Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?

[LizaLynn]

I'm a bi female, but for the most part my sexual fantasies are about women. My sexual dreams that I can remember, are usually about men. When I view porn it is mostly about women, but I also enjoy male, gay porn (naked kombat ;)) . Of couse at different times I'm into different fatishes and fantasies, depending on my mood. Just wondering if other's fantasies are usually straight or bi?

[voltaire]

In the last few years, my fantasies have been primarily bisexual/gay oriented. Often about men or even more often about male body parts. It's this shift in fantasy that made me re-evaluate my Kinsey rating recently. In the past women were much more involved...although I still enjoy MMF porn a lot but I noticed my focus was more on the men's cocks now.

[Rose2Me]

As a CDer, my fantasies involve men. I dress for men, and indulge in fantasies in which a man (men) will treat me as a woman. I watch straight porn, and imagine myself the chick in every scene.

[fredtyg]

My fantasies have been strictly about other men for probably 20 years.

[semibi]

I have never tried same-sex. But, the porn I watch is almost exclusively male focused. I rarely recall dreams, but any sex dreams I have recalled have been about women. I have had fantasies about men and women.

[SilkyHoseLover]

About half & half, which represents a huge swing in the past several years. For most of my life, I've considered myself 'straight'. But events have led me to the inescapable conclusion that I'm BI. And I happily accept it. I love playing with cocks -- whether it's mine or somebody else's. Can't suck my own, but I'll suck yours, if you let me!

[curmwm57]

I have been married for more than 30 years and love beautiful women. Most of my fantasies are typically "straight" in orientation. At times I will mix both straight and bi subject matter in my fantasies. I can't say I am attracted to same sex (males)but do tend to focus on both male and femal while watching porn... I guess my fantasy I think about the most would certainly be on the bi side since It involves me, my wife and another guy where I would partake in sex with both.

[goldenfinger]

For as long as I can remember, it has been mixed 50/50.

[Annika L]

I would say pretty close to 50/50 for me...but with either increasingly more, or increasingly intense fantasies about men (I'm in a long term relationship with a female partner).

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.

You might ask why I'm splitting hairs like this. I gotta say it's because I feel like my kind of relationship gets somewhat slighted by these kinds of discussions...basically, your language is heteronormative, and I feel a need to point it out. From my perspective, the analog of your question would be "Are your sexual fantasies usually homosexual or bisexual?"...by your (apparent) meaning of bisexual, this should mean the exact same thing as your original question. But I think we'd all agree that it doesn't *sound* the same at all...but this is only due to heteronormative assumptions that fantasies about the opposite sex can't possibly be bisexual...but they can, if you allow that perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in homosexual relationships, just like perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in heterosexual relationships. The best solution is to not use "bisexual" to mean "with the sex opposite that of your partner", and use it to mean what it really means...and to be ok with using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" to mean what they really mean.

Meh...*steps off the soapbox*

[Realist]

Like Goldenfinger, my attractions, dreams, and fantasies, average out as being 50/50.

But, like the Pendulum we've discussed before, my interest level does seem to swing from one gender to the other, at times. My GF says she's the same.

[onewhocares]

As a straight woman married to a bi/gay man I love to watch gay porn. I do not watch very often, but I love to watch two men together. It arouses me so.

Belle in Boston

[voltaire]

As a straight woman married to a bi/gay man I love to watch gay porn. I do not watch very often, but I love to watch two men together. It arouses me so.

Belle in Boston

The world needs more like you Belle.

[voltaire]

Annika,

What are you , a Jesuit or something? ;)

[DuckiesDarling]

I watch a lot of different porn, I have a lot of different fantasies... they involve both straight and bisexual actions.. .but I prefer to not box them up and just call them sexy fun fantasies.

[Ja&Ve]

As a straight woman married to a bi/gay man I love to watch gay porn. I do not watch very often, but I love to watch two men together. It arouses me so.

Belle in Boston

I sooo agree. Gay and bi porn? So hot!!

[semibi]

Annika,

What are you , a Jesuit or something? ;)

Although there is no connection really, this comment reminds me of the line in Identity Theft (stupid movie) where Melissa McCarthy says, "What are you, a f***ing Kenyan?" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nPjyalmUT0

Annika makes interesting points, not surprisingly. :bowdown:

I try to avoid getting too hung on terminology. But, the truth is the terms, the concepts and the sociology involved cause all of us to get hung up at some point or another. Understanding one another better should help reduce stigma and prejudice. So, good clarification, I think, Annika.

[Long Duck Dong]

most porn does not interest me because there is really no emotion, its generally a sound track and over done voicing, sound effects..... but there is some porn out there that does get my eye because its more than just a sex scene for the camera and the majority of what catches my eye has been bisexual / pansexual porn (bisexual meaning mixed gender sex / pansexual covering trans / intersex )

fantasies have mostly been the same, bisexual / pansexual... and most of my fantasies do involve intense emotional contact and connection with the people on various levels....

[Annika L]

Annika,

What are you , a Jesuit or something? ;)

Hmmm...must say I've never been asked this before! I'm afraid I'm not sure I get what you're referring to Voltaire...are Jesuits known for getting on soapboxes and splitting hairs over language? Certainly not over heteronormative language?? I did work with some Jesuits for a couple years a while back, and I learned something about their style and philosophies...but I still don't get the reference.

Can you please unravel that one for me? Just a *wee* bit? Pretty please?

[tenni]

Annika
To be compared to a jesuit is a high compliment imo. Great analytical thinkers who are not restricted by conservative simplistic approaches to life's questions. The Jesuits live outside the box of mainstream Catholicism. ;)

[bi4asplay]

I'm a bi female, but for the most part my sexual fantasies are about women. My sexual dreams that I can remember, are usually about men. When I view porn it is mostly about women, but I also enjoy male, gay porn (naked kombat ;)) . Of couse at different times I'm into different fatishes and fantasies, depending on my mood. Just wondering if other's fantasies are usually straight or bi?


Though Most of my sexual contact has been MF and most of my M2M contact, all but one time, has been MMF, All f my sex dreams are BI. All of m fantasies are BI or being pegged.

[Annika L]

Annika
To be compared to a jesuit is a high compliment imo. Great analytical thinkers who are not restricted by conservative simplistic approaches to life's questions. The Jesuits live outside the box of mainstream Catholicism. ;)

Oh yes! Let me be clear: I wasn't offended! Like I said, I have some experience with Jesuits, and yes, great respect there. Just wasn't sure what Voltaire was saying, or what specifically brought it to mind...was wondering if something specific I'd said made him ask the question (in fun, naturally).

[centillini]

For me women, me and a couple and me and a passable cd

[Gearbox]

My porn habit is about 95% hetero. But that's prob coz my sex habit is 100% m-m.
Am wondering if that kind of balance is common, and if its a case of fantasising about what we don't have?

[rukiddingme]

All of my dreams involve women. But my sexual fantasies and porn selection are of exclusively men/bisexual situations.

[Annika L]

My porn habit is about 95% hetero. But that's prob coz my sex habit is 100% m-m.
Am wondering if that kind of balance is common, and if its a case of fantasising about what we don't have?

With porn, I'm right with you, Geary...90%ish hetero...and almost certainly for the same reasons as you.

[darkeyes]

... am never sure wot peeps mean by bisexual fantasies.. if they r about having naughties in some way wiv one's own sex r they not more properly gay fantasies? They may arise from a person's bisexuality, but they arise from the homosexual part of that bisexuality, surely? Not every1 agrees but that's ok... cos 2 me it isn't that important and becomes less imprtant as I approach me middle 30s.... as it happens things r happening in me life of a more heterosexual bent (laffs), and I s'pose I do indeed have a heterosexual fantasy after a fashion, but dusnt mean I am ne the less, les, so 2 speak.... but ere long in 1 way or t'otha that bent will b str8ened out an' that dusnt involve becoming str8.. or indeed bisexual... the nhs in end may have 2 step in... pay them wee visit after Easter for that very purpose... but just as ne nookie wiv me own gender is nev bisexual.... neither wud ne sex wiv the opposite b bisexual wud it?

.... but me fantasies? Well apart from that teensie weensie wee 1 of wich I speak, they r exclusively lessie... so ther..

Clear as mud, hey? Gud.. but not 2 me.....;)

[Realist]

Our dreams certainly can tell us a lot about ourselves.

I've discussed this with my GF and our differences are revealed in the way we dream about sensual issues.

I will often dream of her, or past lovers, both male and female. I'll be immersed in their figures, sexual acts, and gentiles.

She will dream of a previous girlfriend's smile....how a male, or female, lover dressed....a special moment she and I shared, laughter......her sexuality is more cerebral and intellectual, while mine is usually more physical and orgasm oriented.

We will often dream of similar things, but they will be more intrinsically focused according to our own gender's idiosyncrasies.

We have both felt love for special past lovers and enjoy those dreams of them, but how we arrive at that feeling is so different.

[backdoorbaby]

QUITE bi here, almost ALWAYS and thnx for asking ;)

[stonebow]

My porn habit is about 95% hetero. But that's prob coz my sex habit is 100% m-m.
Am wondering if that kind of balance is common, and if its a case of fantasising about what we don't have?

I think Gear nailed it. I'm in a hetero relationship but my fantasies are usually same sex. My porn habits now are another matter...they're all over the map. With the net being an all-you-can-eat-buffet of smut is it any wonder?...lol

[jem_is_bi]

I think Gear nailed it. I'm in a hetero relationship but my fantasies are usually same sex. My porn habits now are another matter...they're all over the map. With the net being an all-you-can-eat-buffet of smut is it any wonder?...lol
Sexual reality is a little different for me. I am in a homosexual relationship and my fantasies are same sex. My porn habits are 90% heterosexual.

[Drunk Uncle]

Both my fantasies and my porn tend to be all over the map, esp. in the past couple of years, while I've been settling into a very happy relationship where none of my desires need to kept secret.

I think it's been that huge relief to be able to say, feel, think and act in a way that I'm not worried about that has made my fantasies and my taste in porn go everywhere.

We were walking out of one of the Super Stores the other day when this tall, dark sweaty muscular man walked by us (he looked as though he'd just gotten off of work) and both me and the wife looked at each other, mouthed "yes" while nodding our heads and then laughed.

Ahhh, the joys of settling into that middle-aged type of lust...

@Annika - I agree with the others and was impressed with your response as well. Great points made and one of the aspects of this board that I really love.

Drunk Uncle

[zigzig]

I'm 50/50. I like to involve romantic foreplay in my fantasies. I fantasies about different people-male, female, different arc, eve alien lookalikes. I love watching different porn. Also love to watch male/ male action even though my straight husband likes only straight & lesbian porn.

[Cum1st]

My most vividly remembered dream was way back when I was an inexperienced teen. I was on my back both in the bed and in the dream. A woman was slowly lowering herself on my cock. Before she she made contact I woke up and grabbed my hardon which was cumming uncontrolably in my jockies. Probably all the better, as I had no idea what it would have been like. I hadn't even figured out how to jerk off yet. Girlie mags never showed even as much a pubic hair at the time.

I’d rather watch my cock slip into a woman’s mouth than a man’s. Every square inch of a woman turns me on. With a man it’s what’s in the shorts. On the other hand, having a cock, balls, or asshole to mouth or just burying my face between his balls and thigh will get me to cum in his mouth before his jaw gets tired. Afterward I’ll still want to play with him, get him off and have his cum inside me at either end.

69Ã*ng with a woman or man is about even. The tastes, scents, and ‘equipment’ of either are both a turnon. Tits do add to the excitement, but a man wanting to suck me off will work pretty hard at it and know what I’m feeling.

Fucking a man is great, but fucking a woman has its plusses.

My favorite porn by a head is lesbian seduction.

Cream pies, drinking piss from the source M or F, groups, etc. will do.

Taking the place of a woman that gets many men off and then gets pissed on is good. The other changes I’d like to make are to get to keep the cum, and drink as much of the piss as I can. Facials are such a waste of precious jism, even though it looks great on a woman.

Too much detail? :tongue:

[voltaire]

Hmmm...must say I've never been asked this before! I'm afraid I'm not sure I get what you're referring to Voltaire...are Jesuits known for getting on soapboxes and splitting hairs over language? Certainly not over heteronormative language?? I did work with some Jesuits for a couple years a while back, and I learned something about their style and philosophies...but I still don't get the reference.

Can you please unravel that one for me? Just a *wee* bit? Pretty please?

"...and splitting hairs over language?" The Jesuits are infamous for their love of pretzel logic and quibbling over minor points. I don't think you are doing that as such but part of what you wrote was runaway philosophical..I was just teasing you.

[voltaire]

Annika
To be compared to a jesuit is a high compliment imo. Great analytical thinkers who are not restricted by conservative simplistic approaches to life's questions. The Jesuits live outside the box of mainstream Catholicism. ;)

That's not the style of Jesuitry I know but Annika is a keen analytical thinker and has a wonderful sense of humor.

[monaohio]

mine is having two cocks in my ass and suck the third and they all cum at same time

[gbahrain2014]

Porn; 95% gay, 5% transgender, m/f anal, lesbian, and female ejaculation

Fantasy; 99% gay, 1% other

[Fzmr9t]

My fantasies are primarily 50/50, while my dreams are more like 99% straight. That's because I usually dream about people I know, and the guys I know tend to be on par with your 'average joe' not exactly what dreams are made of. LOL

[TML1991]

50/50. Sometimes fantasies involving just women, and sometimes both sexes.

[BIGUY123456]

I fantisized about men or mmf

[Bi2boot]

I fantasize about men more than I do women, but I think thats at least partly because of how long I've gone (decades) without any sexual contact with men.

[stonebow]

Upon further reflection I realized my fantasies aren't simply gay in nature, they're kinky! I never had much experience with BDSM but then as a bi man who came to acceptance of his orientation late in life perhaps it's not surprising that my interest in kink is also a recent development. Guess I'm just a late bloomer...lol.

[TerrorTwilight]

When I watch porn it's 95% straight porn, mostly lesbian porn. But when I masturbate without porn, I usually fantasize about being used orally by a bunch of old, uncut guys. But that's just one of many fantasies. About 1/2 are about women, the other half about men.

[LennyC]

They are equal parts gay, straight and transsexual.

[Annika L]

That's not the style of Jesuitry I know but Annika is a keen analytical thinker and has a wonderful sense of humor.

Actually, it is the style of Jesuitry I was exposed to (ooh, now that sounds dirty, doesn't it?)...and ty *blush* on the rest. :love87:

[DoneGone275]

I have always fantasized about having oral sex with either a man, a woman, or both at the same time. So I guess my fantasies are bisexual in nature.

[boricuacockmagic]

i'm a man. i'd say about 75% of my sexual fantasies are about me. i like pussy, but lately its been all about the cocks

[ohbimale]

I identify as a bisexual man. I enjoy sex with both genders. However for close to the last 10 years my fantasies and dreams have been with the same sex. Plus my sex partners for the last ten years have been men.

[like2bepegged]

My fantasies have been bisexual and also with my wife watching.Next month maybe somthing else.

[elian]

"Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?"

..Yes..

[voltaire]

Actually, it is the style of Jesuitry I was exposed to (ooh, now that sounds dirty, doesn't it?)...and ty *blush* on the rest. :love87:

Glad to make you blush. I think it is all true

[BisexualAsian23]

This mostly depends on my mood but it tends to swing towards my bisexual side most of the time.

[foreverbi]

I am most definitely a bi-sexual male. After reading some of these posts I am leaking like the Titanic. I just wish my wife felt the same. ( maybe she does) as she is aware that I would drop to my knees in a New York minute. Just not in her presents.

[dmw897]

Both!...sorta. My fantasy is to watch several hung guys fuck my wife while I watch and jackoff. I wouldn't have a problem if one or two of them came over to me and let me suck her juices off their big cocks

[jjklemenz]

My fantasies have been bisexual and also with my wife watching.Next month maybe somthing else.
My biggest fantasy is sharing a cock with my wife just both eager to please him and share his cum:bigrin:

[bj4ubi]

Both I really want to eat creampie lick pussy and cock while another guy fucks my wife

[Annika L]

Since this thread has resurfaced, I figured I would say again that it is unclear what is meant by a "bisexual fantasy". Perhaps one involving sex with both men and women.

It feels like it is meant to indicate "involves sex with the same sex as the fantasizer", and my only point there is that that is a *homosexual* fantasy; not a bisexual fantasy.

A person may be bisexual by virtue of having, desiring to act out, and/or acting out *both* straight and homosexual fantasies (along with perhaps the occasional bisexual fantasy as described above, lol).

[whispering]

I would say pretty close to 50/50 for me...but with either increasingly more, or increasingly intense fantasies about men (I'm in a long term relationship with a female partner).

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.

You might ask why I'm splitting hairs like this. I gotta say it's because I feel like my kind of relationship gets somewhat slighted by these kinds of discussions...basically, your language is heteronormative, and I feel a need to point it out. From my perspective, the analog of your question would be "Are your sexual fantasies usually homosexual or bisexual?"...by your (apparent) meaning of bisexual, this should mean the exact same thing as your original question. But I think we'd all agree that it doesn't *sound* the same at all...but this is only due to heteronormative assumptions that fantasies about the opposite sex can't possibly be bisexual...but they can, if you allow that perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in homosexual relationships, just like perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in heterosexual relationships. The best solution is to not use "bisexual" to mean "with the sex opposite that of your partner", and use it to mean what it really means...and to be ok with using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" to mean what they really mean.

Meh...*steps off the soapbox*

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs :)

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?

[sysper]

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs :)

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?
i understand how this can be a bisexual fantasy even if it's not directly bisexual...........my "bisexual" fantasy is being with a man while a women watches especially if it's my wife/gf if i had 1, or his wife/gf. or if such a women encourages me to be with a man even if she has no intention of watching or any direct participation.

[Masterslave]

Hmmm when I think about giving, I think about sucking cock and being ass fucked. When I think about fucking, I think about mouths and ass, no matter what gender. I'm a sadist too so I'm an equal opportunity abuser if it's consensual. I must say tho, today, I really consider cunt only good for abuse. I'm glad my wife/slave agrees...

[Annika L]

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs :)

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?

*cough* lol

Um...I'm not sure what I said that was arousing...I think that part came from inside you.

But I agree that your fantasy is bisexual, as you describe it.

My issue is simply with the equation of bisexual = same-sex as an exception...when for me, same-sex is my usual, and it's hetero sex that would be the exception. You're not making this equation...so I'm afraid we can't fight about it *snerk*. We'll just have to wait for that Jesuit to weigh in.

[loveslace]

Definitely bi-sexual, involving my wife.

[whispering]

*cough* lol

Um...I'm not sure what I said that was arousing...I think that part came from inside you.

But I agree that your fantasy is bisexual, as you describe it.

My issue is simply with the equation of bisexual = same-sex as an exception...when for me, same-sex is my usual, and it's hetero sex that would be the exception. You're not making this equation...so I'm afraid we can't fight about it *snerk*. We'll just have to wait for that Jesuit to weigh in.

Any time girls with glasses talk about sex, no matter how dryly, it's arousing :) ...I wonder who might be dressing as a priest tonight--perhaps I can, ah, interview him.

[Annika L]

Any time girls with glasses talk about sex, no matter how dryly, it's arousing :) ...I wonder who might be dressing as a priest tonight--perhaps I can, ah, interview him.

Wait...are you calling me dry?? And what makes you think I have glasses? (beyond martini glasses...yeah, I plead guilty to those) Ok, damn it, I *do* wear glasses...but what have I said that tipped you off? (I do take them off during sex, btw, if that makes a difference. I see quite well without them.)

I'm pretty sure priests all over the country will be dressing as priests tonight...pretty sure they can't help themselves, so maybe you could help them *wink*.

[fatboytom]

Absolutely bi-sexual. :)

[bellavella]

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[loftycraig]

In the last few years, my fantasies have been primarily bisexual/gay oriented. Often about men or even more often about male body parts. It's this shift in fantasy that made me re-evaluate my Kinsey rating recently. In the past women were much more involved...although I still enjoy MMF porn a lot but I noticed my focus was more on the men's cocks now. yours mirrors my feelings

[cuttin2dachase]

My fantasies and sex dreams are mainly bisexual. Most involve mfm 3somes with me enjoying sex with her and him. But I also fantasize a lot about 1 on 1 mm sex and male group sex. My most exciting actual experiences as a bisexual man were in mfm 3somes with my 1st wife where I had sex with her and him. That's probably why mfm 3some fantasies are foremost.

My hottest str8 mf fantasy involves passionate lovemaking and being totally pampered by a very exotic Asian woman or by 2 exotic Asian women in a fmf 3some. I have a recurring sex dream along the same lines and one of those dreams was the most intense, lifelike wet dream I've ever had !

[mikeyd270]

I am bi but think about cock a lot and my fantasies lean more toward men.

[Switch53]

Mine used to be all female but over the last few years I find mine are gay or bisexual. Now to make it come true.

[johnnyb]

My sexual fantasies are usually about women, very orally focused fantasies. But I regularly have fantasies about sucking a nice sized cock, along with some great mmf fantasies.

[man4girlgirl4man]

They can be either or both depending on my sexual mood. My gay fantasies are usually the hottest

[mjohn]

my have been mostly about men but one about women can sneak in once in a while.

[cocklover911]

My sexual fantasies are men, but I am bisexual, I like a girls and want to have sex with her.

[bellavella]

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[Outofthis99999]

I've had the most straight sex in a long time these past few years. I still fantasize about the sex I've had with men. Very hot

[playtoy70]

Both for me both men and woman. I want to have a guy fuck me while I eat my wifes pussy. Then trade places have him eat her while I pound the hell out of his ass. I like to pound hard doesn't matter if its ass or pussy I'm rough and like to slam my cock hard.

[kyachan]

Hello, I am bisexual woman, too. and I don' t mind my sexual fantasies is men or women. before, I just like, I was so confused, most of the time what I can do is find some bisexual dating sites (http://www.bisexualdatingresources.com), such as www.datingbisexual.net, because only here, can I find someone I want. But now, I understand, I must accept myself and I should follow my heart. do you understand me? Follow your heart!

[naztypanty]

My fantasies fall on the two ends: straight or gay. I don't have that many that are "bisexual," meaning a sexual encounter with men and women at the same time.
I want a compliant, very horny, cock starved woman out in the woods. Or perhaps a half-dozen at once.
Or I want to be in a gay spa playing with a half dozen men.

[loftycraig]

I'm a bi female, but for the most part my sexual fantasies are about women. My sexual dreams that I can remember, are usually about men. When I view porn it is mostly about women, but I also enjoy male, gay porn (naked kombat ;)) . Of couse at different times I'm into different fatishes and fantasies, depending on my mood. Just wondering if other's fantasies are usually straight or bi?
bi male, late 60,s for last 10 or so yrs almost exclusively male

[TNT33852]

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.



New to this website and first time posting. I thought Annika's point was well made, and with it in mind, I have to say my fantasies are mainly bisexual. Mostly they involve my wife, I, and at least one other male guest star in all sorts of combinations. Ironically, I had been fantasizing about this for at least fifteen years before I realized I fell somewhere in the bisexual sphere (the folder of collected erotica has stories dating back to my Windows 95 PC, and the same theme was there even then). The really nice thing was the slow process of opening up to my wife and learning her fantasies primarily revolve around her and two men. The nicer thing was deciding those fantasies could become realities.

[void()]

Yes. :) ...

[void()]

My fantasies fall on the two ends: straight or gay. I don't have that many that are "bisexual," meaning a sexual encounter with men and women at the same time.
I want a compliant, very horny, cock starved woman out in the woods. Or perhaps a half-dozen at once.
Or I want to be in a gay spa playing with a half dozen men.

I too 'flip-flop' or do have fantasies of being the meat between a guy and gal. Thus, i responded, Yes. :)

[mcliff128]

My fantasies are mostly bisexual, with some gay fantasies also. It seems the older I get the less straight fantasies I seem to have.

[cheil77]

The more cock that I get the more I am fantasizing about guys and dicks. Still love pussy but something about a hot guy with a hard cock just gets me going. May also be ththat I've had a bunch of women and only a few men. My cock is throbbing and need dicks in my mouth and ass thinking about sex get me horny

[jackofbothtrades]

My sexual fantasies are primarily homosexual (usually about 2 men). On the other hand, my emotional desires and fantasies are mostly about women (I'm in love with one and we've started dating). I don't know why this is, I just accept it.

[lizard-lix]

Porn, all over the map.... Fantasies bi or MM.

[jackofbothtrades]

Mostly my fantasies are homosexual, usually involving 2 other men but I do have the occasional bisexual and straight fantasy.

[Safebutcraving]

Usually a bit of both but recently my fantasies have been leaning heavily to the bi end. My "go to" scenario is an MMF threesome with ex GF where I am made to suck cock before or after they fuck.

[Masscpl4fun]

I mostly fantasize about men lately

[Kylookin4fun]

Most of my fantasies are bisexual with me usually being taking by a dominant bisexual male who makes me his girlfriend.

[sysper]

about 1/2 each though i lean towards guys. but it's never an actual guy. with women sometimes it's someone famous, sometimes someone i know. my fantasies about women are deeper & more personal, with guys mostly about raw sex. it's easier to fantasize about guys i've lost faith in attracting women. it hurts too much sometimes it's easier to fantasize about guys cause i'm never nearly as disappointed i'm not getting any from guys, than i am from women.

[OlderBC1]

Mine have gone both ways. I'll dream about my wife & I in earlier days & what we did in bed, living room, the mini van on the highway, beach, etc. My bisexual fantasy/dreams started with neighbor buddy, I & my wife. I believe in 3-some's where we all share equally when it comes to sex. We both suck, lick & fuck her & each other. It's about giving pleasure as well as sharing the love equally. But These days, since she's past the change, she is also losing desire, & I dream about getting that back with other men or women or both. Or just me & another man that start by sucking each other's dicks, then to our balls, "rimming" as I think it's called nowadays. Then we might kiss to share our cum, then more sucking on the way to fucking each other.

[borntosuckcock]

Bi male and m fantasies are about evenly split between both sexes. I'm very oral and enjoy eating pussy as much as sucking cock. I'm turned on more by the looks and personality of the woman. With men, it's more about the looks of their cocks, as long as they are average looking.

[Thonguy]

For years I've thought of myself as bisexual. I check out the ladies but lately when I fantasize I think of being with a man. I use to have a lot of bisexual fantasies but I'm discovering that I am more gay than straight.

[fredtyg]

Mostly my fantasies are homosexual, usually involving 2 other men but I do have the occasional bisexual and straight fantasy.

Nearly always homosexual, but the last few weeks I've been wacking off to thoughts of a couple older women I know.

[csreef]

To be honest, I'd have to say that the majority of my fantasies are straight...Very rarely does it go to Bisexual...

[Ashley_girl]

I am a bi cd one of my sexual fantasies are to be used by multiple men both holes stuffed with big cock and filled with cum.

[WntsAdvntr]

Simultaneous! My biggest fantasy is to be strapped by a woman, while my cock is being sucked and I suck a cock. I love the melange.

[deecee63695]

Mine are definitely Bi. Mostly bi with a CD or TV. Both of these are so hard to find in Florida, been looking for over a year. And you would think since I travel the state so much for work that it would be easy, but not so much.

[InkDoc]

I'd say about 50/50. Lately, though, what gets me instantly aroused is thinking/daydreaming about sucking cock.

[LovingJacking]

Wow ... I would say mine vary quite a bit on that spectrum. Often I may start with a straight fantasy only to finish bisexual. Sometimes it stays straight, and sometimes it starts bi and then becomes more straight. I love the variety!

[BigAlNYC]

I would say it's about 2/3 women, 1/3 men. Never both at the same time, as they represent very different parts of my sexuality and personality. It really depends on the day too. Some days I find I'm really thinking entirely about men and cocks, other times it's all about women's bodies. I even look at different porn on different days.

[Franz007]

I guess some people here are mixing up things. Bisexual fantasies are fantasies about sex with a man and a woman together. Fantasies about sex with just the same sex is a gay or lesbian fantasy. Of course you can be bisexual and have gay fantasies, thats what is interesting about being bisexual ;-)

[sysper]

i'm glad i know there's someone out there that takes each sex separately. i like each sex for different reasons & mixing them togather would kinda be too much to keep track of. the mfm fantasy doesn't really work for me, unless she watched him & me togather, or better yet me & him took care of her :)~

[max617]

i almost never have straight fantasies any longer.....strictly trans,gay,and bi for this sissy!

[a2smith09]

I love variety and get bored easily with the same things. I like trying new and different things, so my fantasies vary from male to male sex, male and female sex, bisexual sex with more than one male, or more than one female, a bit of taboo thrown in every now and then, some B&D.

[AlmostNot]

My fantasies are usually an even mix. However, this one person (another male) makes his way in there constantly and usually stays for a while. This seems to happen in the summer and fall. Other than this fact, my fantasies are even.

[bw299]

Yes!:bigrin:

[whispering]

I love women, and when I masturbate I love to look at beautiful, naked, sexy women. When it comes to cumming, though, I almost always think of cocks. In fact, when I noticed that a few years ago, a light bulb went off and I decided to find guys who like to get naked and get hard.

[sysper]

I love women, and when I masturbate I love to look at beautiful, naked, sexy women. When it comes to cumming, though, I almost always think of cocks. In fact, when I noticed that a few years ago, a light bulb went off and I decided to find guys who like to get naked and get hard.
it's usually opposite with me, even if i'm thinking of guys when i masterbate when i cum it's all about girls. but it doesn't mean i wouldn't like to find guys who like to get naked & hard lol!

[BisexualPisces3192]

All My Sexual Fantasies Involve Having Sex With A Man, & With A Woman. They Are Bisexual

[Joboo]

Mostly straight, although the most frequent one is remembering a MFM my wife and I had. He had a much bigger penis than mine and it is quite an instant hard on when I think about that weekend. Then I imagine sucking his cock with her, I must admit I wanted to at the time but was afraid of her reaction. She doesn't know I've had a few moments.
Sad thing is the last day he was there they were having their "grand finally" as he was banging her from behind she started cumming and cumming hard. I had never been able to make her come from behind, on her knees ass up. After she came she sat up took him in her mouth, my face was about a foot away as he came. She took all of his come and he turned for the bathroom. She turned to me and started kissing me. Her mouth wasn't full as she had swallowed but I could taste him and some was on her lips and chin. She pulled back thanking me for letting her have her wild weekend. I could see his remnants around her mouth and licked him off her chin as I kissed her again. She had to know, I think she just didn't want to see me with him.

[bw299]

"Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?"


:oh:Yes!!!

[delpark]

I no longer have straight fantasies. Once in a while I'll have a fantasy of sucking a man off while his wife/gf watches or pegs me.

[querty]

Mostly straight, although the most frequent one is remembering a MFM my wife and I had. He had a much bigger penis than mine and it is quite an instant hard on when I think about that weekend. Then I imagine sucking his cock with her, I must admit I wanted to at the time but was afraid of her reaction. She doesn't know I've had a few moments.
Sad thing is the last day he was there they were having their "grand finally" as he was banging her from behind she started cumming and cumming hard. I had never been able to make her come from behind, on her knees ass up. After she came she sat up took him in her mouth, my face was about a foot away as he came. She took all of his come and he turned for the bathroom. She turned to me and started kissing me. Her mouth wasn't full as she had swallowed but I could taste him and some was on her lips and chin. She pulled back thanking me for letting her have her wild weekend. I could see his remnants around her mouth and licked him off her chin as I kissed her again. She had to know, I think she just didn't want to see me with him.

Super hot!

[snowcrazee]

Mine constantly vary between bi, straight, and transsexual.

[SilkyHoseLover]

3 years after my initial response to this question -- which was split down the middle between straight and BI -- I have a new answer: I still love women, but fantasize almost exclusively about assuming a feminine role with men. Or, better yet, with another gurl! My favorite porn involves CDs, transgenders, 'chicks with dicks', etc.

I get so hot thinking about being one of those beauties with nice tits and big cocks, or enjoying a passionate session with one. Thank Gore (snicker) for the internet and free porn!

[Shelby57]

My fantasies are pretty much exclusively bi. In them however, I am female.

[69plus1]

As most men my age I expect, my fantasies have evolved.
For some time they have included some bisexual play on my part. They last few years no matter how they start they end up with a cock shooting into my mouth, occasionally up my virgin ass.

[travelmanNW]

Most of my sexual fantasies are bi or gay. Always end up sucking cock and getting loads of cum shot into my mouth or over my face.

[Figaro]

My sexual fantasy always involves oral sex with another man. I stopped thinking about women during masterbation a long time ago. But when I'm out and about I pay attention only to women. Kinda weird huh?

[elmwood7]

Most of mine are of some form of a bisexual nature.

[borntosuckcock]

I fantasies are about both. I love a wet pussy to lick and suck on just as much as a cock. I enjoy giving more than receiving in my fantasies. For me to cum, I've got to get my partner off first. I always found fucking to be okay, but I preferred oral far more.

[eager4cum]

my fantasies change from day to day depending on my mood. sort of like food, never would eat Italian ALL the time, well, in sex, not interested in TG sex ALL the time, my mood changes and my fantasies go with it all the time.

[Southasian55]

For the last few years my sexual fantasies have been about topping a male ass...gets me really hot and hard! But these days, i am equally aroused by a nice cock in my ass....

[oldoralman]

My sexual fantasies are about 50/50. The women are usually only women I know where as I'll take most any cock I can get.

[BisexualPisces3192]

Porn: 65% Bisexual, 30% Gay, & 5% Straight.

Fantasies: 60% Male, 30% Female, & 10% MMF.

Dreams: 80% Male, & 10% Female.

[Usemeanywayuwant]

Mostly gay porn and MMF there's nothing sexier then a guy sucking cock. It just sends me over the edge. I think about it all the time, I don't care much for the fucking in porn. But I do like my ass pounded either females pegging me or a guy.
I love sucking cock for my girl. Because it turns her on so much and I have few but I want that one girl that brings some boys home for me to suck off. So when I get home and there's a guy there with my women I know exactly why.!

[ChiefH]

I watch a lot of BDSM porn and love watching a Dom male or female sexually use a man's cock for their pleasure! I have often fantasized of another man doing things to my cock and pegging me while I am tied up!! The last dream I had I was being pegged by a beautiful Dom female and sucking her Dom hubby's cock!!

[mike r]

Lately my fantasies run to me getting sucked by a woman, while I suck off a man...

[Cynthia_CD]

Most of mine are bi at least with a man and his wife or a little more hardcore with me and a bunch of guys.

[Robtiti]

Both for me.

[bbginva]

I fantasize about sex with men - not just the sex but the foreplay, the removal of clothes. The sex is mostly oral in these fantasies but occasionally anal. Porn watching used to be about 50-50 men and women, but lately has been 100% male.

[Jazminedress]

For me, I think its how you look at it. When dressed and in the thought process I am in, it is with men that I am thinking.....when not and in my day to day clothes, it is women. Almost like an on / off switch.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I went back a couple of pages to see if I'd responded to this before. Even if I had, the answer is almost certainly different now.

As I've matured and gained more BI experience, I find myself fantasizing more about intimacy with others who have male body parts, whether it's an actual male who enjoys playing with me while I'm dressed, or another 'gurl', like myself. I still love women's bodies and am attracted to them on an emotional level, but I don't often fantasize about sex with them, because would be incompatible with my marriage.

[Grant_Norman]

Although I have always loved pussy, the last 3 years of very active bi, I almost always exclusively fantasize about a cock in my mouth or ass...just feels so very good...;like nothing else.

[KDaddy23]

My brain has a XXX movie rating; I'm always thinking about sex with men and women and I couldn't begin to parse out any numbers or percentages...

[redw1ne4me]

The world needs more like you Belle.

I’m a bi married guy and I wish my wife would watch gay (or bi) porn with me. That would be so hot! For me personally, it’s gay or sometimes bi porn that gets me going. Hot girl on girl porn is hella exciting as well.

[Robtiti]

Hot girl on girl porn is hella exciting as well.
This.

[Tight1-4u]

For sure pretty much all gay porn and fantasies.. being sub oral bottom guy it is about a man or groups of men using me at their will..

[Sundazzled]

Over the last 15 years or so, my fantasies have become increasingly bisexual, or gay, and this clones sides with a gradual increase in the frequency of my sexual encounters with other men. I am not sure why the metamorphosis, but I haven’t been with a woman sexually since September 2015, and frankly I don’t miss it. Innoway, it all sort of makes sense. By middle-age, most women have lost interest in the sexuality, but that leaves a lot of frustrated man who ultimately she got another man for sexual release. Also, the point needs to be made thst nobody knows what feels better to a man than another man. My sexual encounters with other guys have Generally been intensely erotic experiences, and thus, I spend a lot of time fantasizing about the next time.

[couriousandolder]

I have always had the fantasy of having my cock sucked while being fucked in the ass.just the thought of it gets my precum flowing.

[D2227s]

For me it depends on which way the wind is blowing. Sometimes it's men, sometimes it's women, sometimes it's both. I like to think of myself as a sexual free agent...

When I'm people watching I'll fantasize about a good looking woman walking by but I do the same with a man...often wondering if he's thinking the same thing. I'll jerk off to it later that day when I get home.

Watching porn it's usually frot, pegging or MMF.

[whistle1]

If you're talking about porn, it's all over the place depending on my mood - straight, bi, gay, lesbian, trans. If you're talking about fantasy, it's mostly pretty (or at least passable) trans women.

[Annika L]

Five years ago yesterday, I made the observations below. And I feel exactly the same today regarding all of it.


I would say pretty close to 50/50 for me...but with either increasingly more, or increasingly intense fantasies about men (I'm in a long term relationship with a female partner).

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.

You might ask why I'm splitting hairs like this. I gotta say it's because I feel like my kind of relationship gets somewhat slighted by these kinds of discussions...basically, your language is heteronormative, and I feel a need to point it out. From my perspective, the analog of your question would be "Are your sexual fantasies usually homosexual or bisexual?"...by your (apparent) meaning of bisexual, this should mean the exact same thing as your original question. But I think we'd all agree that it doesn't *sound* the same at all...but this is only due to heteronormative assumptions that fantasies about the opposite sex can't possibly be bisexual...but they can, if you allow that perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in homosexual relationships, just like perfectly normal (bisexual) people can be in heterosexual relationships. The best solution is to not use "bisexual" to mean "with the sex opposite that of your partner", and use it to mean what it really means...and to be ok with using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" to mean what they really mean.

Meh...*steps off the soapbox*

[al_atlanta]

Agree with Annika L

[Bisexual 69]

ÃŽmi place să sug pula și să ling pizda!

[LVTOGP]

Most of mine are gay/ bi through ya just because I am in a mostly strait relationship and don’t get that satisfaction anymore, my girl pegging or big toys are definitely pleasing, but feeling a man grab hold and force his way in is hard to compare with rubber

[Biappeal]

I have 100% gay fantasies, only watch gay porn, only chat with guys and am looking for a gay lover. mmmmm I wonder what that means!

[Birob67]

Mine are both
I fantasize about fucking women, but also about sexy encounters in steam rooms with hot guys. Lately I've been
Fantasizing about being with a ladyboy from Thailand.

[Annika L]

I have 100% gay fantasies, only watch gay porn, only chat with guys and am looking for a gay lover. mmmmm I wonder what that means!

Yeah...makes one wonder about your username.

[thinkimightry1]

Mine about 70% Ladyboy or bi...30% straight... If I was asked this five years ago...70% straight...30% bi... Even though I have never been with a guy...I'm looking forward to losing my cherry to someone that understands or gentle enough to teach me ….That will let me suck on their cock until I get it right...lol...

[bw299]

Unequivocally YES!

[zgay73]

Bisexual, with a slight leaning towards men.

[Robocock]

Sometimes female sometimes male but quite a few are both together..

[xdoorb]

Depends on my mood. Sometimes 100% female, sometimes 100% male, usually both all mixed up, skipping from one to the other.

[NerdyBiGuy]

Usually bi, sometimes just girls.

[beemerbum69s]

Usually bisexual here...shemales, ladyboys, transsexuals, etc.

[eager4cum]

my fantasies change from day to day depending on my mood. sort of like food, never would eat Italian ALL the time, well, in sex, not interested in TG sex ALL the time, my mood changes and my fantasies go with it all the time.

but i must say, a majority of them seem to include sucking a cock

[Basin_Bouy]

Homosexual for me

[hardcurve]

My choice in porn is varied, but mostly involves women, though love if the vid includes a cock spurting. My fantasies however are mostly about other males, and often involve him cumming on me just before I cum.

[Warren63]

50/50. Most include my wife and another guy.I would of loved a MFM 3 some.

[beemerbum69s]

I would have to admit they're bisexual!

[ocaladouglas]

for me it varies. I have oten dreamed or fantasized aout both sexes male and female. one on one or more. It depends on mood and wants and what I have been getting lately. I would say as of lately most of my fantasies as of lately are threesomes or more involving my wife with one or more other guys all participating. as far as opposite sex of my bi personality I have a coworker I dream about often lately

[Biwolf]

More straight. I prefer women, but I do like shemales. I have not been with a man for more than a year.

[Zoom1969]

Most of my fantasies have always been Bi. But as I have gotten older I tend to fantasize more about guys! I have a close male friend that I have always been really attracted to... We have such an amazing connection! He has no idea that I have been with guys or are attracted to guys. A couple of times I have almost told him about my sexuality. But don't want to jeopardize our friendship. Most of my fantasies lately involve him. I fantasize often about doing sexual things with him!!

[zgay73]

More men these days.

[fredward]

I find that it varies depending on my mood and circumstance. Usually, when I'm with a guy or a girl, I need a straight mental image to cum. But when I'm jerking off on my own, it's 60-40 gay vs. straight fantasy.

[69plus1]

As a bi man most of my fantasies involve me sucking a cock. Lots of mmf with plenty of m2m action. Sometimes pure gay.

[Birob67]

Most of my fantasies are bi threesomes, mainly with ladyboys or shemales, i do have the occasional fantasy of being joined in lockeroom shower...

[DocLuvin]

When I’m Engaged in a Cumulus Blowout, I’m definitely interested in getting together with another Firmed Stroking Partner!

[Footstep40]

Just guys.

[lilcock4u]

Mine are becoming more gay

[loftycraig]

im bi. most fantasies are men