Girls penetrating Guys

[lunfun12]

Hi all,

Me and my partner are a mid-twenties bi couple who are looking intoduce a strap-on into the relationship. We're both really turned on by the idea of her riding me but have to admit we don't know where to start. Could anyone give advice as to what strap-on to use, how slow to go etc? Or any personal experiences they've had?

Any help would be really appreciated :)

Lunfun12

[JrzGuy3]

Hey, welcome to the group!

We had a similar discussion on this recently; most common complaints about strap ons are that while the ideas fun it can be a cumbersome part of sex; you need to stop things, fumble around with snaps and buckles and get things situated and while the end result is fun it can be annoying.

We had another discussion here about one called the FeelDoe (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=432), you might wanna check that out.

Good luck!

[bearisbare]

I don't think there's a particular name-brand of strap-on harness that is best. so much as whatever feels pleasureable to the one that wears it. Many harnesses have varying sizes that are aimed, for example, at smaller and medium builds, and exclude larger-framed people from the chance to use them.

My wife and a previous lover both use the Crown (a brand that has sizes for all frames). Once one gets through the fumbling around the first time in getting it on oneself, then future times can be more interesting, more anticipatory. Sure, it does take some time for it to get on oneself, but while she's preparing it, I quite enjoy knowing that something good is going to happen very soon. ;-)

[CountryLover]

Personally I don't like the IMpersonal feel of a strap-on. My hubby and I like the hands-on approach much better. I can feel his responses and really enjoy his orgasms(he's very multi-orgasmic this way!).

Our favorite position is having him lie on his left side (because I'm right handed) and then I 'spoon' him and curl up around his back/butt. That gives me lots of freedom of movement and room to play with him all over ;)

It's a terrific feeling and an emotional high to see his pleasure and know that I could give it to him.

[Rhuth]

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Oh! I like latex gloves with cotton balls in the fingertips to make sure my pretty fingernails don't make things uncomfortable. Always fun to warm up with increasing numbers of fingers until he is ready. ;)

P.S. Hubby says Liquid Silk (http://www.goodvibes.com/item--i-2-2-FL-BE12.html). Actually... he is going on and on about lots of lube right now.