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secretservicer
Feb 19, 2023, 8:23 AM
Once I hooked up with a guy after work. I was to meet him at this carpet store, park my vehicle, and ride with him to his house for sex. I had been in contact with him for a few days on Craig's List. He seemed pretty level headed but acted kind of sketchy from the beginning of our ride to his house. He drove up a hill through very isolated roads and finally arrived at his place deep in the woods. It was a very nice home - he obviously had a lot of money. I noticed a Porsche parked as we entered his house through the closed garage. I mentioned it nonchalantly. He explained that it was his friend's car whom he hasn't seen a month (odd right).
We went straight to his living room and I noticed a black bag partially opened with rope, handcuffs, and nefarious looking tools. I started to talk and he told me be quiet and only speak when I was spoken to. He told me that, if I had any questions, I was to address him as sir. I've never been in a situation like this and I was half excited and half scared. He told that if I did everything he wanted me to, I would not face 'consequences'. He made me strip and he stroked my well-endowed cock to erection. He pushed me to my knees and shoved his cock deep into my throat and fucked my mouth furiously until he shot his first load. I was settling into being a good boy for him. He asked if I wanted something to drink - if I did I was to ask for it. I asked meekly, "May I have some water sir"? He got a big grin on his face and told me I was "being a very good boy". After about a 1/2 hour, he commanded me to kneel on his couch with my ass facing him. He reached underneath and stroked my dick. I could feel him lubing my asshole and then entered me from behind with his average (7") cock. Again, he fucked me with fervor - hard and fast until he came inside me for the second time. I was getting a bit less nervous as his demeanor seemed to change - he was happy with my submission apparently. He would ask me questions about my personal life and I obediently answered with 'sir' in every reply. This pleased him and I was grateful for that as I had one eye on his 'black bag' of restraints, which he never used on me. I imagine that if I had resisted in any way, I believe he would have bound me and 'who knows' what would have happened.
After an hour or so, he asked me if I wanted to shower. "Yes sir, that would be very nice", I had to play his game. We went to his bathroom and we both got into the spacious, stand up shower and proceeded to bath together. he got ANOTHER hardon and pushed me onto my knees and I began to suck him in the flowing warm water. He had a bit of a hairy belly and I can remember the hair tickling my nose as I took his full erection into my mouth. I looked up and he had his head thrown back in ecstasy. He grabbed my head and thrust his cock deep down my throat and came with unbelievable force. I couldn't believe how much cum this dude still had in him even after using me for the third time in less than 3 hours. He ordered me to dry off and get dressed. He kissed me and praised me for being so obedient. That was the only contact he made with me on a personal level.
It wasn't much afterwards that he drove me back to my car in the city. As I exited his vehicle, he once again told me that he enjoyed me and that I was a "very good boy" for him. No mention of meeting up again and that was ok with me - I was honestly quite scared throughout the whole ordeal -in a way it was exhilarating though. This was the only time I faced being a 'slave' to an apparent sex-fiend. There were reports of young men 'missing' in the area. I couldn't help but think of his 'black bag' and all of the weird bondage items in it. Not to mention the Porsche his friend "abandoned" in his closed garage. I actually wrote an anonymous letter to the police in reference to 'missing men'. I don't think anything ever came of it. I really hope this guy isn't involved in any disappearances but I wonder at times.
Neonaught
Feb 19, 2023, 9:44 AM
You should be a lot more careful. You could have ended up a missing person. Always meet in a neutral, public location if your instincts are trigger.
Fluidity
Feb 19, 2023, 11:35 AM
Was a domination/submission scenario previously agreed upon? Because that kind of thing should never be just sprung on someone
darkeyes
Feb 20, 2023, 6:09 AM
Yes...more than once. But haven't most people? Women in particular.
bikurinpa
Feb 20, 2023, 6:34 AM
I would had discussed any these things I dislike before we even met. domination/submission is just 1 of my turn offs and he got shut down and told we was incompatible long before we even would met.
Once I hooked up with a guy after work. I was to meet him at this carpet store, park my vehicle, and ride with him to his house for sex. I had been in contact with him for a few days on Craig's List. He seemed pretty level headed but acted kind of sketchy from the beginning of our ride to his house. He drove up a hill through very isolated roads and finally arrived at his place deep in the woods. It was a very nice home - he obviously had a lot of money. I noticed a Porsche parked as we entered his house through the closed garage. I mentioned it nonchalantly. He explained that it was his friend's car whom he hasn't seen a month (odd right).
We went straight to his living room and I noticed a black bag partially opened with rope, handcuffs, and nefarious looking tools. I started to talk and he told me be quiet and only speak when I was spoken to. He told me that, if I had any questions, I was to address him as sir. I've never been in a situation like this and I was half excited and half scared. He told that if I did everything he wanted me to, I would not face 'consequences'. He made me strip and he stroked my well-endowed cock to erection. He pushed me to my knees and shoved his cock deep into my throat and fucked my mouth furiously until he shot his first load. I was settling into being a good boy for him. He asked if I wanted something to drink - if I did I was to ask for it. I asked meekly, "May I have some water sir"? He got a big grin on his face and told me I was "being a very good boy". After about a 1/2 hour, he commanded me to kneel on his couch with my ass facing him. He reached underneath and stroked my dick. I could feel him lubing my asshole and then entered me from behind with his average (7") cock. Again, he fucked me with fervor - hard and fast until he came inside me for the second time. I was getting a bit less nervous as his demeanor seemed to change - he was happy with my submission apparently. He would ask me questions about my personal life and I obediently answered with 'sir' in every reply. This pleased him and I was grateful for that as I had one eye on his 'black bag' of restraints, which he never used on me. I imagine that if I had resisted in any way, I believe he would have bound me and 'who knows' what would have happened.
After an hour or so, he asked me if I wanted to shower. "Yes sir, that would be very nice", I had to play his game. We went to his bathroom and we both got into the spacious, stand up shower and proceeded to bath together. he got ANOTHER hardon and pushed me onto my knees and I began to suck him in the flowing warm water. He had a bit of a hairy belly and I can remember the hair tickling my nose as I took his full erection into my mouth. I looked up and he had his head thrown back in ecstasy. He grabbed my head and thrust his cock deep down my throat and came with unbelievable force. I couldn't believe how much cum this dude still had in him even after using me for the third time in less than 3 hours. He ordered me to dry off and get dressed. He kissed me and praised me for being so obedient. That was the only contact he made with me on a personal level.
It wasn't much afterwards that he drove me back to my car in the city. As I exited his vehicle, he once again told me that he enjoyed me and that I was a "very good boy" for him. No mention of meeting up again and that was ok with me - I was honestly quite scared throughout the whole ordeal -in a way it was exhilarating though. This was the only time I faced being a 'slave' to an apparent sex-fiend. There were reports of young men 'missing' in the area. I couldn't help but think of his 'black bag' and all of the weird bondage items in it. Not to mention the Porsche his friend "abandoned" in his closed garage. I actually wrote an anonymous letter to the police in reference to 'missing men'. I don't think anything ever came of it. I really hope this guy isn't involved in any disappearances but I wonder at times.
secretservicer
Feb 20, 2023, 7:52 AM
Was a domination/submission scenario previously agreed upon? Because that kind of thing should never be just sprung on someone
NO it wasn't - that's what kind of freaked me out
KDaddy23
Feb 20, 2023, 2:45 PM
I ask too many questions to get surprised by a potentially scary situation. Some guys try to change the plan and, nope, not doing that - see ya never.
TRICK69
Feb 23, 2023, 12:05 PM
I always think I would be waiting on the bed nude and hard he comes out of the restroom with a knife. Or but fucking me and stabes me. How do we make sure he is normal my question?
Jozyxt
Feb 24, 2023, 2:30 PM
One thing on my never will do list is let someone I don't know drive me to their place. I stay with my car in case I want to leave. I prefer to meet guys that have apartments or townhouses too. But I have gone into guys houses as most of the ads I answer are from older men, like myself. They typically aren't very fit.
BackyardShaman
Feb 24, 2023, 6:28 PM
I’ve been in several scary situations, one was in juvenile lockup, a small facility with 12 other guys. I had made friends with a couple of guys when on my second morning we all had to go and get searched and examined by a doctor. We had to strip and line up in front of a long table. One of those guys I had friended stood next to me and I looked down at his dick, he was fucking huge. Let’s just say, I was bi tolerant at this time and had received anal twice, once liking it and once not. So, knowing how things worked in that place, I decided it was better to friend those 2 rather than risk total rape by several of them.
Tight1-4u
Feb 25, 2023, 4:55 AM
I would say we all have been in scary situations given we go out and have sex with other men., I once met 5 guys at a hotel bar I was staying at.. we got chatting and I kinda became kinda hot for 2 of them.. I had decided that the first of the 2 to make a move was going to be my boyfriend for the night.. as we all sat around a table the chat turned to sex.. then bj?s.. then a couple of them admitted they had given bj?s.. we all laughed.. one of the guys I liked seated next to me put his hand on my leg under my loose fitting shorts and started squeezing my leg.. I thought there you go he made the move.. so I spread my legs and kinda slouched down in my chair.. his hand went deeper up my leg.. he was now where he could feel my silk lace string panties.. he smiled as he felt them.. he invited me to his place for more drinks.. I suggested we go to my room.. as we got in the elevator he kissed me pulled me close and stuck a finger in my pussy.. I eased agents it and spread my legs to allow him full access.. as we got to my room door he spun me around and removed my shorts in the hallway.. he started kissing my neck and driving his fingers deeper into my pussy.. I rode his fingers for a short time then opened the door.. I told him if this is going where I think it is going he should come in and get naked!!! He did.. I immediately removed my shirt and shoes.. now just in my panties I went to my knees.. I removed his pants and underwear.. his 8? semi thick cock found its way to my mouth.. very soon it was getting bigger and harder.. I cupped his balls as I looked him in the eye as his cock disappeared into my mouth and throat.. he was growing fast.. I wanted to slow things down.. so I suggested that we go to my bed.. give him a few seconds to compose himself.. when we got to the bed he pushed me down on my back then climbed on top of my chest leaned forward and said suck me.. so I did slowly and rhythmical.. he continued to grow in my mouth.. suddenly I felt two hands on each of my legs and two guys grabbing my arms.. the guys from the bar.. his friends!! I now had an idea where this was headed.. they were going to pull a train in me or gang rape me.. I fought for a min but soon decided to go along and at least give them no reason to beat the shit out of me.. give them what they wanted.. they lifted my legs and spread them and placed them under the arms of the guy on my chest.. then I was being eaten out,, fingering me,, tongue fucked.. soon they found the lube I left on the nightstand just in case.. it was put on very liberally.. the first guy slid his average sized cock in me and fucked me for about 30 min.. the next guy did the same.. the third guy was much thicker than the others.. about the same length but much much thicker.. he opened me up,, stretched my pussy to fit his cock.. he fucked me really well.. I got very worked up while he fucked me.. he made me cum hands free.. then the fourth guy was little.. much littler than the others.. I hardly felt him in me after being stretched out.. then it was the guy on my chest turn.. he was longer than all the others.. I would guess about 2? longer.. he reached in and touched me where none of the others had.. after about 45 min he blew the first load in me.. then they all took another turn and filled my pussy with 7 total loads.. when they were done I ask them to put my plug in me to hold all the cum in me.. so they did.. I slept soundly that night being fucked rather well and being a sticky gooey mess.. I have learned over the years that gang bangs can get out of hand and the best thing you can do is try and relax and go with the flow.. the next evening I went to the bar and there sat the same 5 guys.. I went to their table and invited them all back to my room telling them that I was going to ride each of them till they couldn?t anymore.. so I did!!!
marine20
Feb 27, 2023, 10:53 AM
i once invited a guy to my house , that i never met before. i think i contacted him on craigs list. he was kind of a big guy , but nothing went wrong , thank God. after he left , i vowed never to bring someone to my house without knowing him first. it could have gone very wrong , had he been a dangerous man. so , that's my advise to you , know the person before bringing him home .
The Chunkly
Feb 27, 2023, 12:50 PM
Maybe some day I'll get to suck yours ?
jjourneyman
Mar 3, 2023, 3:02 PM
The scariest situation I ever experienced didn't involve a guy that I was seeing... it was dealing with his angry wife who found out he had been coming over to my place where I'd been servicing him on the DL for almost a year. Sometimes, during our sessions, he would take close-up pictures of me sucking his cock or while he was fucking me. One day, I got this call from whom I thought was my friend. Turned out, it was not him but his wife. She was livid! She wanted to know how long had I been seeing her husband, how many times had we fucked, etc. At that point, I told her she much have a wrong number and just hung up. A few seconds later, she called back, and back, and back. Even though I let the calls go to voicemail, she continued to curse and threaten me, saying she knew who I was, where I lived and worked, and that she was going to call my boss, my family. She even said she was going to call my landlord and demand that I be evicted. The worst part was, I had no way of getting a hold of my friend because she clearly had his phone, and I seriously doubted that he knew my number by heart.
I didn't hear from him until several days later. Naturally, he apologized for everything. Then he said he and his wife were not yet speaking to each other and that he would be calling me from his office phone. That was the last time I ever heard from him.
hazelcd
Mar 6, 2023, 4:46 AM
The time when l used to sell myself l was occasionaly assaulted or robbed and sometimes both, mostly agreeing to meet one man then his friends show up and expect to get it for free.
Blondeblowjob7
Mar 18, 2023, 6:45 PM
I think I have a very long but very scary story to tell about a weird fetish I actually encountered with a feeder that I think tops everything else mentioned so far. In fact, I found the situation so disturbing that it’s still somewhat difficult for me to write or talk about it, even though it happened many years ago now. It just chills my blood to this day. Ultimately I ended up very gradually breaking off the relationship as a result of this really creepy fetish and fantasy my feeder told me he had about me after being his regular cocksucker for almost a year. It was a feeder I gave very regular blowjobs to throughout my senior year of college. I was giving on average about 4 to 5 blowjobs per week to him throughout most of my senior year, as well as giving very regular blowjobs to several other guys at that time. So I was very sexually active as a cocksucker during my senior year of college. I encountered a feeder who ended up having an intense snuff fetish about me.
Now I absolutely loved my relationship with this feeder as his cocksucker. He had a beautiful and thick cut penis with a large mushroom head that I could happily worship for hours on end. He also had very large loads of sweet tasting cum that I loved as a cum whore. He regularly indulged me with the slutty things that I love to do with my cum fetish. So in many ways he was an absolutely perfect feeder for me. That made breaking off our relationship due to his creepy fetish and fantasy very hard for me to do. I still miss sucking his beautiful cock, and taking his delicious cum loads to this day.
As I’ve mentioned before in other posts, many people have told me that I’m a guy who looks very attractive in turtleneck shirts and sweaters. Many have told me that turtlenecks are simply a fashion that physically really suits me, and that makes me look very attractive. Sexually some of my feeders have told me that seeing me frequently wearing turtlenecks really suited me in their opinion, because they thought that some turtlenecks actually me look like a quintessential male cocksucker. Some feeders have told me that turtlenecks are definitely an attractive look on me, but are also a “very gay look” sexually that in their opinion just screamed out to them that I was a beta male cocksucker. So as a cocksucker I have to admit that I’ve honestly become addicted to wearing turtlenecks during the cooler time of year, because wearing a lot of turtlenecks over the years has actually helped me in attracting quite a few feeders to me. As a cocksucker I’m always more than happy to do things that help attract feeders to me, and things that help get me more dick to suck!
So the feeder with the very creepy and scary fetish often asked me to give him blowjobs wearing very tight turtleneck collars. Fortunately super tight collars with turtlenecks have never bothered me at all. I found myself thinking that maybe he had a kinky thing for cocksuckers giving him blowjobs in tight collars. That’s actually not an unusual thing for me to encounter as a cocksucker and turtleneck lover. I’ve ran into other feeders over the years who actually got aroused seeing me suck dick while wearing super tight turtleneck collars around my throat. I suppose that maybe it’s a very mild form of bondage and sexual dominance over a cocksucker like me.
I honestly didn’t think to question why my feeder wanted that turtleneck request, since many people have told me that I look attractive in turtlenecks. I just automatically assumed that he wanted me to give him blowjobs in tight turtlenecks, because he thought that I looked attractive in them, or that maybe he had a kink about cocksuckers wearing tight collars while giving a blowjob as some other feeders that I had encountered. Now fast forward to June and July after I had just graduated from college. Even on hot days during the summer my feeder would still demand that I bring a tight turtleneck shirt or sweater over to his apartment to put on just before I started giving him a blowjob. I actually didn’t mind doing that for him, since I absolutely loved being his cocksucker slut so much. I’m normally a cocksucker who is honestly very eager to please and accommodate my feeder’s demands without asking many questions in return. So after nearly an entire summer of doing this very regularly with most of the blowjobs that I gave him I finally asked him about it. I told him that I’ve never had anyone else demand that I suck dick with turtlenecks on even in the summertime.
A long story short, he told me that he had a huge snuff fetish and fantasy about me. Now as I mentioned before, I was still very na?ve sexually for my first few years as a cocksucker, despite being very sexually active at that time. At that time I had absolutely no clue whatsoever about what he meant by a snuff fetish. So I had to ask him a lot of questions about what he meant. Believe me, in retrospect I wish that I hadn’t even bothered to ask!
My feeder had a strange but intense fascination with beheading snuff fantasies, especially with the guillotine. So let’s just say that when I was giving him blowjobs he was very sexually aroused by the thought of me literally giving him head in more ways than one! My feeder knew that I was well read in French history, particularly about the French Revolution. I’m kind of a self taught history nerd. So he often asked me a lot of questions involving what I knew about the French Revolution. However, it eventually dawned upon me that our historical discussions would always circle back to a conservation about the guillotine.
I began to think it was a little odd when he brought up multiple discussions about the guillotine, even at times I was busy giving him a blowjob. I began thinking to myself; “Why is he thinking about the guillotine when I’m busy giving him a blowjob, and being a slut for his cum?” However, there was never anything overtly sexual in our historical discussions, at least anything that was obvious to me. It was honestly just a historical based discussion. I never once thought his talk about the guillotine was ever really disturbing. So of course I couldn’t believe it when he told me that he literally had a fetish and sexual fantasy that involved chopping off my head!
Now here’s the two most disturbing things of all. He told me that he loved seeing me in turtlenecks, because seeing me in turtlenecks actually made it easier for him to imagine what my severed head would actually look like as a sexual trophy. What really frightened me was that he actually made the comment that “I had a very pretty blonde head for the guillotine.”
I was honestly in a state of complete shock after hearing those two comments about my head, and I was nearly at a loss for words. That last comment really chilled me to the core! I decided that I still needed to complete this blowjob, since I could tell that he already close to cumming. So despite feeling very creeped out, I finished the blowjob and swallowed his cum with as much enthusiasm as I could muster at that point.
After the blowjob, I told him that I’ve heard other people make numerous sexual comments about my head. I told him that other people had told me that they absolutely loved my head for reasons that involved my head giving them oral sex. I told him that other feeders had told me that I have a very pretty or incredibly hot looking head when I have a big cock in my mouth. Many feeders have told me that I have a pretty or attractive face for giving blowjobs, or that I had a pretty face when my face was completely drenched in fresh cum. I mentioned how my first feeder who turned me into a cocksucker said that for the rest of my life sex for me was having my head impaled on another man’s cock. He said that I would be absolutely miserable with my sex life unless my head was very regularly impaled on another man’s cock. (Incidentally he was 100% correct about that comment.) However, I told him that I’ve never been told anything by anyone else about having my head chopped off! He tried to downplay it by saying that it was just a sexual fantasy that got him off when I gave him blowjobs.
I ended up going home about 15 minutes after finishing my blowjob. I just felt totally creeped out about the whole incident on my drive back home. I most definitely didn’t sleep well at all that night after just being told by my favorite feeder at that time that I had “a very pretty blonde head for the guillotine.” So I began thinking about how I could break off this relationship. In the end I decided to still give him blowjobs, but very gradually back off on the frequency of me giving him head, and gradually coming up with new excuses for being busy. Now that I knew that my feeder was kind of a mental case, I didn’t want to just suddenly stop things after he revealed this sick fantasy to me. The thought briefly entered my mind that could even be dangerous. Although I didn’t think that my feeder was actually capable of violence, such as actually trying to murder me by chopping off my head. Over time I became completely convinced that this was just a very weird and disturbing sexual fantasy. I even briefly entertained the idea that I could embrace or actually submit myself to this beheading fantasy, since I’m normally a cocksucker who is very eager to please his feeders with almost anything. Of course I quickly decided that I could never actually embrace a fantasy about having my head chopped off on the guillotine.
So that’s what I did to very gradually break off the relationship. It was extremely hard for me to sexually get into giving him blowjobs when I knew that he was literally watching my head giving him a blowjob, and getting off sexually about the idea of chopping my head off on a guillotine. I did the best I could to still be enthusiastic when giving him blowjobs. Fortunately my idea about breaking off the relationship worked successfully after several months of very gradually winding down our relationship by giving him less and less blowjobs.
So that’s what I did to very gradually break off the relationship. It was extremely hard for me to sexually get into giving him blowjobs when I knew that he was literally watching my head giving him a blowjob, and getting off sexually about the idea of chopping my head off on a guillotine. I did the best I could to still be enthusiastic when giving him blowjobs. Fortunately my idea about breaking off the relationship worked successfully after several months of very gradually winding down our relationship by giving him less and less blowjobs.
Years later I ended up looking up information about snuff fantasies, in particular about beheadings, strictly out of my own curiosity after something caused my past experience to come to mind. Well I quickly learned that unfortunately this is a popular fantasy for a much larger number of people than I ever would have imagined. There’s rather large internet communities and websites where people express these types of sexual fantasies involving snuffing their sexual partners, or those they sexually fantasize about. I found some of these snuff decapitation fantasies to range from being mildly disturbing but kind of kinky fantasies to some that were downright disturbing and very graphic, such as what chopping off a person’s head would actually look like in real life. There was even some necrophilia fantasies involving freshly severed heads. As a cocksucker I have to admit that I found the images and drawings involving fellatio with severed heads to be extremely disturbing. I couldn’t believe that this stuff is actually out, and has an entire community of its own on the internet with many websites, drawings, and stories involving the beheading of sexual partners, or beheading fantasies about men and women who you find attractive. It’s very disconcerting to me as a cocksucker that I could possibly encounter another feeder who would actually think of me that way.
Jazminedress
Mar 18, 2023, 11:01 PM
Ummmmm yeah. When you dress like I do, there are many men that think you are nothing more than a little bitch they can control, it goes with the territory. The reality, there are many men that cannot come to grips with their sexuality and after having sex can have a psychological issue and violence is their out in this case , the, you seduced me thing.
Then add in the men that just like be domineering, and lastly, the sissy fag bashing.
This is why no one ever comes to my home, non negotiable. I get the hotel, again non negotiable so I control the home court advantage, again, not up for debate. Near me, since I do have some security background with cameras, I have already done a scope out of hotels. I know which ones have cameras in the parking lot, which ones have them in the hallways and the quality of them. This may sound like overkill, but I have had two instances that could have gone south real quick.
one the guy came to the room and started making disturbing comments to include some friends were on the way too get their peace. I politely asked him to leave. He stated not until he gets his, I reminded his dumbass that he is on about 50 cameras coming to this room and another 10 in the parking lot, does he really want to chance a police report, he called me a whore and left.
The second one, the guy basically told me it would get violent, we heard a knock on the door, he let his friend in, I told them both to leave, aint gonna happen. One asked how a little slut like me is going to make them leave and it was gonna happen, it all came down to whether I wanted the easy way, or the hard way.
I reached under my skirt and pulled a Smith and Wesson mp 9mm out, I gave them the option of the hardway or dead way. It may sound like overkill, but until the moment I am fully comfortable, I am prepared.
I have had others where I say excuse me and remove the weapon and put it away, 1 left the others said they get it and understand
DD788Snipe
Mar 19, 2023, 2:49 AM
Jazmine, good for you. That is particularly scary but you pay attention to detail and that, I feel, will always save your ass. I find myself always running scenarios in my head whenever I'm out in public. It's just second nature for me. Obviously for you too and there's nothing wrong with that. I like your style.
Blondeblowjob7 that's just frighteningly weird. You did the right thing. You story shows there are some really disturbed individuals out there and you just never know.
Jazminedress
Mar 19, 2023, 2:17 PM
Jazmine, good for you. That is particularly scary but you pay attention to detail and that, I feel, will always save your ass. I find myself always running scenarios in my head whenever I'm out in public. It's just second nature for me. Obviously for you too and there's nothing wrong with that. I like your style.
Blondeblowjob7 that's just frighteningly weird. You did the right thing. You story shows there are some really disturbed individuals out there and you just never know.
I taught my daughter, people get hurt, or die, because they react, act first
KDaddy23
Mar 19, 2023, 3:11 PM
Jaz said, "The reality, there are many men that cannot come to grips with their sexuality and after having sex can have a psychological issue and violence is their out in this case , the, you seduced me thing."
I've told guys what they're getting into even though I'm just as male as they are; they know what they're asking for and all that. But one of the things I learned early is that when some guys cum, they can lose their shit. Like, "Oh, my God - what did I just do?" A few wanting to, as you said, blame me for seducing them but my counter is, "I was minding my own business; you brought this to me!" Some have tried to get violent but I can be seriously violent when I have to protect myself. I've told some guys that maybe they want to reconsider having sex with guys because one day, they're going to have sex with a guy, bust a nut, have that "moment of absolute clarity," become violent, and get themselves killed. Still, some guys diffuse a potentially bad situation by... running away after they cum.