feelings..

[Williams]

:) Hi, it has been on my mind of curiosity for a long time. My question to a bi-sexual male: Do you know or "feel" how a girl feels to be horny" (such as when she strips naked, touched on the body, or wanting to engage in sex with u)? If so can you describe (in anyway you feel appropriate) of the feelings you think she has? Is this similar to the feelings you think a guy has when he feels horny? (such as when he desires to be engaged in sexual activity) This will really help me discover myself more. thanks.

[Long Duck Dong]

roflmao.... lol do you know how hard that is to explain ????

honestly, its bloody hard to explain in words...... but here goes

you have to bear in mind I am not a lady.....but i have certain * tweaks * that help me with understanding ladies but a ladies perspective would help so much


now here is where the fun begins..... the aura around a female changes to a bright red/ orange glow.... and that tells me that her sexual nature is active....or the primal instinct as it can be called

i sense a lady is ready or interested, when the lower part of her body warms internally....I am talking about the lower abdomen pubic region and not the pussy... and thats normally about the same time, her voice goes a slight bit deeper....the pupils dilute...and her heart rate raises about 20 beats a minute... ...but thats her body responding .. its not a sign that she is interested in sex with me...

they feel the desire for intimacy.... and underlaying that, can be a desire to reproduce ( tho they may have no intention of having kids ).....

its about that stage, that she starts to feel the desire for the presence of a cock / dildo inside her....not for a fucking... but a cock / dildo inside her... which is why a lot of ladies enjoy the feeling of a cock / dildo held inside them for a few minutes BEFORE the fucking actually starts

and they start to desire the feel of a body pressing against them and the other things associated with sex.....

things like kissing / touching / stroking and rubbing are like secondary desires... in that they can vary....sometimes the lady wants to have her nipples sucked, other times, held and kissed..... sometimes touched and stroked

if she IS interested in me as a sexual mate... she may make more direct eye contact and express her desires tho subtle body language..... and then if I am that dense that i still don't work it out, she may start to undress or kiss me hug me in a different way to a normal kiss and hug

now sometimes the lady may enjoy the chance to surprise me and strip for me or take control.....

generally during love making, i am listening to her body.... i will try different things like kissing, touching, stroking, rubbing etc... and her body tells me if its good or if she is faking it...... so i adjust accordlingly

now in regards to guys... they are less subtle and more direct..... they tend to express their desire in more open body language... its part of the primal instinct in males to * conquer and reproduce *... and at times it can be a controlling instinct....if they are in a sex seeking situation like out at a bar etc.... but at home and in a stable relationship... that instinct is dulled some what, and so they tend to be more nurturing and caring and so they can make better lovers as they are more patient and sensitive to the others needs as well as their own

if you spend a lil time in the chat room you will notice that its the males that are more likely to pm you and wanna cyber.... but the ladies are the ones that will happily sit in the room and share their * cyber love making with the whole room * and make people feel like they are involved, rather than just cybering in a PM so the male can get his rocks off and disappear again

[kitten]

I think you "nailed" it LDD!

[littlerayofsunshine]

Damit, I left my bedroom cam on again..lol


Ok seriously now. My hubby is bisexual, so I may can offer some imput.


I believe he can feel sexually aroused and exude feminine mannarisms during foreplay/sex. Sometimes when I kiss him on the back of the neck from behind , he will arch his back, and press his ass against me. His body becomes agile and cat-like. Sometimes while in foreplay, I will be on top of him and he will wrap his legs around me and we will grind our pelvises together. He will put off signs like a woman can/do. When I touch and play with his nipples, he tells me he can feel heat in his genitals, which is something I feel when my nipples are manipulated. He tells me when he feels his body needing me, needing me to enter him. Make love, fuck, whatever he needs. Which is what I get, the feeling, the need to be entered.


Its early.. Am I even on topic? lol

[billy_campbell]

Damit, I left my bedroom cam on again..lol


Ok seriously now. My hubby is bisexual, so I may can offer some imput.


I believe he can feel sexually aroused and exude feminine mannarisms during foreplay/sex. Sometimes when I kiss him on the back of the neck from behind , he will arch his back, and press his ass against me. His body becomes agile and cat-like. Sometimes while in foreplay, I will be on top of him and he will wrap his legs around me and we will grind our pelvises together. He will put off signs like a woman can/do. When I touch and play with his nipples, he tells me he can feel heat in his genitals, which is something I feel when my nipples are manipulated. He tells me when he feels his body needing me, needing me to enter him. Make love, fuck, whatever he needs. Which is what I get, the feeling, the need to be entered.


Its early.. Am I even on topic? lol


OH yea, you are on topic. Your hubby is on very lucky man.

Being a bisexual man I believe that I have some female traits that make me very sexy and exciting. I like the feeling of being on the receiving end of sex. I like either the woman or man I am with to be assertive and make love to me. I also like to make love to the either a woman or a man. I really get off on making sure the other person gets off first whether that person is male or female. My biggest turn on is being with a couple and getting them both off.

[CountryLover]

Whew, you said it for me LittleRay ;)

My husband and I are newlyweds, and we're both bi. We've been having a wonderful time learning each other's responses and signals. Due to some bad times in both our pasts, we've made a point to verbalize rather than just use non-verbal signals.

One thing we've truly enjoyed is ..I guess you'd call it gender swapping, as I become the top and him the bottom. He's learning to trust me, to ask to be topped and I'm learning his non-verbal signals. Like Ray's hubby, he arches and rubs against me when approached from behind, even in his sleep! He loves softness, soft touches, soft materials, when feeling more feminine. When he starts humping against me, I know he's ready to be entered.

I feel much more aggressive (I'm pretty dominate for a woman to begin with), when he responds to me like that. I dominate, (not the kinky stuff) tell him what I'm going to do to him, and get pretty strong. He's multi-orgasmic, and we usually don't even slow down until he's had a good dozen hard orgasms. He rarely has an erection when wanting anal sex, and usually has dry orgasms.

When we're in hetero mode, it's just the opposite. The touch of his hand stroking my skin, or a gentle kiss on my neck, and my knees melt! As arousal begins, I get the urge to stretch and purr like a cat. My pulse points start pounding, I can feel my genitals opening and flowing...and then I'm at the DO ME NOW stage!

I like my foreplay after about 5 or 6 hard orgasms LOL.

We're in our 50's and making love at least once a day, and go for long spells when it's twice a day, morning and night.
Life is GOOD ;)



Damit, I left my bedroom cam on again..lol


Ok seriously now. My hubby is bisexual, so I may can offer some imput.


I believe he can feel sexually aroused and exude feminine mannarisms during foreplay/sex. Sometimes when I kiss him on the back of the neck from behind , he will arch his back, and press his ass against me. His body becomes agile and cat-like. Sometimes while in foreplay, I will be on top of him and he will wrap his legs around me and we will grind our pelvises together. He will put off signs like a woman can/do. When I touch and play with his nipples, he tells me he can feel heat in his genitals, which is something I feel when my nipples are manipulated. He tells me when he feels his body needing me, needing me to enter him. Make love, fuck, whatever he needs. Which is what I get, the feeling, the need to be entered.


Its early.. Am I even on topic? lol

[someotherguy]

Being bisexual doesn't give me special insights to how women feel. My bisexuality doesn't mean I am half woman, or that my sexual interest in men is similar to a woman's. All that I know about how women feel has come from feeling them. They usually feel pretty good.

[Williams]

Hey people, just another thank you here. So to say, please let me sum up: For guys, you would not know how a girl would feel like to be inserted a dildo into their pussy, but rather you react (by feeling good) to their reactions when that happens?

This also links to my next and last question. There is a tendency that you will understand more about how the person of the same sex as you feels when treated in certain ways (such as being stroked in the cock) (because you experienced it yourself and they are the same as you are). If you think this is not true please do argue. The further and more intense you understand how your partner feels, the hornier you get. Is this true? :tong: