my first experience this weekend!

[Neils]

I did it...I crossed the line from fantasy to reality this weekend, and gave my first blowjob (actually 2) at the local abs. I was nervous as hell, but decided I was going to go thru with it. i wanted to do it. i wanted to know what it's like. There was no way I was going do to this without protection, so I hit the drugstore to buy some unlubricated condoms for oral, since the only kind I've ever bought were lubed (brought some of those too). And earlier in the day, I made sure my ass was clean and lubed because I wanted to experience getting fucked too. but I totally forgot about it once I got to the abs! I'm thinking about going back soon to give up my ass cherry.

There were a lot of cars in the lot, that's a good sign, right? i went into the arcade and found a booth with a gloryhole, fed the video machine and waited. it's strange just sitting there waiting. i was pretty excited, and flipped through the channels. I settled on some shemale action and waited. and waited.

finally after about 10 minutes a man walked into the next booth. I wiggled a finger in the hole indicating I was giving, and I got a condom out too. I was shaking I was so nervous...

he put his softy through and I wrapped it (poorly dammit, too much space at the tip - i'm a fuckin noob) and took the plunge. feeling a warm soft cock in my mouth for the first time was intense. my thoughts were racing, but I went to work and started sucking as best I could. his cock grew long and hard quickly, and soon he was hitting the back of my throat and i gagged a couple of times but kept on sucking. This went on for a few minutes, but then my jaw started to ache. I had to stop a couple of times to give it a break, but I guess the guy didn't like that and he withdrew and left before cumming.

I felt kind of bad that I couldn't get him off. I figure it was my inexperience and newbie technique plus the rubber/sensitivity thing, but I wasn't about to go ask. I also reflected on my own expectations -- that sucking a wrapped cock through a gloryhole didn't do a whole lot for me while i was doing it. mostly because I was really working and focused on making that cock cum with my mouth.

A second guy came in a few minutes later. His cock was smaller and when fully erect fit completely in my mouth without hitting the back of my throat, it was kind of a relief not to be gagging. but again, my mouth was getting achy after a few minutes and I had take a break and give him a handjob for a bit while I recovered, then I went back to work sucking. I actually felt better about this one, but then I noticed the guy getting softer in my mouth, and eventually he pulled out, zipped up and left. He didn't cum either. Dammit!

well that was that, I got a little disheartened, and eventually left though I was still horny.

I was still happy that I did it, and I'd like to try again if I can improve my technique. But there's the catch, an anon GH isn't going to give the feedback I need to know if I'm doing a good (blow)job. I'm thinking the best way to get that is hook up in private with a m/f couple, a tgurl or single guy, and also to establish all parties are safe, because I want to try giving head without a condom. anybody in the pacific northwest willing to help me on my quest? :)

Driving home I was so turned on by the overall experience I rolled on a rubber and masturbated as I drove and shot my load about 10 minutes down the road. Once I got home, I rode my Ken Ryker dildo until I came again. Intense night!

So folks, that's my first experience. Would be great to get your comments and feedback.

[ExSailor]

Why would anyone suck a dick with a condom on it? That's like eating a piece of steak, fish, or chicken wrapped in saran wrap! I would rather jerk off alone or with someone than suck dick with a rubber or have someone make me wear one. Next time suck dick without one and swallow the load. Also why did you put on a condom and jerk off into it? Shoot that cum all over your body!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol At least you gave it a shot. You'll learn to use your lips, tongue-top and bottom of it-to pleasure a lover to the point where they'll get off nicely. Learn to create a nice tight suction with tongue action at the same time...I think you'll get explosive results in the future. Just slow down, and treat that cock like you'd want Yours treated and you'll be fine.
Good Luck Sweetie.:}
Cat

[VZR1800]

All that suction does nothing if the cock is wrapped in a f--kin condom. Suckin plastic, just great. Rather go bowling. What is the point in blowing a guy if you are not going to get the nice reward for a job well done? ;-(

[Bisexual Explorer]

Neils, Congratulations on getting started. You've joined the many of us here that enjoy sucking cock. Using a condom is a smart move when you don't know who is on the other side of a GH. I suggest you get to know some men well enough that you are willing to suck them w/o a condom and who will stay around for a while. Then you'll understand why Cat, if I may speak for you, ExSailor, VZR, and myself believe that feeling the flesh of a hard cock with your lips and tasting the hot cum when it shoots into your mouth is one of life's best experiences.
Bisexual Explorer

[Indyguy]

The GH maybe good practice, just use the sheerest condom you can buy, put your soul into it and explore the cock, you can tell by the twitching or the sounds if you are doing something good. The ultimate I must say, is being able to feel bare flesh in your mouth, feeling the cock grow and know that what you are doing is exciting the other person. The reward will be the hot cum splashing the back of your throat. But like Cat says, practice now and learn the technique for when you do get to meet someone you trust to be clean.

[upones]

No condom for me and no glory hole want the body to feel and touch all nipples in reach love feel of cum and taste then softening of cock

[VZR1800]

My preference would be that when he is about to cum, he pull out until only the head remains in my mouth. This way I can I can suck on it and enjoy the feeling and taste of a mouthful of the stuff before swallowing. ;-)

Any takers?

Try it sometime when jerking. Instead of going all the way down on it, pull your hand up until just then head is inside. Feels awesome.

[Gearbox]

Don't know how you got a condom on a soft cock, but good for you. Jaw ache lessens with practice.

[VZR1800]

Funny, my first and only time so far, no jaw ache at all. Practice on dildos helped. ;-)

[zigzig]

I can understand the stress of trying for the first time. You'll get better!

[Neils]

To Cat and the others who made supportive/constructive comments and suggestions, thanks! I sure don't mind practicing. :)

As for others' disdain for condom use on an anonymous dick:
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[VZR1800]

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Yes, but the point is the OP was disappointed he could not get the two guys to cum. I can rarely cum from vaginal sex when forced to wear a condom. I've never cum from oral sex, frnakly because the few who have done it to me were not into it enough to provide any kind of pleasure. Yeah, they got me plenty aroused, just could not trip the trigger. ;-( Cumming from oral with a condom on? Might as well go bowling. Not gonna happen. That's life.

What's the best part of oral? The suction, trying to coax that load out. How does that happen with a raincoat on? Hmmmmm??

I would never do a G.H. Period! That nice dick sticking through there might be attached to a toothless meth addict who will screw anything that walks on two legs. No thanks. Got to see the whole package personally.

[bidavid1965]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Welcome to the club of cocksuckers!Hope you get a chance to suck more cock soon...and good luck with the anal :)

[rodman2005]

I am not going to congratulate you. You did not have to play condom-sucker. How boring is that!
Get a gay friend, go to a bar or whatever and taste a dick, lick it and eat it and lick uder the balls and suck him off for once!
And practise my boy... do what you would want a mouth to do for you.

[M4RealUb2]

Congratulations!! Good call using the condom for anonymous sex!! Don't worry about the detractors, haters gonna hate! They'll be the ones talking about, "Whad dis on by lid?"

[Neils]

This will be my last post regarding condom use on this thread. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but my scientist brain finds the condom debate intriguing. I don't expect (or want) answers in this thread, but I do wonder... of those who are anti-condom, how many have contracted and/or passed STD's via unprotected sex, lost a friend or loved one to AIDS, etc. I would guess the answer is zero.

I read a study long ago that showed the use of protection during sex showed a graph with peaks (high use of condoms) and valleys (low use). Peak usage would correpond to significant events, such as the emergence of HIV/AIDS. At some point years later, a steep drop in protected sex would emerge, and the data showed that the majority of those surveyed were from a different generation of sexually active people that those who were practicing safe sex. it was inferred that those folks were isolated from events or information that influenced the older generation. in general they had lower awareness of the dangers of unprotected sex because their predecessors were using protection, thus the incidence of infections were lower, the media hype machine was relatively quiet. So they practice unprotected sex more, until the incidence of infections rise again, and then behaviors change and the cycle repeats again.

I'd bet that if we were to sample registered users, we'd see a similar correlation.

[latino75]

I use condoms for penetration, it's the condom for cock sucking that I think most people are focusing on. I've sucked plenty of cocks and had mine sucked at least an equal number and have never contacted anything. I personally would not play with someone who was demanding to use a condom for oral. I have never done a glory hole so I can't say I blame you for wanting to use a condom. I would suggest maybe meeting someone 1x1 and getting to know them better, maybe find another married guy with little to no experience either and then just exploring each other's body together.

[pikelikes]

i think using a condom is a good safe idea in that environment , i hope to suck a cock soon , but i want to know who's cock it is , i've been tempted to go and do the same thing just so i can try it ,but in the end i'm just not that brave to suck a complete strangers dick , hell , i wouldnt fuck a strange womans pussy either , i guess i just have to know the person i'm messing with

[Gearbox]

The 'anti-condom crowd' are just saying that sucking a wrapped cock isn't worth the effort, for either. Not that sucking a bare cock at a GH is 'safe'.

[biblkman]

I've never nor will I ever suck or get sucked with a condom, yes it is safest, I don't swallow and I've never had a guy come in my mouth, that doesn't mean there's no risk just very low.

Is some precum gets in there oh well, its a chance I take.

But to use a condom while sucking, come on! How many men and women who have ate pussy made the woman were a dental damn!

I'm sure you've ate pussy of a woman you hardly knew, just about every bi man,bi woman, straight dude or lesbian has done it before too not saying all, but most.

I understand your concern but to the receiver...its like what's the point, so yes you should find ONE! Bi or gay guy you are real comfortable with.

Cause sadly if you keep insisting on a condom for oral you will go through a lot of dissapointed men and you will always feel slightly inadequate at performing oral.

Just my opinion

[stonebow]

I've never nor will I ever suck or get sucked with a condom, yes it is safest, I don't swallow and I've never had a guy come in my mouth, that doesn't mean there's no risk just very low.

Is some precum gets in there oh well, its a chance I take.

But to use a condom while sucking, come on! How many men and women who have ate pussy made the woman were a dental damn!

I'm sure you've ate pussy of a woman you hardly knew, just about every bi man,bi woman, straight dude or lesbian has done it before too not saying all, but most.

I understand your concern but to the receiver...its like what's the point, so yes you should find ONE! Bi or gay guy you are real comfortable with.

Cause sadly if you keep insisting on a condom for oral you will go through a lot of dissapointed men and you will always feel slightly inadequate at performing oral.

Just my opinion

Yup..it's the only safe and satisfying ( for both of you) solution. I don't do the gloryhole scene and I don't suck a wrapped cock...hate the taste of rubber!

[VZR1800]

If you are not concerned about the precum, why are you concerned about the best part of the launch? Precum is bodily fluid just as cum is. Precum tastes good, cum tastes great straight from the spigot.

Anal? I will be totally cleaned out in there. If he is a married guy who's only partner is his wife, I'll chance it. Got one of those that is going to be happening soon. It is totally up to him, and he is leaning no condom.

[oldercal]

i think using a condom is a good safe idea in that environment , i hope to suck a cock soon , but i want to know who's cock it is , i've been tempted to go and do the same thing just so i can try it ,but in the end i'm just not that brave to suck a complete strangers dick , hell , i wouldnt fuck a strange womans pussy either , i guess i just have to know the person i'm messing with

I agree, I'm interested but wary...

[elian]

Hi Neils, I agree with latino75.

You have to do what you think is best for you. If it is your first time and it was in a gloryhole I can understand why you wanted to use a condom. I tried anonymous oral sex one time and I am very lucky that all I ended up with was strep throat. If I had it to do again I would much rather just do mutual mastrubation but to be honest I was pretty ill for a few days. I don't think I will go back to an "anonymous" place.

When you find a friend you know and trust then maybe you can try oral sex without a condom and have more fun :)

[Indyguy]

Word to the wise, just because you clean out, does not mean it is ok to bareback. A urinary tract infection is very painful, not to mention all the questions the nurses and doctors lay on you about how this happened. As it is rare in men, they know how you got it, or should I say the most likely cause of how you got it. So if you are going to be the top, no matter how clean you think the other person is, put a condom on. You will thank me later.

[IndyBiFun]

As zigzig said, I understand the anxiety of sucking your first cock. Anxiety filled excitement! And as others have said you'll improve each time you get to gobble a cock. Don't rush it; enjoy it!