R. R. Wayne
Nov 29, 2013, 11:00 AM
I will soon be 75 years old. I had my first sexual experience when I
was 6 or 7 and had my first dry ejaculation at 7 or 8. In the
intervening years I have had a lot of sex. Probably with 40
to 50 men and about 25 women. I was one of those guys who rarely
made it past two days without having sex or jacking off. I loved sex
and to a lesser degree, I still do.
But my outlook on wanting to have sex with men and my sexuality has been
undergoing a big change in the past two years. At first it was a
difficulty in accepting one-way blow jobs from guys. I could not get
hard or excited unless I was reciprocating. And, when I did cum with
another guy it just wasn't as much fun as it used to be.
Fortunately for me my wife recently showed a renewed interest in sex. And this
was after at least 6 to 8 years of having sex maybe one or twice a
year.
Toss into the equation, that while I am bi. my wife knows nothing of my
alternative life style. So all the sex I enjoyed outside the
marriage bed was done on the sly. And I began to experience a degree
of guilt that heretofore was unknown.
Also toss into the equation that my erections are not as rigid or as
easily obtained – another age-related condition.
Amazingly, when I do have sex with my wife, who loves to suck my cock as I eat
her wet pussy and she is very good at caressing my cock and balls and
gets me really hot –- so I am able to obtain a really good hard on
and please her and myself just like in the good old days.
So, where is all of this leading. I have decided to stop having oral sex
with men. For me it is no longer worth the time or the risk of
getting caught. Sneaking-around-sex is no longer any fun for me and
I just can't get hard or excited with another guy. I still enjoy reading many of the posts here, but they don't turn me on like in the past and I will no longer be looking for new experiences.
Your
experience will differ, but I posted this topic because some of the
older men on this site might find it interesting to read of another
senior guy's experience.
was 6 or 7 and had my first dry ejaculation at 7 or 8. In the
intervening years I have had a lot of sex. Probably with 40
to 50 men and about 25 women. I was one of those guys who rarely
made it past two days without having sex or jacking off. I loved sex
and to a lesser degree, I still do.
But my outlook on wanting to have sex with men and my sexuality has been
undergoing a big change in the past two years. At first it was a
difficulty in accepting one-way blow jobs from guys. I could not get
hard or excited unless I was reciprocating. And, when I did cum with
another guy it just wasn't as much fun as it used to be.
Fortunately for me my wife recently showed a renewed interest in sex. And this
was after at least 6 to 8 years of having sex maybe one or twice a
year.
Toss into the equation, that while I am bi. my wife knows nothing of my
alternative life style. So all the sex I enjoyed outside the
marriage bed was done on the sly. And I began to experience a degree
of guilt that heretofore was unknown.
Also toss into the equation that my erections are not as rigid or as
easily obtained – another age-related condition.
Amazingly, when I do have sex with my wife, who loves to suck my cock as I eat
her wet pussy and she is very good at caressing my cock and balls and
gets me really hot –- so I am able to obtain a really good hard on
and please her and myself just like in the good old days.
So, where is all of this leading. I have decided to stop having oral sex
with men. For me it is no longer worth the time or the risk of
getting caught. Sneaking-around-sex is no longer any fun for me and
I just can't get hard or excited with another guy. I still enjoy reading many of the posts here, but they don't turn me on like in the past and I will no longer be looking for new experiences.
Your
experience will differ, but I posted this topic because some of the
older men on this site might find it interesting to read of another
senior guy's experience.