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dan.woodlawn
Feb 20, 2020, 8:18 AM
I am curious how people developed their kinks...and what the path was...For all your kinksters out there with multiples, just pick your best one.

I tried to make this a poll, and it failed.

It was a gradual building upon smaller activities
I was exposed to it at a younger age by friends/adults
My partner exposed me to it and I never turned back
I saw it on porn, and love it
I have no clue how it happened

dan.woodlawn
Feb 20, 2020, 8:21 AM
for me, it was a gradual progression from I liked blowing my friends, to liking swallowing, to threesomes, to group...each building on the last.

MAcpl69
Feb 20, 2020, 9:34 AM
I would say gradually but I wish it was a faster progression. I think I would have been a great slut.

eager4cum
Feb 20, 2020, 10:04 AM
I am curious how people developed their kinks...and what the path was...For all your kinksters out there with multiples, just pick your best one.

I tried to make this a poll, and it failed.

My kink or fetish is eating cum.

It was a gradual building upon smaller activities - for me, my kink grew from a fast start. does that make sense? I mean that I started very young swallowing my own cum and then my best friend's cum. Over the years, porn helped reinforce my passion for more cum in more ways (like snowballing)

I was exposed to it at a younger age by friends/adults - yes, I was very young and my best friend helped me with it.

My partner exposed me to it and I never turned back - I can only wish my partner was more into it.

I saw it on porn, and love it - like I said above, porn definitely helped reinforce cum eating as a kink / fetish

I have no clue how it happened - no, I know, I started as a way to keep masturbating secrete from family members by cleaning up the mess (eating my cum)

cornholejoe
Feb 20, 2020, 4:48 PM
just happen over time

zbi73
Feb 20, 2020, 7:20 PM
I've always had a fascination with bareback anal (not partaken) from the first time I saw it in porn.

Grant_Norman
Feb 20, 2020, 9:53 PM
No real kink...just started sucking cocks at 7 and have always enjoyed it...but really made a lot of detours to pussy...glad to be back to cocks....MM sex is great...just sex

Neonaught
Feb 21, 2020, 2:22 PM
I've always had a fascination with bareback anal (not partaken) from the first time I saw it in porn.

I love to go bare when it's safely possible. The feeling of skin on skin and the inner heat of his body are just so good!

Tight1-4u
Feb 21, 2020, 10:20 PM
My kink I hard rough sex!! I had been talking to a guy for a few weeks trying to figure out a meet.. So it came down to me driving 50 miles to the next bigger city at 3am to meet him before work.. so I did.. I met him in a dark parking lot about a half block off the road.. when I got out of my jeep he pinned me against the side of it with his hands around my throat and leaned down and kissed me driving his tongue down my throat.. then he literally tore my clothes from me tearing my shirt and shredding my gym shorts to pieces.. I was naked and kinda in shock.. then he pushes me to my knees and slaps my face with his cock.. which was 9+” and rather thick.. he forces it in my mouth and down my throat.. he grabs me by the hair of my head and face fucks me till he is very hard.. he then pulls me up by my hair and pushes me over the seat of my Jeep.. I feel him pour oil on my ass and rub it on my pussy.. He pushes one finger in me then two then three.. Then I feel the head of his cock sliding in my ass crack looking for my pussy hole.. When he finds it he stops a moment and just pushes enough to start to spread me open.. I could feed me relaxing and him starting to enter me..Then with one big thrust he went balls deep picking me up off my feet.. my knees went weak.. I lost my breath and my mind went fuzzy.. Then he started fucking me hard.. driving full deep.. I was moaning and gasping for air.. He spanked me pulled my hair dug his fingers in my hips hard enough to leave bruises.. he pound fucked me like there was no tomorrow for about an hour.. then he drove deep inside me and blew his seed deep inside me.. when he fell out of me he pushed me against my Jeep and kissed me again.. told me I had just been raped.. grabbed my clothes what little was left of them and jumped in his truck and left.. there I was naked his seed running down my legs.. I was in my Jeep Wrangler with no doors on it.. again naked and 50 miles away from home.. so I grabbed a fowl from behind the seat and head for home.. kinda shook up by what had happened but feeling dry amazing being freshly fucked.. on the drive home I realize that I enjoyed my night.. I wanted to be treated like that more and fucked like that more.. I didn’t know at the time but learned that I am submissive bottom.. I love being treated slutty and fucked hard..

softheart
Feb 22, 2020, 2:13 PM
I am curious how people developed their kinks...and what the path was...For all your kinksters out there with multiples, just pick your best one.

I tried to make this a poll, and it failed.

It was a gradual building upon smaller activities
I was exposed to it at a younger age by friends/adults
My partner exposed me to it and I never turned back
I saw it on porn, and love it
I have no clue how it happened

I guess for me the kinks have always been there to some degree. I've had boyfriends who made me feel safe letting me express myself sexually, but it takes time. I can't just go in there wanting it all.
One kink I have is that I like a guy who has not had a vasectomy. It's a major plus for me.
Every now and then after a week without sex, I like a boyfriend to be smelly and sweaty. After a few drinks he goes cave man on me! To me it feels very raw and primal!

Long Duck Dong
Feb 23, 2020, 10:30 AM
boredom during sex, is what had me exploring my kink.... I get bored very quickly without mental stimulation and physical sex just does not stimulate my mind.... so I explored BDSM and role play and it went from there....

overit
Feb 23, 2020, 7:56 PM
Gradual for me. Stated with prostate play and discovered anal play with a realistic dildo soon after. From there, you start to wonder what a hard cock buried deep in your ass feels like.