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robinuk
Nov 4, 2006, 5:22 PM
It's been years since I've asked someone out, I think I've forgotten how :eek:

Say you met someone one night and really liked them, and you think they liked you. Although you're not sure, they could just be a friendly person, though they did insist that you dance with them several times and kissed you quick at the end of the night. But because you'd just been dumped, and were really shy, and your low self-esteem got in the way, you never asked for their number. But you know a way to contact them, and since you met them you can't get them out of your mind. You get that tight feeling in your stomach every time you think about them and your knees go weak. But you really don't want to be rejected again because you already feel pretty fragile, but you really really like this person.

Does any of that make sense? Help, I'm completely incompetant when it comes to making the first move! :(

Doggie_Wood
Nov 4, 2006, 11:49 PM
An old saying that was used in the old west - if the horse throws ya - get up, dust yerself off and get back up on the horse or you'll be affraid to ride again.
The same applies here - The one you spoke of has given an indication that they like you. Be it for just friendship or a friendship that could lead further to something even more fullfilling, you will never know unless you take the chance and ask them.
My oppinion - go for the gusto. Ask for another date. Take it from there - just remember the all important "C" word - comunication. It's vital.
Just my :2cents:

:doggie: