View Full Version : How often do you wank? Am I a freak?
bi_scott
Nov 16, 2006, 1:49 PM
I was in the pub last night talking to some mates. We got on to the conversation of masturbation and one friend explained that he had not had a wank in 3 weeks another explained how he had not wanted for 5 days. I am now wondering whether my twice a day is irregular? I just get incredibly horny. How often do you masterbate?
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Tynary
Nov 16, 2006, 2:36 PM
my friends and I have also had that convo and I've answered it in this form a few times. I think u are perfectly normal. Lots of people do it that amount.
smokey
Nov 16, 2006, 2:55 PM
Well mine hasn't fallen off yet and twice a day sounds about right....now when I have a lover, thats another story.....I save it all for them.
mrplayfuluk
Nov 16, 2006, 3:00 PM
once every three days on average. I maybe a masochist but I like the build up of sexual tension in between so I really explode... however when I'm seeing someone i let them do that for me :bigrin:
izzfan
Nov 16, 2006, 9:32 PM
Nothing particularly 'wrong' or 'abnormal' about twice a day.... hell, at one point ( a few years ago) I was on 5 a day.. now it is probably about 2-6 a week depnding on how I feel or whether I am single. Its perfectly normal + healthy AND it's fun, so why are you worrying about it? lol
LoveLion
Nov 17, 2006, 12:42 AM
It all depends on your health, age, how much sex you are getting, your mental state, what you do with your time (ie more free time = more wanking), opportunities, what arousing stimuli you are exposed to, etc.
Personally I am a once a day kinda guy, but I know lots of guys that do it 2-3 times a day. 2 times a day is not weird and I your most certainly not a freak ;)
citystyleguy
Nov 17, 2006, 2:04 AM
hell, two times a day is fine; just stop when you go blind! :rolleyes:
how much do i do it; depends on how much sex my partner(s) and i are getting??? now that i am alone, i would say 1 - 3 times a day; unless it is keeping you from doing something else, indulge, its not fattening! just remember to trade hands, as you dont want to unbalance your biceps! :cool:
Philbert
Nov 17, 2006, 6:35 AM
hell, two times a day is fine; just stop when you go blind! :rolleyes:
if you go blind why bother stopping, the damage is already done ;)
Avocado
Nov 17, 2006, 3:40 PM
I was in the pub last night talking to some mates. We got on to the conversation of masturbation and one friend explained that he had not had a wank in 3 weeks another explained how he had not wanted for 5 days. I am now wondering whether my twice a day is irregular? I just get incredibly horny. How often do you masterbate?
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They could well be liars mate. Twice a day is average for me.
animalat54
Nov 17, 2006, 10:30 PM
Just because you like to stroke it a little doesn't mean you are doing it to often.I useally do it all the time but that doesn't mean I cum every time.I do it because it gives me that great tingle and I don't have the mess to clean up if you know what I mean.Besides it makes the next encounter that much more exciting.Don't you think.
animalat54
querty
Nov 18, 2006, 12:47 AM
1 to 3 times at week. But oddly, more if the wife and I have had fun together. I find self-inflicted orgasims are often more intense. If I had the privacy, it would be more - I say rock on!
nnjbicoupleforplay
Nov 18, 2006, 12:55 AM
We both masturbate at least once a day, sometimes more, and what a thrill to watch each other enjoy ourselves!
nnjbicoupleforplay
:male: :female: :bipride:
Have you hugged your bi-friend today??
coyotedude
Nov 19, 2006, 2:42 AM
You may be a freak, my friend, but not because of this! :tongue:
I'm once a week, but mostly because it's sometimes hard to find the privacy and time for more. I would have trouble sustaining even once a day action over a long period of time - but then, I'm in my late 30s and for most guys age does make a difference.
But don't fret about it. Just enjoy it!
Peace
calcurious1
Nov 19, 2006, 10:38 AM
Absolutely not a freak buddy! I use to worry about it too.... for me, at least once if not twice daily; has a mind of its own!!
trip1
Nov 19, 2006, 11:27 AM
Hell I wank so much everytime I go and get my hair cut he charges me 3 times the amount to trim the palms of my hands... Wanking is goood...
biandu
Nov 19, 2006, 12:09 PM
if you go blind why bother stopping, the damage is already done ;)
True. Roclmao.
biandu
Nov 19, 2006, 12:14 PM
not a freak at all... imo.
i say... go for it .. every chance you get!
FSJeepguy
Nov 19, 2006, 1:48 PM
I jerk off in the shower so often that every time it rains I get a hard on. :eek:
biandu
Nov 19, 2006, 2:55 PM
I jerk off in the shower so often that every time it rains I get a hard on. :eek:
OMFG
that is hysterical.
cmc5818
Nov 20, 2006, 3:21 AM
For me, three times a day isn't unusual. Five times is not unheard of, but after that, it's not all that fun. But I did completely shock one of my friends when I told him how much - he said he only does it once or twice a week. :tongue:
analvirgin
Nov 20, 2006, 6:52 AM
I've wanked on average every other day since I reached puberty. I'm almost 59 and I still wank every other day.
The internet is the greatest thing for a wanker like me. So convenient and so diverse.
I have always preferred to do it with someone I love, ME! lol.
Wank whenever you wish, my eyesight is still fine, lol, there are no adverse effects and it's perfectly normal.
lastlaf44
Nov 20, 2006, 2:12 PM
I (the female half of the couple) have been really busy with school lately (end of semester essays >_<), so I'm down to once every two weeks or so. But then when I finally *do* get down to business, I'll commit a good chunk of time and have about as many orgasms as I can before my muscles start to complain. Three days ago I got to 8 before I gave up...and then I fell asleep. ^_^
:female:
gthommo
Nov 20, 2006, 2:44 PM
At your age - completely normal. At my age it would be normal - if I wanted to do it that much!
CHOCOLATECITY32
Nov 21, 2006, 10:43 AM
masturbate is gr8 2 release sexual tension but u get tired after a while especially when u r single and u can not think of any fantasy anymore plus the more u put ur extra time 2 use the more ur gonna think about it then u ain't gonna have time 2 masturbate and reease that sexual tension i used 2 do it everyday then it got 2 twice a dat now i barley do it weird but that is how things work
bi_scott
Nov 21, 2006, 2:40 PM
Thanks for this everyone. It was great to hear everyone's response and thoughts. Perhaps I am not too weird after all, not because of this anyway!
Biboz49
Nov 22, 2006, 12:05 AM
2 - 3 times a day for me normally, usually more on the weekends. :stoned:
lv69cpl69
May 14, 2009, 9:17 PM
If I don't get any I will everyday when she is letting me get it still no more than 2 or 3 days pass. and she loves to watch..... I love to watch her also thats a turn on
robbie09
May 14, 2009, 10:53 PM
I would like to suggest that being bi-sexual there is more people to get excited about and more to fantasise about, hence we masturbate more often?
Me personally I sometimes masturbate twice a day.
Doggiestyle
May 15, 2009, 2:09 AM
Hey man it's better than "jizzing in your pants" huh? :rolleyes:
My dad always said "son, you better quit that cause it'll make hair grow in the palm of your hands" and I said "don't worry dad i'll keep it worn off"!!!:bigrin:
Anyway, now that i'me almost 58 yo I just don't get the urge to do it as much as I used to. And it now varies with the urge from once a day to once a month!! Unless I have a regular partner. Then it's either never or with my partner. :tong:
Me thinkin now that "walkin your dog" twice a day is not really too much. Especially if youre a younger stud!!! But now reallybe serious, if you have a partner, then doin it without them would be something similar to cheating. Or at least thats my opinion. :2cents:
So there you go, done said it, done done it too. Your friend, Doggie......:doggie:.......:bipride:
Alice Green
May 15, 2009, 2:18 AM
I used to do it every day, but since I've started crossdressing, I haven't had the desire to, don't know why but just don't.
Hephaestion
May 15, 2009, 5:33 AM
Depends on how you do it and what happens afterwards - 'nuff said.
bityme
May 15, 2009, 6:17 AM
I was in the pub last night talking to some mates. We got on to the conversation of masturbation and one friend explained that he had not had a wank in 3 weeks another explained how he had not wanted for 5 days. I am now wondering whether my twice a day is irregular? I just get incredibly horny. How often do you masterbate?
Simple solution. Forget the numbers. I masturbate as often as it feels good and provides satisfaction. If I ever got to the point that I was doing it out of compulsion or not getting satisfaction from it, then I would consider it weird or freaky.
ShadyMinds
May 15, 2009, 6:31 AM
Well when I was not in a relationship it was as often as 3 - 4 times a day but now I am involved so I generally try to save myself for her as she is very demanding :bigrin:
I think as long as you are using the right lubrication twice a day should not cause your dong to fall off I promise :yikes2:
cand86
May 16, 2009, 5:36 PM
Daily. It's just become a part of my routine, always have a wank before bed. It used to be twice a day- once before getting out of bed!- and the occasional thrice-in-a-day for some midafternoon fun, but I suppose my sex drive has settled down a bit.
Really, my biggest challenge isn't in how many masturbatory sessions I have in one day- it's how long they last. Instead of being satisfied with one orgasm, I tend to go for another, and then another, with an endless supply of porn not really helping me to shut the book/computer and get to sleep.
12voltman59
May 16, 2009, 6:03 PM
I think whatever amount an individual masturbates is what is proper for them---we are all different in many ways of course----the big thing is what is going on in your life in many cases---along with other factors such as age and health condition--both physical and mental that play into how much ya "do it."
When I was a teenager-OMG--I think I must have jerked it ten times a day!!:tongue::tongue::tong:
It sure seemed like it--it had to certainly be at least two or three times---
I can say that nowadays---I don't do it that much on most occassions---even though sometimes I still do--but I would now say--at least once every so often----if I get busy or other things intervene--I sometimes go for several days without "doing it" at all!!! So I have slowed down somewhat from the days when I was "young, dumb and full of cum!"
I think there are so many variables involved with the question of frequency of sex of any sort----it is impossible to say what amount of it is "the right amount!"
M. Wolfe
May 16, 2009, 8:20 PM
Someone once said, "If you smoke after sex, you're doing it too fast."
Anyway, I used to do it...... Jebus, I don't even think how much I used to. I've settled down a bit now, 2 times for most days - even if I'm in a hurry I usually manage to so the "march of the penguin".
However, I do like to not do it for 4-5 days just so that when I do "bash the bishop" it's positively explosive. :male:
rukiddingme
May 17, 2009, 12:54 PM
I just did!!!
rjr1227
May 17, 2009, 4:07 PM
i usually stroke off everyday when i shower. If im home alone, and know im the only one home all day, ill pop in a porn and stroke. Often, ill stroke just before i shoot and rest a lil bit, ill do this 3 or 4 times, then when i do shoot, i have a huge, GREAT orgasm. So my friends,, stroke on!!
cliffml
May 17, 2009, 6:35 PM
I usually jack off once a day, sometimes twice. It's a great stress release and it's a lot of fun. No your not a freak. Just enjoy.
_Joe_
May 17, 2009, 8:29 PM
In a ratio of how much I wank in compared to how often I should be having sex, the ratio is too far off. But then again isn't that the status quo of a married man, not getting enough to satisfy ?
So, I guess I wank just on average ?