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[jimmyhopkins09]

Ok, i know this is lame, but if i can get some help it would be sweet. See, iv'e just recently got myself a new partner, and obviously at some point, (providing i can sort out a looming problem, without ending up single again) me and he are going to progress to sex. Now i haven't done it before, so i brought an anal training kit backalong to start me off, but annoyingly it has no instructions so i have no idea how im meant to use it, and have had little success so far, so i must not be using it right. Can anyone help me with some decently detailed guidelines or instructions?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Lube, lube abd More lube and a great deal of imagination and patiance. Go slow, get yourself nicely worked up with a bit of porn first, then ease into the anal stage as you watch. It makes it vastly easier if you have a guideline on how you want to do things and have it Done.
Just relax and do what feels good. But I cant stress enough the importance of the lube!!
Good luck, have fun.
Cat

[jimmyhopkins09]

Lube, lube abd More lube and a great deal of imagination and patiance. Go slow, get yourself nicely worked up with a bit of porn first, then ease into the anal stage as you watch. It makes it vastly easier if you have a guideline on how you want to do things and have it Done. Just relax and do what feels good. But I cant stress enough the importance of the lube!! Good luck, have fun. Cat Ok, understood, but is there like a technique to using the kit, i mean, are you supposed to move the plug around, or just keep it in for a certain amount of time or something? This is y instructions should come in the box

[SlimDandy]

With practice, the anal orifice will eventually adapt. If the plug is constrained and it's movement restricted for one hour every day for one entire week, that should then be adequate for life sized dildos to be used at least once per week, there afterwards. As long as you use a biologically safe barrier between yourself and the plug or dildo, along with a liberal amount of biologically safe lubricant, you should do just fine.

Beyond that, the key to sexual bliss is just relaxation...

PS.

I've just learned the following and have instantly become concerned:

My concern about anoreceptivity, is the fact that studies have been conducted, which have proven that regular anal sex contributes to decreased anal canal resting pressures. This then means that rectal muscles have become essentially weaker, leading to rectal leakage and incontinence. This condition can lead to a life of social ioslation.

That's just way too damned scary!