Do cocksuckers have to be submissive?

[SuckerMC]

Or can they be the aggressor and in control?

[jem_is_bi]

I can be flexible about who is in control.
But, I prefer it to be me.
However, I am not an aggressive person.

[Waylon]

The act of getting on your knees and letting a man put his hard cock in your mouth for you to suck and make him cum is basically a submissive act. Sure you can be aggressive and demonstrate excellent skills and be in control but basically you are sucking cock like a good whore. When I was dating girls in college I always made sure they gave me head whenever I wanted it and if they balked, they walked. Getting your cock sucked is a dominant desire imho and when your partner somplies, he or she is submitting to your desire.

[Jazminedress]

well, considering I can stop and leave you hanging (pun intended), and If I do it correct, you are willing to do what ever I ask at that time.......................hell yes I can be in control

[cbxer66]

well, considering I can stop and leave you hanging (pun intended), and If I do it correct, you are willing to do what ever I ask at that time.......................hell yes I can be in control

Got that straight! ;-)

[SuckerMC]

I see it both ways. I think the cocksucker knowing his or her feeder can also determine who has control.

[SuckerMC]

This cocksucker had full control of that cock.

https://www.xvideos.com/video23314476/boy24_verbal_feeding_unedited_

[Fred_Brice]

Often, I can be flexible, about who is in control and like others have posted. Normally I am not an aggressive person and if I had a choice, I would prefer it to be me in control, but willing to roll play, with others if needed!

[SuckerMC]

I mean aggressor not in the over dominate sense but the one who is in control in the moment.

[GayGuy04]

This cocksucker had full control of that cock.

https://www.xvideos.com/video23314476/boy24_verbal_feeding_unedited_

Guys know how to work a guy

[MAcpl69]

I don't think any form of oral sex makes you submissive. I think both my wife and I are usually neutral, once and awhile we role play, and then either can take charge.

[playful808]

> Do cocksuckers have to be submissive?

No, of course not. The one with the teeth is in control.
Intuitively, getting sucked is more passive than Sucking, which is an action.

But I am pretty vanilla. Never sub or dom.
To me, the question doesn’t even make sense.

[KDaddy23]

Depend on how one cares to look at it. I can get on my knees - or in some other position - and suck a dick and I've never felt submissive but I've felt that I'm the one running the show. I've had guys command me to get on my knees and suck them... and I've just looked at them and asked, "Who are you talking to?" - they've either apologized (because they want their dick sucked) or try to get all macho with me... and wind up not getting sucked. I guess I get left out of the "submissive cock sucker" club because I don't suck dick to primarily make the other guy happy; he gets to be happy because sucking cock makes me happy. Yeah... pretty selfish and I admit that freely. When I'm the one being sucked I know I'm at the other person's mercy and I'm very aware that they didn't have to agree to do it. I can't speak to how they feel about it - do they feel submissive? Actually feeling pretty dominant? Don't know - I'm just happy that they chose to blow me.

The question kinda makes sense given the number of guys here who say that sucking dick makes or allows them to be submissive and the pleasure they receive by being able to service a guy - and if that's what works, it works and just as sucking cock and not feeling the least bit submissive does. End of the day, did you suck the dick the way you wanted and needed to?

[camelblue]

Definitely can go both ways. Imagine a shy guy that let's you have his cock basically as your own personal toy. You can do whatever you wish with it. You're the one that wants his cum, he's just along for the ride. In that scenario, you are the aggressor.

Then the opposite would be a more dominant guy that really wants YOU to SUCK his cock. He really wants to get off and blow his load, and you are his way to make that happen. Then you are submitting to his pleasure.

Depending who the guy is, sometimes it feels like you are taking his cum from him for your own selfish pleasure, or sometimes it feels like he is giving you his cum. I personally prefer that submissive feeling of being used a bit, and being fed his cum. Either way, all I know is, when that hot white milk starts shooting out of that dickhole, he's experiencing indescribable pleasure and satisfaction and I always remind myself that as I taste and swallow it.

[zbi73]

I'd say they could easily be both and would depend on both participants.

[SilkyHoseLover]

This cocksucker had full control of that cock.

https://www.xvideos.com/video23314476/boy24_verbal_feeding_unedited_

OMG! Amazing blowjob! I'm thinking that young man has to be a musician -- with training in 'circular breathing'.

Gotta hand it to the recipient, too. Magnificent cock, and what self-control! Excellent video!

[Neonaught]

This cocksucker had full control of that cock.

https://www.xvideos.com/video23314476/boy24_verbal_feeding_unedited_

That boy has some mad skillz!!!

[eager4cum]

well, I think the cock sucker can easily be in control. think of the feeder lying on a bed and the cock sucker getting on top and sucking aggressively. not so submissive now. In my opinion, does not really matter as long as both enjoy the experience and the cum

[Roddmann]

I’m not a submissive kind of person, but enjoy every side of sex. I haven’t been with a ton of guys but all have been basically like me. We just want a good time and enjoy the pleasure. If someone were to get dominant with me , they would probably be told to go fuck themselves. Same way with a woman. I told my wife along time ago I didn’t want a doormat, I like when she fights back, that to me is a huge turn on.

[marine20]

no, cocksuckers don't have to be submissive , but when i'm on my knees sucking cock , maybe being called dirty names , i feel very submissive , and i like the feeling . it's so erotic and dirty .

[Engman69]

Submission is a state of mind.

Being on one's knees, mouth full, eyes locked on the owner of the meat being feasted upon doesn't make me submissive. Especially when I know and want to be the one in control.

in this role I can take my mate to anyplace I wish so long as he gives the control to me. Once I relent or he decides to take control back is when things can really heat up.

The idea of two vying for control in pleasuring the other is pretty damn hot. I like the idea of the pendulum swinging back and forth between us until a clear victor, whether by design or mindset, emerges.

[MorThan7]

No they don't. The same with an anal bottom. The submissive and dominant role is the state of mind, and not the act.

[cougar333]

All cocksuckers like myself have to be very submissive. i love being on one's knees, mouth full of a man's cock. Awaiting him to drop his cum in my miuth turns me on just thinking about it. When that hot cum starts shooting out of that beutiful cock I have that indescribable pleasure and satisfaction that I have pleased this man. I embrace without question being a submissive gay cocksucker.The taste and swallowing a man's cum is such a pleasure and I take in every drop and thank him for me being able o pleasure him.

[NakedInSeattle]

MorThan7 is right on. Most cocksuckers know who is in control. And when I'm done they thank me before I have the chance to thank them.

[Annika L]

Mmm. Not when I do it.

[TXLonestarTX69]

Do a search for "Throat it Boy" He has lots of videos some of which are fairly aggressive throat fucking.

[TXLonestarTX69]

The post above is in reference to this...


OMG! Amazing blowjob! I'm thinking that young man has to be a musician -- with training in 'circular breathing'.

Gotta hand it to the recipient, too. Magnificent cock, and what self-control! Excellent video!

[Rest85]

I suppose the when I am sucking a cock, I could be in control by controlling my speed, action of my tongue, etc, etc., or i could even stop altogether. But I'm not going to do that unless he get's physically aggressive. When I'm on my knees I am in a submissive state of mind for his superior cock and I want him to know it, too. In that moment, I am his slut. He's the dom.

[fredward]

Not for me. I don't do submissive play, having had a few (non-sexual) trust issues with guys over the years. I'm really happy to please you if I can, orally or some other way. Maybe you'll do the same for me too.

But call me a name like cockslut and it's an instant turn off and I'll tell you how I feel. If you keep doing it or try some rougher play like trying to face fuck me, I'll stop sucking your cock and walk away.

This has only happened a couple of times, usually at a sauna where a guy just doesn't understand when I say I don't like it.

I appreciate I may be very much in the minority here, and please, you be you, by all means.

[csreef]

It all depends on how you look at things.

In the world of S & M, a submissive has a lot of power, as they consensually give up their power to a Dominant, and can stop a scene whenever they want.

In the eyes of others, submissives are often looked down on as being weak and needy.

[skuz69]

When you've got a guy's cock in your mouth, who's really the one in control?

[swvsucker]

Is it possible? Sure. Does it risk messing up the experience for him? Absolutely. When I am on my knees sucking a guys cock I am 100% submissive. His pleasure is all I car about. I am there to worship his cock and give him everything he needs. The very act place me in a sub mentality.

[KDaddy23]

Coming back to this, I say that, no, cocksuckers don't have to be submissive although the act has always been seen as a submissive one and I honestly don't know why other than one does submit to perfoming the act and "submit" in the form of agreeing to do it - when it's done with consent. But if being a submissive cocksucker and one who is 100% about giving the other guy pleasure and letting him have his way with your mouth is what works for you, then it is what it is. Me? I'm anything but submissive. I'm the one running the show and in control of his pleasure; I can give it or I can take it away and if he gets mad should I choose to... deprive him, well, too bad, homey. This isn't just about you and I don't know why you think it is but I'm not the one.

[dicktrobing]

Dominance and submission has nothing to do with activity being carried out butt who is directing / controlling that activity.

A Top can give their sub a BJ if its part of the play, eg the sub could be restrained nipple clamped butt plugged or even being but fucked by another

Try not to put Dominance and submission into a box ................ it never fits :bigrin:

[chtampa]

Why does sex have to be a dominating thing at all? For humans it is supposed to be an enjoyable, or reproductive thing, and any females I have known that wanted forceful things like pulling of hair or choking or holding her down had issues from their childhood. Is it much of a stretch to see where the logic of this is going?

[Jozyxt]

I look on sucking men as a pleasure I take from them. Just like I do going down on women. I really enjoy bring a person to an orgasm and try to take pride in doing it well. For feeding guys, I take and attitude of giving them the pleasure of sucking me. Sex is a partnership. Cocksuckers can take a sub attitude and display that through sucking. But it isn't inherent in sex.

[phalluster]

Although I am in the position of only fantasizing about sucking cock, the fantasy is all about two men sharing their cocks and their horn pleasure, not about one dominating the other. I have no interest in being dominated, nor in dominating and its good to hear that most cocksucking men see it the same way. And I agree that vid shows a cocksucker controlling the cock and the other man's pleasure. The man with the beautiful cock is at the cocksucker's mercy.

[sissyjackie]

Not sure but I do know as a cock sucker I love it when the man calls me names and tells me how good of a job I am doing. it gets me off, I just love sucking cock.

[Luv2bi_95020]

I don’t like being called names. I have on occasion dropped to my knees and started sucking a cock because I like the feeling of it getting hard in my mouth.
Given all that’s been said that is probably why my favorite cock sucking after we get started in s being in a 69 with each of us sucking each other at the same time.
Then it becomes a mutually pleasing each other simultaneously rather than a dominance/submissive issue.
Once we’ve done that then I feel much better about sucking him or him sucking me individually, at that point it’s just become a thing where I love the look and feel of a dick in my mouth and I also like getting my dick sucked.
Now as to the video of the guy that was in control of that other guys beautiful dick, that reminded me of one guy I deep throated that had a full nine inch long dick. I liked the challenge of seeing how far down I could go… far enough that I had his dick so far down my throat that I actually had both his balls in my mouth at the same time, I suppose no tonsils and some practice has left me with almost no gag reflex.
That was fun!

[KDaddy23]

Dominance and submission has nothing to do with activity being carried out butt who is directing / controlling that activity.

A Top can give their sub a BJ if its part of the play, eg the sub could be restrained nipple clamped butt plugged or even being but fucked by another

Try not to put Dominance and submission into a box ................ it never fits :bigrin:

I tend to agree but I've noticed for the longest time that we - bi guys (but not all) - tend to talk about it in terms like top, bottom, dom and sub. When I first noticed this, I wondered how and when BDSM terms joined the cocksucking party but just noted it. I also noticed that in porn, wow - I'd see men and women being made to suck dick in ways that I still find abhorrent and that's a great departure from sucking a dick and I wondered if, at that time, porn was having a "bad influence" on guys who wanted their dick sucked and the guys who wanted to suck dick. I'm not saying that there aren't people who'd just let a guy use their mouth and in any way he feels like doing but at the high level of things, it's never been a thing about being dominant or submissive - it's about giving and receiving a blowjob. I understand why the person giving the blowjob is seen as being in a submissive role - that goes way back in history where women were said to be weaker and submissive to the sexual demands of a man and, I guess, it stuck - and now, with the emergence of a lot of male cocksuckers, it "applies" to us as well.

And it's an individual thing. It's a personality thing. Can be a part of D/s stuff not if you're not into this, methinks tagging cocksuckers as submissive is a "mistake." I feel that it sends the wrong message about male cocksuckers because like I said, I'm not submissive and thinking that I am because I suck dick is also a mistake. I love sucking dick. Love making a guy moan, groan, curse, and definitely love making him cum. I have never been of a mind that I'm doing it just to make him happy; it's something I learned to find a great deal of pleasure in doing and if I'm happy doing it, it's a safe bet that he'll be happy, too, but if not, well, sorry about that but I had fun doing it. I grew up understanding that cocksucking is a mutually pleasing thing for two guys to do. It wasn't about dominance or submissiveness - it was let me suck your dick, get you to cum, then you do the same for me. Giving a no-reciprocation blowjob, in my opinion, is not being submissive; I've given them because that's what I wanted to do but if he wanted to blow me, I wasn't going to say no. Well, okay, if you insist.

Then again, I don't think like this and I'm not really sure why there are a lot of guys who do - and I say this without any offense; if that's how you see yourself, it is what it is... but it's not an all-encompassing thing for all male cocksuckers.

[licyou69]

I can see a scenario where I wasn't being submissive while going down on someone, but I prefer to be submissive. I corresponded with a guy that I never met up with that wanted to play out such a scenario. I would be in a position of authority requiring him to let me to go down on him in the scenario.

[marine20]

no , you don't have to be submissive , but it helps. i find that when i'm sucking someones cock i automatically feel submissive, how can you not feel that way ? that is not a bad thing , for me it heightens the pleasure i get. i LOVE to be called dirty names while sucking , especially if a wife or girlfriend is there watching and doing the name calling. i really love being called a cocksucker , faggot , or queer . once at an ABS , a younger guy said '' oh ,daddy likes to suck cock doesn't he ? daddy knows how to suck cock real good. '' i don't get that often enough , i just love it !

[jjourneyman]

I used to work for a woman. She was a highly successful realtor who owned her own agency. Married, kids, the whole thing. But when we got together, she was a submissive as a kitten. It was her way of letting go and being told what to do to please me.

At work and at home she was a ball buster. But there were times when we were away in a hotel, she just wanted to be the little slut and get fucked as hard as anyone could. And I did.

Dominance is a state of mind, as is submissive. It's all about knowing what your partner wants at any given time.

[Rest85]

Or can they be the aggressor and in control?

I don't guess a cocksucker HAS to be submissive but that's my mode when I am pleasuring another man's hard dick. I like being sub.

[kneelsoften]

Here's what is wrong about this statement: A man can put his cock wherever he likes. If he tries a hole and it isn't satisfactory, he's gonna go somewhere else, and not come back. How is that for control? You need to understand that a man will NEVER need your mouth (or any other hole), as much as you need his cock.

Any illusions that you control his cock are destined to be brief and permanently over.

[kneelsoften]

well, considering I can stop and leave you hanging (pun intended), and If I do it correct, you are willing to do what ever I ask at that time.......................hell yes I can be in control

Here's what is wrong about this statement: A man can put his cock wherever he likes. If he tries a hole and it isn't satisfactory, he's gonna go somewhere else, and not come back. How is that for control? You need to understand that a man will NEVER need your mouth (or any other hole), as much as you need his cock.

Any illusions that you control his cock are destined to be brief and permanently over.

[hung4you]

Me persoannly don't understand the whole submissive/ dominant features. Whether I'm sucking cock or fucking its a mutual understanding between 2 consenting men. We both know before hand what's on the menu, and except the fact that things may become heated ion the moment.

[ExploringTampa]

Oh. I fully agree SuckerMC. And wow. That video is hot.

[newtococksucking]

All cocksuckers like myself have to be very submissive. i love being on one's knees, mouth full of a man's cock. Awaiting him to drop his cum in my miuth turns me on just thinking about it. When that hot cum starts shooting out of that beutiful cock I have that indescribable pleasure and satisfaction that I have pleased this man. I embrace without question being a submissive gay cocksucker.The taste and swallowing a man's cum is such a pleasure and I take in every drop and thank him for me being able o pleasure him.

I want to be a submissive cocksucker so bad!!

[JeffT]

Well.....I guess I don't have to be submissive but I definitely love having a guy make me suck his cock. I enjoy the sense of complete surrrender when shoots it all and I can feel his spasms.

[Tight1-4u]

No but I might suggest that it dose help!!! Being on your knees or crawling between his spread legs and looking up into his eyes as his cock disappears into your mouth and throat is very submissive behavior.. sucking hid balls and slobbering all over them,, gaging again submissive behavior., face it you may not feel girly but you are submitting to his masculinity.., I personally love the feeling of submissiveness.. knowing I have given over control to him., knowing I will give him everything that he wants.. giving him my pussy to fuck how he pleases.. I have done everything he needed to blow his load deep inside of my pussy.,

[DMercator]

Personally, I was amazed to discover how empowering it was to make another man cum. It seems like a contradiction to be on your knees and feel empowered, but in that moment his cock is mine. I literally have his balls in my hands and I'm taking him down a road I'm intimately familiar with (because I've been on the receiving end so many times before). I feel a sense of confidence and control that I've rarely felt making love to a woman. When it's over, there's a sense of accomplishment, even triumph. I did that. I made his knees weak and and his heart race. I made him whimper with pleasure and give up his load. He didn't just cum; I made him cum. And, given a chance, I could do it again.

I think back to all the impish smiles my wife would give me after a blow job, that teasing twinkle in her eyes as she wiped a drop of cum from her lips and now I get it.

[ExploringTampa]

Personally, I was amazed to discover how empowering it was to make another man cum. It seems like a contradiction to be on your knees and feel empowered, but in that moment his cock is mine. I literally have his balls in my hands and I'm taking him down a road I'm intimately familiar with (because I've been on the receiving end so many times before). I feel a sense of confidence and control that I've rarely felt making love to a woman. When it's over, there's a sense of accomplishment, even triumph. I did that. I made his knees weak and and his heart race. I made him whimper with pleasure and give up his load. He didn't just cum; I made him cum. And, given a chance, I could do it again.

I think back to all the impish smiles my wife would give me after a blow job, that teasing twinkle in her eyes as she wiped a drop of cum from her lips and now I get it.

Exactly. I’ve never done it. But this is how I imagine it would be. I want to feel them lose control and know that I am the cause of it.

[KDaddy23]

Personally, I was amazed to discover how empowering it was to make another man cum. It seems like a contradiction to be on your knees and feel empowered, but in that moment his cock is mine. I literally have his balls in my hands and I'm taking him down a road I'm intimately familiar with (because I've been on the receiving end so many times before). I feel a sense of confidence and control that I've rarely felt making love to a woman. When it's over, there's a sense of accomplishment, even triumph. I did that. I made his knees weak and and his heart race. I made him whimper with pleasure and give up his load. He didn't just cum; I made him cum. And, given a chance, I could do it again.

I think back to all the impish smiles my wife would give me after a blow job, that teasing twinkle in her eyes as she wiped a drop of cum from her lips and now I get it.

Yeah. This. One hell of an ego trip knowing that you made him do it; that sense of accomplishment and, yes, triumph. Had him calling, begging, and pleading for anyone to come save him... and no one is going to save him from you. Is it a contradiction? Hell, no, it isn't! If I'm sucking your dick, you're gonna get owned and your illusion of being in control of what I'm doing is going to get shattered. Yep - every time a woman has sucked my dick - off or not - they've gotten this look on their face that I recognize because she knew she owned me; it's the same look I get on my face, too. Yeah... you didn't know it was gonna be like that, huh? And you didn't know that I wasn't done with you, either so... hold still...

[biguycancun]

Or can they be the aggressor and in control?

It can go either way. I've been in situations where I've surrendered as soon as he put his hands on my head and let him guide me through everything that followed. Then there are other situations where I've fingered his ass or played with his tits and led the entire encounter, sort of topping from the bottom.

[Small one]

I love it when he takes control grabs my head and fucks my face I have cam more times than not hands free when they do this.

[Jozyxt]

Personally, I was amazed to discover how empowering it was to make another man cum. It seems like a contradiction to be on your knees and feel empowered, but in that moment his cock is mine. I literally have his balls in my hands and I'm taking him down a road I'm intimately familiar with (because I've been on the receiving end so many times before). I feel a sense of confidence and control that I've rarely felt making love to a woman. When it's over, there's a sense of accomplishment, even triumph. I did that. I made his knees weak and and his heart race. I made him whimper with pleasure and give up his load. He didn't just cum; I made him cum. And, given a chance, I could do it again.

I think back to all the impish smiles my wife would give me after a blow job, that teasing twinkle in her eyes as she wiped a drop of cum from her lips and now I get it.

I have a wonderful cock sucker that I don't get to see often. When I do, he will tout his prowess at cocksucking and I tell him that I am stopping by to do him a favor. I am going to modify this to say to him next time.

I wish I could see him more often but he lives an hour away and had a day job so dates are hard to set up.

And I agree with you that it is empowering to make another man cum. I really do love doing it. Which is why I know my cocksucker does too.

[Blondeblowjob7]

I’m a very experienced male cocksucker. I’ve been sucking dick for many years now, and giving head is by far my favorite type of sex. I think by nature sucking dick is a submissive act, especially for male cocksuckers. By nature getting on your knees and willingly allowing a man to insert his erect penis into your mouth is definitely a submissive act. Now there are different grades of submissiveness as a cocksucker. For example allowing a feeder to truly dominate you as a cocksucker, and fuck your mouth, or allowing him to force your head down his cock to deepthroat his penis is even more submissive. Then of course as a cocksucker there’s the submissiveness when it comes to your feeder’s orgasm. Allowing a man to cum in your mouth or give you a cum facial is quite submissive. I absolutely cum as a cocksucker whether I’m swallowing my feeder’s cum or taking a cum facial. However, as a male cocksucker, I’ve always thought that the act of allowing another man to drench my face with his cum is an incredibly submissive act that shows my feeder’s sexual dominance over me as a male cocksucker.

[lancer525]

Why does it always have to be about "dominance" or "control"?

Why can't it just be about the act? Not everyone is into this garbage about dominating or controlling people. That's a sure sign of an abuser in my book. It has been my personal life experience that someone who wants to "dominate" others just wants to be an abusive asshole with no repercussions. A free pass. The act is beautiful enough without attaching any psycho head games to it.

[Opportunist]

I consider myself a top. I've had my cock sucked by friends and strangers, I've topped husbands in front of their wifes, but I have and will suck cock in the future. I've had my cock sucked more often than I've sucked and the top item on my bucket list is to be under a woman, eating her pussy, while she is being fucked from behind until they both come as I taste both their mixed juices. Make of that what you will.

[Blondeblowjob7]

Why does it always have to be about "dominance" or "control"?

Why can't it just be about the act? Not everyone is into this garbage about dominating or controlling people. That's a sure sign of an abuser in my book. It has been my personal life experience that someone who wants to "dominate" others just wants to be an abusive asshole with no repercussions. A free pass. The act is beautiful enough without attaching any psycho head games to it.

To me there?s an absolutely massive difference between me as a cocksucker being sexually dominated by a dominant feeder, and abuse. One is consensual and abuse is not consensual. I?ve had feeders who I?ve told, or who correctly sensed out in me, that I?m a sexually submissive cocksucker who absolutely loves giving a rough blowjob where I?m having my head pushed down a cock again and again. I honestly get extremely turned on as a cocksucker having my head pushed hard and deep down a big cock again and again throughout a blowjob. What would be abusive would be if a feeder did that to me as a cocksucker, and I didn?t want to do it, or I didn?t enjoy it, but the feeder does it anyway. That?s not consensual. That would be abusive.

[KDaddy23]

Why does it always have to be about "dominance" or "control"?

Why can't it just be about the act? Not everyone is into this garbage about dominating or controlling people. That's a sure sign of an abuser in my book. It has been my personal life experience that someone who wants to "dominate" others just wants to be an abusive asshole with no repercussions. A free pass. The act is beautiful enough without attaching any psycho head games to it.

I would hazard the guess that for most male cocksuckers, it's about the act and all that top-dominant/bottom-submissive stuff doesn't mean anything to them. At the end of any day, you have to consider what a guy thinks about sucking dick from how he thinks about doing it and how it makes him feel. If a guy thinks and feels that he's a submissive cocksucker, then it is what it is for him; if a guy thinks and feels that he's a feeder and dominant, ditto. Can it be seen as abusive? Depends on who you ask and what they think about sucking dick but I would opine that it's only abusive if it's done without the guy's permission and force/coersion is being applied. I wouldn't - and most definitely do not - like a guy grabbing my head and fucking my mouth like it's a pussy; to me, he's "abusing" my mouth but to avoid this situation, I will tell him not to do it... or else. Problem solved and averted. Another guy would think that this is da shit and some might even think that this is the way to give a blowjob. On the giving side, some guys are of a mind that getting a blowjob mean wailing away in someone's mouth while others... just kick back and let the cocksucker do their thing.

The act was deemed to be submissive because women were expected to submit to any sexual act that a man wanted. The act of kneeling was considered to be submissive and in the form of admitting defeat or deferring to a lord's rule and power over them. But there's the act... and then there's one's mindset about the act and, methinks, therein lies any real differences. Cocksuckers do not have to be submissive and just let a guy use their mouth any old way the guy wants to if they don't want to be but if they do, then they do. It's not that big of a deal and is all about personal preferences.

[chongster]

I love to fuck ass and suck cock. The guys I hook up with are mostly sub but I have no problem sucking them off. If they are about to cum while I'm fucking him sometimes I will turn him around and suck the cum out of him then finish in his ass. Other times I let him cum in my hand and feed it to him while I keep fucking