money changing hands

[marine20]

has anyone here given money for sex with a man , or have you been paid for sex with a man ? once when i was in my 20's , i was at an abs, and an older man offered me twenty dollars to come home with him for sex. at that time twenty bucks was a lot of money , believe it or not. this was the 70's. anyway i turned him down , not because of my morals , but because he was just not my type. so has anyone here taken money , or given money ?

[wifekinky4husband]

My husband had been offered money as you stated. Most of his life people offer him money, women & men, couples, and for some reason lesbian couples really dig him. Since I have known him and since we have been married, there are few occasions where someone doesn't hit on him or offer me money for him. He has that vibe. Oddly he doesn't pick up on it as well as I do which is good or he'd probably been a sex worker when I met him. The most recent was in a lounge and he left to take an important call when a man slid beside me asking if we were married. He was very attractive, polite, and did not give off the vibe I normally pick up. He pointed out his wife, who waved, and bluntly asked if my husband f***s & sucks with men. I told him yes, yes he does, and very well I might add. He smiled, waved his wife over. We talked. I listened to her fantasies about men. I asked him questions, then her. They were novices and I truly wanted to invite them over but we do not do that in our group. They are west coast so unless they move here and we have gotten to know them very well nothing was going to happen. Once they realized I was turning them down, came the money offers, and more. They travel often to our area and the list went on. I explained why, they understood but still persisted, politely, very nice couple so I promised to stay in touch and next time they were in town to introduce them to a few couples who might be available for bi swinging. They left with a final, very generous financial offer. There is no doubt if we ever need money and we left our group, we'd be okay financially. ;)

[Neonaught]

When I first came out to my wife as bi, and her to me, she allowed me to book a session with a hot 26 year old gay male escort. We had fun and I had him back twice later on but at $300 an hour plus tip it was not cheap.

[KDaddy23]

An offer of money was what got me hooked on dick. Other than a brief stint as a "gigolo" - because the situation was dire and the money badly needed - I've sometimes had men and women "leave me a tip" after we had sex. They'd either give it to me as we're about to go on our way or, a few times, I've been on my way, stuck my hand in a pocket and... wait - where did this money come from? That first offering... was what it was. Literally whoring myself - and to keep my wife from having to do it - was humiliating but it was a "dirty job" that had to be done and I set my feelings aside in order to be "professional." Finding money in my pockets after "NSA" sex bothered me the first time it happened - reminded me of my whore-days - but I got over it; if someone felt that they needed to give me money, that's how they felt although I would turn it down if they were to try to hand it to me... unless I needed gas money.

I've had more women do it than men.

[csreef]

When I first came out to my wife as bi, and her to me, she allowed me to book a session with a hot 26 year old gay male escort. We had fun and I had him back twice later on but at $300 an hour plus tip it was not cheap.

Ouch! That is more than my Lawyer!

[Neonaught]

Ouch! That is more than my Lawyer!

Somehow I suspect your lawyer doesn't do for you what that boy did for me! Well, maybe in a figurative sense!

[Rest85]

I'd find it arousing to pay someone to let me suck their cock.

[papasmurph]

There have been times when I've thought I should get paid for this... but then, I don't like the consequences that might come with being hired for sex. I guess I've watched too many crime dramas on TV.

[Jazminedress]

Somehow I suspect your lawyer doesn't do for you what that boy did for me! Well, maybe in a figurative sense!

I dont know, my company lawyer fucks me on a regular basis, doesn't even give a reach around.................and there is no kissing, soooooooooooooooooo

[Jazminedress]

Hold on, I can make money here ?
How much we talking ?

[Tight1-4u]

while I was living in Arizona and transitioned I lived as a sex worker for 8 1/2 years.. yes most of that time was spent as mainly with a couple men but also servicing guys they brought to me.. most of the time clients..

[Jozyxt]

I met this Chinese guy online. He was married and didn?t have a car so I picked him up and took him to my place so he could blow me. My wife started working from home so he wanted to blow me in my car on a dead end street. No way. So he paid for a room. He was obviously gay and very messed up about it. He angered me so I cut him off.

Later he contacted me and was divorced and lived in a rented room. He wanted apologize and suck me in his room. But wanted me to pay him half of what a room would cost. I said I?d stop by but not pay. He didn?t listen well and wanted me to pay for the bj he gave me. I handed him a five on the way out, basically as in insult. He was quite upset and called me several names in text messages. Thankfully my voip app allowed blocking so I never heard from him again.

I still feel sorry for him as I hate seeing people having to live that deeply in denial about who they are.

[DD788Snipe]

Hold on, I can make money here ?
How much we talking ?

:bigrin::thumbu: LMAO

[DD788Snipe]

There have been times when I've thought I should get paid for this... but then, I don't like the consequences that might come with being hired for sex. I guess I've watched too many crime dramas on TV.

You're a Discovery ID addict like me Papa. :bigrin:

[Long Duck Dong]

Been offered money for sex.... not really my type of thing.....

my sister and my partner both have in the past....my sister was paid 5,000 US per month to be a companion / lover for a chinese gentleman when she was living in china, an arrangement that lasted a couple of years......

My partner got annoyed with constantly being hit up for sex, so she said pay for lay, $1000 a night.....while many people choked, some were more than willing to pay

In my town, some females will screw for $20 a time, only overseas seasonal workers go there, cos the chances of an STI are high......some charge $100-!60......some charge $300 per person for a couple but honestly most of them are drug and alcohol users........sadly the asian ladies no longer work in town, they were good and clean however too much abuse and sexual assaults ended their sex work.....

[dowmass]

I have a question:

On a few occasions, I found that there were people on DL willing to top me that would top me for a fee or “generous donation”, as they’d call it.

That was in the range of $200-300 for up to 2 hours.

The pattern on all the 2/3 occasions was similar. On the first 3-4 emails, they would be no mention of money. Then they’d want “help” for gas or rent.

Would you take up on something like that?
Does that differ from sex where money isn’t involved?
Assuming condoms are always used, is it riskier with someone that takes $$ for sex?
No judgement or bias against anyone that takes $$$ fir sex.

[KDaddy23]

If I gotta pay for sex with a guy, that's a very major deal breaker. Sure, men and women have given me money after having sex with them but I have never paid someone to have sex with me even though, yeah, with women, we do "pay" for it and in ways that doesn't always include money but this is different. I applaud anyone who find that being some kind of sex worker is their niche but, nope, I wouldn't pay someone to have sex with them.

[Jozyxt]

When I was arranging dates for my NYC trip on DL and SD, one ad was from a college guy. He said he like older men and it was all very nice. Then he asked me how generous I could be? I understand working his way through school that way. But I have to be very careful with funds so not to attracts the attention of my wife. So I declined and wished him luck. I wonder how much he gets?

[Jazminedress]

Okay, I still want to know how much you can get ?

Crap, I am in a niche group. Funny thing, when I was in Sd a guy I was talking too asked me if I was demanding donations, I had no clue what he was talking about, now I do

But seriously, how much is the pay ?
Now I am freaking curious

[chongster]

I have a young guy that I always tip $30 to $50 He's a homeless guy couch surfer always very clean but always broke so I help him out

[hazelcd]

Yes l took money for sex and would ask for money for sex, being paid for doing what you enjoyed what more could one ask for.

[DLazguy]

That's on my bucket list. I want a guy to pay me to suck him and let him fuck me. Just so I can say that I've been paid to have sex

[IncuBI slut]

There was a guy I met off Craigslist a couple of times.

He'd insist on leaving cash after we were done fucking.

The first time he did it I explained to him "this" wasn't a pay for play situation and it was all in good fun and cash wasnt nesssary for us to fuck.

But according to him, it was a kink of his and a preferred part of the experience for him, so he'd insist on leaving the money.

Little weird, but not the weirdest kink I've come across.

[Tight1-4u]

There was a guy I met off Craigslist a couple of times.

He'd insist on leaving cash after we were done fucking.

The first time he did it I explained to him "this" wasn't a pay for play situation and it was all in good fun and cash wasnt nesssary for us to fuck.

But according to him, it was a kink of his and a preferred part of the experience for him, so he'd insist on leaving the money.

Little weird, but not the weirdest kink I've come across.
this is exactly how my pay for play experience got started.. while being transitioned I met an older gentleman at a party.. we chatted, danced, flirted.. one thing led to another.. he invited me to his place.. we drank some more and ended up in his bed.. I spent the night with him.. we fucked in every position we could think of.. he kept calling me his little whore.. which just turned me on.. the next morning he stuffed money in my hand and said you fuck like a whore you should get paid like one.. I did t really know how to take that.. a couple days later he called and wanted to see me again.. same thing next morning he hands me cash and calls me his whore.. I told him that I was nota whore.. he explained that it was his kink and needed to do it that way.. so for about 2 years I was his whore.. by that time I really started to care for him and wanted it to eat a lot more.. he said he needed it to e what it was.. I seen him twice more but things had changed between us so that was that.. a few months later I became an escort, a whore!!!

[Jozyxt]

My friend is disabled and lives on assistance. He is often short of funds and I drop him a few dollars when he needs it. So far he's kept up the pretense he will pay me back. But I consider it a gift. I may introduce pay for play into this just to spice things up. And he will only get paid if he cums in my mouth.