self satisfaction

[picturepainter]

I seem to have a obsession forming with self satisfaction through wanking or any other form of release. And i am always looking for new ways but because i am married it has to be a secret for me.

I was just watching some videos on xhampster showing self fucking and i was amazed. I thought it was impossible but clearly isnt, albeit the cock is only semi hard and still a good length in most of the films.

Something i would like to at least attempt.

Mmmmmmmm

[bikiniman]

I too have an obsession with self satisfaction and am always looking for new kinky ways to get my self off.

The closest to self fucking I have got is using a clone of my own cock see www.cloneawilly.com

Maybe its time for me to find the real thing?

[picturepainter]

Sounds interesting Bikiniman, love to hear more either here or in private. I have tried insertions with the wife's dildo.and fingers etc. Like you though i am just desperate to find new methods to give me pleasure and make me cum. X

[sammie19]

I seem to have a obsession forming with self satisfaction through wanking or any other form of release. And i am always looking for new ways but because i am married it has to be a secret for me.

I was just watching some videos on xhampster showing self fucking and i was amazed. I thought it was impossible but clearly isnt, albeit the cock is only semi hard and still a good length in most of the films.

Something i would like to at least attempt.

Mmmmmmmm

A secret from who? Your wife? I think it is at worst an evens bet that your wife has a good idea that you imbibe in some "self-satisfaction". It always brings great hilarity on girls nights when we discuss masturbation and my married friends laugh raucously when telling stories of their husband's secret playtime that they "know nothing about".

It always brings great hilarity also when they tell stories of their playtime that hubbie knows nothing about.

[picturepainter]

Yes frim the wife Sammie and she knows i wank off but i guess the secret is the way i do it at times snd what i might use which can include her underwear or her vibe and also that fact i like to look at cocks as i do it too might come as a surprise to her. X

[jackbirdjay]

Yes love self satisfaction to. Wife dose not know every thing. She knows I use her vibrators and I jerk-off almost everyday and I eat my own cum and I look at porn on the internet and I do look at gay porn to. What she dose not know is that I am bisexual, she only thinks I am curious tring to get her in a 3 way but she dose not want to. She dose not know I cross dress or I have sucked or I been fucked. I always find new ways to self satisfaction.

[tenni]

I wonder or think after reading this thread that the entire "secret" aspect of self satifaction is base on that we start very young as boys wanking. We are either told not to touch ourselves in public or it gets put in our minds that masturbation is a secret thing to do. Now, some enjoy masturbating in front of others while others find that it give them fantasy space to indulge themselves.

Now, Sammie
Do you think that women self pleasure themselves more often than men? :bigrin:

Do they like to do it in "secret" or prefer to do it in front of a partner?;)

[dickhand]

A few years ago I was stroking myself while watching a porn on my VCR . In trotted my female pitbull terrier . Well , she came over and stated licking my precum while I was stroking and it wasn't long before I was shooting cum like mad . She licked up all the was and licked me clean besides . After that , anytime she heard the VCR start up , in she trotted . She liked to lick my balls and asshole as well . By the time she got around to the precum , I was always ready to feed her a creamy reward . Damn , I have got to get another dog soon !

[elian]

Hmm, yeah I was about to say why keep it a secret from your wife..if anything you'd think maybe she'd like to help you .. but if she would be upset by seeing males in your porn then I can understand that. To the guy who said she knows you want a threesome, you have to think she knows you're at least a little open about your sexuality..? but I think I can understand maybe you value your relationship with her more.

A good friend of mine once said that you don't often hear straight guys complaining about the hard cocks in porn..I think once you are excited enough watching anything sexual can be sort of a turn on..if you are lucky enough maybe she is one of the ladies who actually likes watching two guys moaning against each other in ecstasy..

I guess the trick is trying to get her to understand that she comes first, and those other guys are just fantasies?

I am not well endowed enough to do what you describe above, I've licked myself once or twice but now the back muscles and the little pouch in the belly make that hard - besides it would be kind of embarrassing to explain to the ambulance crew why my back was thrown out and I'm naked on the bed in a prone position.

Toys can be fun - sleeves with ticklers, bullet vibes, rudely shaped prostate massager, fingers and varying positions too..

I hope though that you are saving some of that eroticism for your wife..if I had a wife I think I would be very persistent in trying to please her..would wife consent to penetrating you - if that would make you happy?

[qiangqiang]

I am a married man, but I usually cannot extricate myself from masturbation (of course, this is done without affecting the relationship between husband and wife). I usually also buy some pocket pussy (https://fondlove.com/collections/pocket-pussy) and masturbation cup (https://fondlove.com/collections/masturbation-cup), buttocks and so on. In addition, I will look for new ways to self-satisfy. If you have a better way, please contact me and share it with me!

[1ebguy]

My GF currently has me locked in chastity, I use a vibrator to get myself off.. it's a ruined orgasm but the high I get from the build up is quite amazing..

[Biryder]

I absolutely love to self satisfy. I have done so since I was 8 thanks to my 15 year old cousin. I have done it almost every day since. When I was a kid I would jack off 4 or 5 times a day. More if I could. I love jacking off any where I possibly can. Public restrooms, parks, driving, outdoors. You get the idea. I do it at work, home, other’s homes. I do not plan on stopping. My gf knows I do as well as she. She loves masturbation as I do. She started very young as well. We encourage each other to do so. She masturbates at work and other places also. She has multiple toys and I love that she does.

I began experimenting with solo anal when I was 9 or so. I would stroke my cock using my mother’s makeup mirror to watch myself. Yes I am a big time voyeur as well. I was standing over the mirror and started noticing my butt hole. I was intrigued by it. So I started messing around with it. I liked the way it felt. Started with my finger and progressed to other objects around the house. This was the early 60’s. My mom did not have any toys I could find. I have my own toys today of course.

I have always been a very sexual person. Even as a kid before I even had any experiences I played with myself. I would get naked in the woods and play with my dick. I loved it being hard and free. I also knew I was different from a lot of kids my age. I did eventually find another boy like me and his sister became like us. It was a wonderful time in my life. I love being bi and different from main stream.