Protect Us From Evil Demented Bigots Drew

[tenni]

Should there be a holding aspect after joining this site? Perhaps, a limit on the number of posts that you may make per day if you have not been a member for say three months of active posting?

No sooner does Drew place one mentally ill poster in the "cooling off" area and he/she births two female vile profiles on the same day who spew hatred towards bisexuals.

I know that some may say that the person(s) will just create a profile months in advance but possibly a combination of limiting posts until you have reached one hundred posts over a three month period may reduce the attacks on promiscuous bisexuals. This site is not a safe place for bisexuals.

Is there need for a rule telling others not to judge/attack another poster's sexual practices?

Your thoughts beyond using the block?

[12voltyV2.0]

I guess you must have gotten hit with some nice friendly messages by Lansana's Priestess as well-----welcome to the club Tenni!! LOL

It looks like BiVirgo.25 is the same troll too----added both to my ignore list.

I admit that at times--I spend way too much time on this and other sites--mostly FaceBook reading about all the crazy shit the tea bag party types do these days to show you how much a sexual deviant I am really am LOL!!!!!! But man----this person has WWWWAYYYYYY too much time on their hands to go make numerous personalities---reading the posts we make from some time ago--and then go and post up to us how perverted and such we are!!!!


Like the old Ramones song, this person really wants "to be sedated!!" (surely needs to be!!! :rotate:

[12voltyV2.0]

I don't know what LP said since I have blocked "her" but I think that number of posts and the things that this person says makes it clear---that this is not a person who is in full control of their mental capacities----anyone at all "normal" as much as any of us can be, I suppose, just does not do things of this sort--- to Lansana's Priestess or whoever you are---get back on your meds!!! You are surely in a manic state right now.

[tenni]

It seems that there probably is a need for a rule about personal attacks for a poster's sexual practices.

i.e.…...Do not attack a poster for their sexual practices.

"I personally have had bare back sex" does not identify the other person's gender nor whether it was in a long term relationship.

Certain trolls publish false accusations/information about sexual practices as a means of attack on bisexuals on this site. There has been a long on going attack on bisexuals from judgemental moralists (more than one have been long time members) and and in particular attacks on promiscuous bisexuals as if they are a disease un to themselves. This should not be tolerated on a bisexual site.

People should feel safe and protected from attacked for their sexual practices. In particular a site dedicated to what some moralists consider a deviant unhealthy sexuality…bisexuality should protect its member posters who disclose anything about their sexual practices.

[12voltyV2.0]

You raise some good points, Tenni.

I know that I keep saying that I think this troll is one person--or maybe a few--but there is so much about the way the person operates--and has done so over the years that I really think its the work of one person----and that among the creation of untold number of personalities on here---with posts from "them" often times backing up with the "others" say and such---another tactic of this person is to take on a character that is under control and such, who gets people to chat with them and at least talk about the things that they like or want to do---or maybe even do cybering, maybe a cam to cam session or phone sex and then they will later expose what they have learned about someone "in public" on here, using that info as a way to try to cause hurt and pain or at least be a nuisance to the subject of this person's wrath at the moment.

If this is one person---he or she (almost 100 percent certain it is a guy) is a very mentally disturbed person, if for nothing else---to have invested so much time and energy to "fuck with us" as this person (or if it's a small number of people to have done) shows that they are "touched in the head."

[McBice]

Does anyone have a running tally of how many aliases the same guy has had? Ever since I've been back to paying attention to the forum section of this site, which has been a couple of years now, the same guy pops up every couple of months or so. He usually lasts about 3 weeks to a month before his hate mongering gets him cooled off. I've started calling him "Mr. My Partner and I" and as soon as I see him use that catch phrase I put him on ignore. I find it kind of amusing that he can't seem get away from using that catch phrase and that even some of the most seasoned regulars on the forum can't resist engaging him. And as always seems to happen in that 3 week to a month period, I'll get a guilty feeling when I have to take him off ignore to find out what he said to rile someone up. Looks like this time around I've unwittingly save myself the guilt by not getting on here for several days and he's been cooled off in my absence...Hot Damn!!! Today is a windshield kinda day and not a bug kinda day...Thanks Drew

[Gearbox]

I shamefully engage him/them/it.:oh: I know I shouldn't, but someone should give a less bigoted view of the promiscuous just to balance it out IMO.
One MAJOR thorn in my arse is the treatment of 'cheaters' on here by some. Countless bi's have been bullied off the site due to the judgemental pig ignorant attitude towards them. If members can't talk openly about THEIR OWN PERSONAL situations etc without scorn, then they'll bugger off and nobody learns of or from them.

This isn't Sunday School!lol

[bluesky55]

I tend to just ignore those that irritate me, but I'll admit that many of them pop up and I feel like responding. The current antics of Lansana's Priestess was one that just reeked of one posing as someone/something other than themselves. Tempted as I was to respond, I didn't. NMCowboys has irritated me too, but I choose too ignore (him/them) as well. I go back to the words of a wise old man that once told me "Opinions are like assholes. Everybody's got one." I don't get on here all that often & when I do it's usually for a short time. I can be irritaded by something someone says & then blow it off as 'we all have different likes & dislikes'. I do have a problem with one person having an avitar that shows him with a small child. Sure its just an innocent pose, but frankly I don't care if you are a loving/proud parent, loving/proud grand-parent or a Mother Teresa clone, there is no reason to have a picture on a site of this nature that includes a small child. I'm all for freedom of speech & expression, but that is just tasteless.

[Fzmr9t]

These profiles are like ant mounds, kill one it'll just pop up again in another spot. I'm learning to ignore. Ignorance is bliss

[tenni]

"If members can't talk openly about THEIR OWN PERSONAL situations etc without scorn, then they'll bugger off and nobody learns of or from them."

I agree with this statement. This is why a rule about not attacking another person's sexual practices is needed on this site.

Yes, the trolls that are obviously being derogatory and stating that everyone (but them) is diseased or going to be diseased are obvious and can be put on ignore. However, it create such a sick negative tone to the site that it is detrimental to open honest discussion about bisexuality. The moralists are more than the obvious trolls. I am not interested in certain sexual expressions such as CD but it should not be anyone's right to slur anyone who is interested.

The tone of the site for someone who begins to read the site is at risk. A newcomer who is genuinely struggling with self acceptance will not open up if they know that they are going to be told that they deserve to have a cancer etc. because of any aspect of their sexual practice. Some people tried to express their disgust and good for them. The entire condemnation aspect of cheating as a result of a person's bisexuality is just as damaging. Fortunately, the moralists have toned down recently, two of the trolls presence have been removed since I started this thread. The one is in cooling off but the horrible words condemning a promiscuous bisexual and the trolls words about his cancer /disease are still there for anyone who reads this site. There is no rule that a new comer may read to state that condemning others for their sexual practice is not condoned by the site owner.