who thinks their fantasies are somewhat strange?

[starknakedbiman]

give us an idea of what you would rather do? A) just keep fantasizing because you can't ask your other half to do what you are fantasizing about? or B) go to an Escort or some stranger to let them do what your asking insted?4darkred

[Diane54]

I M going to just keep fantacising because He would never agree to me being attacked by a gang of women for sex. His psyche would not survive it. He has a hard enough time with me being Bi. But if I were not attached a gang of strangers would be fun.

[ophelia_in_red]

Neither of those options really apply to me.. My boyfriend is totally okay with me doing stuff with women, so he doesn't get in the way of me fulfilling that kind of fantasy. And the other ones - the dark, dirty ones I don't tell anyone about - I wouldn't really want realised anyway. I know that the reality would be very different from my imagined scenarios!

[scorpio9]

My gf doesn't want me playing with anyone else . . .for now . . . . . . . . so I just fantasize, either on my own or doing cyber. Mine is playing the slut for a guy or two, with my gf either playing with, or taking pictures . . . . . I'm not sure why it's a turn on, but it is.

[JrzGuy3]

Neither of those options really apply to me.. My boyfriend is totally okay with me doing stuff with women, so he doesn't get in the way of me fulfilling that kind of fantasy.

That's could very well be because you're fulfilling some of hsi fantasies at the same time.


And the other ones - the dark, dirty ones I don't tell anyone about - I wouldn't really want realised anyway. I know that the reality would be very different from my imagined scenarios!

You haven't read the fetish thread, have you? :tongue:

[cchalmer]

I guess this is another reason why I'm so lucky to have Curiouslady in my life. We are very open about our lives and sex. To the point that we spend some time discussing our fantasies. We are comfortablel enough with each other that we can discuss anything no matter how "kinky" or wierd. And I'm happy to say that we have lived out a couple of them and plan to do more in the future.

[EludedSunshine]

...Of my many, many fantasies, one is being a flapper girl back in the roaring 20's who, over an extended period of time, discovers and explores her own bisexuality through likeminded but more experienced ladies. Strange? Perhaps. Within the realm of possibility? Nah, not really. And before anyone reminds me that I could easily roleplay a scenario like this, it just would not be the same. I want the whole 1920's experience, not just the girl-sex and silly costumes. I'd rather keep it fantasy than live it and have it be subpar.

Segue, segue... If at all possible (and barring my shyness), I would prefer to play out my fantasies with my partner. Many of my fantasies, however, are things that my partner can't fulfill for one reason or another. In these cases, I *might* go to a stranger (completely with the partner's knowledge, of course). Part of me thinks that I could do this with relative comfort, but then the other part of me remembers that my sex drive is ten miles ahead of the rest of me--which is hiding behind a large piece of furniture. :bigrin: