newbie help

[CSWolffe]

Hello out there. I am not bi myself, but my wife is. i have always known this about her. I'm a healthy male, so the possibility of a threesome was a turn on. I always told her to feel free to experiment, that she did not need to bring a girl home if she felt uncomfortable. in 10 years she has never acted on her feelings.
recenltly, I was joking around about her bringing home a co-worker. purely in jest. she said no-one she works with, but if I bring home a girl, she would do her.
happy dance
I have begun joining a number of sights looking for the perfect girl to join us, and I am being very picky about this, I dont want just any bi-girl to come waltzing in. I can handle that part. I have had her fill out parts of the couple profiles for some sights, and what she wrote makes me think she is opening up to the idea. she is beggining to fantasize about it.
I am hopeing some of you out there have some advice for how to handle the situation. Ways to prevent jealousy, how to meet with a potential Third for the first time. Any actions I can take to allow her to be her, without being overbearing.

[thesea]

Speaking as a woman who has been in position of your partner I would say be careful that you dont end up feeling left out. she may have been lusting after women for a long time and when she finally gets there she may be very focued on the woman. Not that it will change the way she feels about you but when i had a F/F experience while I was with my b/f it was over whelming and so much more than sex . I was glad that it was just me and the woman although it was fun telling him about it later ;)