What do you do to relieve your bi urges?

[nu2bi]

I have found that I can get relief from my bi thoughts, by using a very realistic rubber cock and balls that has a suction cup base. I like to heat it up in warm water and pretend that I am sucking off a friend in the shower. Sometimes, I am able to cum a little without going all the way over the edge. I lick my cum off of the rubber cock and pretend that I am actually giving a blowjob and tasting their cum. At this point, I usually have an incredible orgasm! The nicest part about this technique, is that I get to suck on a cock, taste cum, don't have to worry about disease, and the rubber cock is in the mood everytime that I am :bigrin: and there is no awkward time...

What techniques have you discovered that let you relieve yourselves?

[RIfitbiguy]

if, i dont have a friend, i usually masturbate, with a well lubed butt plug, going in, and out of, my butt hole,,,till,i ejaculate...

[DiamondDog]

I watch straight porn where the women are actually sexy and the men are my type.

[clips.1]

try and find another bi person on line right then in the Seattle-Tacoma area. Meet and let the fun begin...

[FalconAngel]

We try to hook up with other Bi guys, but if we haven't done anything for long periods, we have a few toys that I (Chris) use to get the close approximation of it for masterbation.

[krrptyc]

The nicest part about this technique, is that I get to suck on a cock, taste cum, don't have to worry about disease, and the rubber cock is in the mood everytime that I am :bigrin: and there is no awkward time...

That's the thing about masturbation, everybody involved enjoys it. I like to cum all over my rubber cock and then suck the cum off it.

[izzfan]

What do I do to relieve my bi urges? Interesting question and I probably relieve the same sex ones by: listening to rap music, thinking about how I have nothing in common with 'gay culture', stick to str8 porn [well, most of the porn I tend to use is str8, however most of my sexual activity is with guys... its quite interesting really] and hanging around with str8 [male] friends and just immersing myself into straight culture and 'going back into the closet' for a short time.

When I want to relieve my opposite sex urges I tend to do this by: realising that I relate much better to men than women and that a female partner would cause a lot of problems, sleeping with men, steering clear of women as much as possible, gay porn/watching programs like 'queer as folk', admiring good looking men etc...

As for relieving my TV/CD urges [the thing I probs do most often]: furtive dressing in private, reading/watching/listening to things that make me feel like a man [rap music, action films, heavy metal etc...], drinking [although this can backfire spectacularly (and I mean spectacularly) and sometimes make me feel more TG], steering clear of women and distancing myself from them, going into a clothes shop/charity shop and buying only male clothes and thinking about how wonderfully less paranoid/fearful this is to buying female ones, distracting myself from the TV/CD issue as much as possible etc...

Yeah, these probably seem a lot more pessimistic than the previous posts but they seem to work for me. But to be honest my perception of sexuality depends on my mood, environment etc... and I may celebrate various aspects and try to suppress other aspects at different times [eg: when I'm at university, it is quite LGBT friendly so I can be pretty much open about my sexuality most of the time. However, when I'm back home all of my friends there and the atmosphere there is quite str8 not in a major homophobic way but in a mildly conservative/traditionalist way, it was gr8 to grow up there but it did lead to a lot of isolation/self-loathing - I mean the first time I actually had LGBT friends was when I went to university etc...]

Izzfan :flag3:

[kickasstrinity2]

I watch my Girlfriends DVD (produced by Andrew Blake ...www.andrewblake.com) especially the one with aria and justine in the bathroom....way hot! Hot Wax from "Justine" is sexy hot too! Those girls are beautiful.....then i use my strap-on and go town with myself...LOL :rotate: ;)

[mcliff128]

i usually masturbate to gay porn, i imagine i'm one of the guys and i usually cum pretty hard. Sometimes i get my favorite anal toy (6" rubber cock) and jack myself while i fuck my ass deep, then i lick all the cum off my stomach.

[mn freak]

:flag3: Porn,mostly bi porn.My fave is Fine Bi Me (sorry if I sound like a commercial). You have everything from hetro to gay clips. I also use toys,have a big red dildo that I use,or my wife uses her strap-on. :flag3: :three:

[CHOCOLATECITY32]

try and find another bi person on line right then in the Seattle-Tacoma area. Meet and let the fun begin... when i get my bi ugres i like 2 look at pics of girlz asses and i pic myself there watching them and i go 2 town masturbating

[glfr48m]

Put on some frilly lingerie. Watch porn and try to hook up on line. If all fails I get into cyber / phone -- using dildos and vibs

[swans]

Great question! It doesnt matter what time of day it is all I have to do is think about the last bi experience I had and I become so aroused that I cannot wait to relieve myself and taste some hot thick cum again.

Every Thursday for the past four weeks I have been lucky enough to spend a crazy bi night with a couple of close mates of mine who, like me, are also happily married. We all dress in tight latex suits and in the early hours always end up covered in lots of massage oil, sweat and each others cum.

Sometimes when I am on my own and if I have time, I get into my latex gear (the pants have an internal butt plug and a penis tube which acts like a tight cock ring) and make myself orgasm very slowly and, thanks to the tight penis tube, I stay aroused long enough to eat ALL my cum.

Thats what I get up to anyway...Looking forward to Thursday!

[free2peek]

Play role reversal with my wife, with trap-ons and toys and watch bi porn and masturbate together.

[nwmscurious]

Masturbate to gay and bi porn, play with toys from time to time and, if the stars are aligned, have phone sex with a few men that I know. :bigrin:

[wntedlongnwid]

I built a fucking machine that has a variable speed . uses a large dildo 8"x5" and fucks my ass as long as I want. sal

[cscpl2005]

If alone I usually masturbate to bi porn or write a bi-fantasy to my fiance and relive it in my mind as I masturbate. If with my fiance, we will have sex using toys, either realistic dildos for oral sex or me using it on her and sucking on it every now and then, or her and I sharing it orally while having sex. When we have more time and are alone together we will dress in lingerie, her in teddy and stockings and me in only stockings and she will use her strapon on me. All do the trick just fine, but still looking for our first experience. Time has been a problem here lately.

[Spicy]

Watch bi porn and then masturbate. Sometimes I may have my wife masturbate me slowly by rubing the tip of my cock, this drives me crazy and I come one drop at a time, or even I may go on my on all fours that's hands and knees and have her milk me like a cow, or sometimes we could masturbate each other with her rubbing my ass and digging in with her finger.

Spicy

[trip1]

Watch bi porn and then masturbate. Sometimes I may have my wife masturbate me slowly by rubing the tip of my cock, this drives me crazy and I come one drop at a time, or even I may go on my on all fours that's hands and knees and have her milk me like a cow, or sometimes we could masturbate each other with her rubbing my ass and digging in with her finger.

Spicy

Emm Being milked like a cow sounds sooo good....

[yoyo4u]

Fortunately I don't have go it alone.........well, almost.
There are some very talented cyberlovers here on this site, willing to write our own bisex-story.

Although it is far from the real thing, it elevates masturbation to another level, certainly beats doing it to any pre-written story.

Since I am not out to my wife and I can access bisex.com from work only, it leaves me with the written words as the only connection to my secret world.

yoyo

[Herbwoman39]

Tribate! I'm lucky in that hubby will tribate with me whenever I want and he has no problems with me pretending that I'm with another woman. That usually does the trick. ;)

[confused2]

I have found that I can get relief from my bi thoughts, by using a very realistic rubber cock and balls that has a suction cup base. I like to heat it up in warm water and pretend that I am sucking off a friend in the shower. Sometimes, I am able to cum a little without going all the way over the edge. I lick my cum off of the rubber cock and pretend that I am actually giving a blowjob and tasting their cum. At this point, I usually have an incredible orgasm! The nicest part about this technique, is that I get to suck on a cock, taste cum, don't have to worry about disease, and the rubber cock is in the mood everytime that I am :bigrin: and there is no awkward time...

What techniques have you discovered that let you relieve yourselves?

I'm in the same situation but the little difference, I work directly with this person and she has lately been rubbing against when I know she does not have to and does not even say excuse me. She half shows me her breast because she saids the blouse is too low-cut, now don't you know when you buy a blouse whether it's going to be low-cut or not. I have toys and books and the feeling of being bicurious did not start until recently but yet I know I want relations with men and not women which confuses me. good luck with how you deal with it, i hope it will continue to work for you.

[Mrs. Taz]

I usually either go to hornygamer.com or watch porn or pretend my hubby is someone of the female gender that I have a thing for. For some reason it works,I dont know. there is one more thing but cant post it here, atleast as of right now.

[Cid87]

I have sex with my girlfriend, I can usually take care of any urge with her.

[Mrs. Taz]

the otherday I had said I couldnt say right then what the last thing was that I do to relieve bi side. that was because I had to make sure it was ok with my hubby cause has to do with him. I cant really explain it either but sometimes he will pretend as well as he can to be a fem and that takes care of it also.

[loveitall06790]

I like a soft gelly double dong in the shower. soap it up and put it in, then masterbate, everything goes down the drain. How perfect!

[ambi53mm]

Gimme Jack Porn and I don't care
Gimme Jack Porn and I don't care
Gimme Jack Porn and I don't careeeeeeeee.
I masturbate away

Ambi :)

[prefer_6]

If I am unable to have sex with my wife for whatever reason, masturbation is the next option along with a good dildo well lubed. I do have to watch the sex with wife option, as when she starts giving me head (and she is so very good at it), it does actually increase the desire that I have to be doing the same thing at the same time. Of course the absolute ideal solution would be to know another couple willing to join my wife and I for an evening and get the relief that way. However, that is currently something to hope for in the future as my wife is not yet ready for that step.

[matterinhand]

Depends on circumstances.
If I'm alone for a while I'll go to either of the two main chat rooms I use, might go on cam on one of them. (I like being watched, but prefer to watch and be watched if I can.)
If I've only got a few minutes I masturbate.
If I'm with my wife, and in the mood, we both enjoy fantasising about involving another man (or two.)

[bijc2006]

I always did things like that when I was younger, but after awhile a dildo doesn't do the trick any longer. The only way that I get rid of my bisexual urges these days, is after I have had a dick in my mouth. I have never been one to ignore my sexual appetite. There are many ways to enjoy great sex, safely, just don't be a gloryhole hound. These days you can meet guys online and have a good idea about them before you even meet. One should always be safe, no matter who it is you are haviung sex with, besides maybe a partner. Anything else is irresponsible.

[RaineK]

I have a stap-on I heat up a little and put it onto a pillow, then i dress in sexy underwear & bra and suck & play with it until I want to sex myself ... i sex the strap-on in different positions while I watch tranny or gay porn until I have cum.

Sometimes, I put my legs up & over my head and then cum over my face or in my mouth. That's if I'm really horny. :tongue:

I used to have a sex partner where I lived before, so I got the real thing but I moved over a year ago so I haven't had "real sex" for over a year now.

[Tommy2020]

Usually I call my male friend and we have phone sex while we watch bisexual porn on the computer. We try to time our orgasm's together.

[darkeyes]

Well I jus try 2 get off wiv sum1 me fancies who will help me out! :bigrin:

[darkeyes]

o yea.... an failin that there's always Rog!!!

[welickit]

I do one of two things.
1. Tell the wife to strap up
or
2. Call our friend and ask him if he can stop bi.

[BicuriousIndy2]

I either use a dildo or have my wife strap it on.

[siraussietosser]

I jack one off, sometimes in a chat room, I like to show and watch. And once Im finished the urges are gone.

[littlej1019]

I either watch gay porn and masturbate, visit a gay or bi or transsexual chat room until jerk off, or use a slim vibrator on my ass while masturbating, thinking dirty bi thoughts. Relieves it for a while, but nothing does the trick like a real man-to-man encounter.

[halifaxguy619]

Usually end up reading the penthous forum letters about gay/bi/cd guys fucking and getting fucked while laying in bed with a well-lubed vibrator up my ass and on high.

[mikeh16842]

Anyone subscribe to Three Pillows (the site advertised on the site). It has some really good Bi MFM and MM pictures, videos and stories. Masterbating to those videos will take the edge off for me.