my lady parts are also wishing I had some other lady parts to play with, hehe. A girl can dream! Just some, *ahem* food for thought... ;)

Nextly... Yes I just made that word up...
Does anyone know of any other bi sites that are good? I will remain faithful to this one, but I would like a personals site that maybe gives me a better shot at finding a local girl. Here's my one stipulation: I like this site because it's entirely private. No one outside of the site can see a damn thing, and I like it that way. The problem with other sites that I've searched... they feature members right on the front page, without even needing a login! Not cool.

And lastly... Ok, really, that was it. I did say a COUPLE thoughts, after all. I'm sure there will be more random thoughts from me in the future. It happens a lot. :tong:

MetalMadam
Jun 23, 2011, 2:51 AM
I just joined this site to connect with bi women, due to the scarcity in my area. I'm not into the bar scene, and I'm a mom and have not found much acceptance for who I am. I guess I am looking for my community, so I'm sad to hear of the scarcity here already!

Long Duck Dong
Jun 23, 2011, 3:52 AM
there are more ladies in the site than the forums show....lol and they have posted some very interesting and informative threads at times..... not all of them about sex and sexual things...... lol

so start a thread asking where the ladies are ( in the title ) and they will post and say hi... or is it, *build it and they will come *..... sighs.....

void()
Jun 23, 2011, 4:07 PM
Poor Ducky, you really ought to have a message after that bunny pun. Some of the best words fall forests silently. Excuse me ladies, poor Duck looked as though he needed a leg up.

hgf33
Jun 23, 2011, 8:07 PM
I wasn't referring to just the forums. Just generally seems like there are fewer women on the site, or they don't get on here much. Who knows. I'm not leaving, I like you guys, lol!

MetalMadam
Jun 23, 2011, 10:19 PM
You make an excellent point long duck.......I think will.

hgf33
Jun 24, 2011, 3:16 AM
I just didn't think posting a thread was necessary because there is a members list and personal ads search.

hgf33
Jun 24, 2011, 3:22 AM
I didn't mean to discourage, I was just sharing my thoughts. There are probably tons more people near others than there are near me. Happy Hunting! :-)

I'm still wondering if anyone knows of other good (and private) sites I can join.

Okie1970
Jun 24, 2011, 2:39 PM
I've recently started looking at other sites and I know what you mean about the privacy thing... BUT... There are ways around it... For example, don't list the town where you are, don't put up a public picture, etc. Some people on OKCupid do it that way and interested parties have to message them to inquire... don't know if you want to deal with it or not. I am shocked at how many of us there are out there though.
You also have an advantage because of the age group you are in... much more open than many of us creaky folk and you are at prime age physically to.
With what I read and saw of your profile, you have excellent odds of at least finding a fwb. Don't give up.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jun 24, 2011, 10:01 PM
Try FetLife.com too....
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