View Full Version : Strap Ons? Any kinky stories involving them?
CumSlut1988
Nov 24, 2007, 5:03 PM
I personally love the feeling of a woman taking charge of a man especially me with a strap on, what about you?
tony455
Nov 24, 2007, 5:29 PM
That is something i have always wanted to do,have awoman take charge and dominate the scene.Its agreat fantasy of mine that hasnt been fulfilled.
Any takers out there?
darkeyes
Nov 24, 2007, 8:03 PM
I personally love the feeling of a woman taking charge of a man especially me with a strap on, what about you?
Ya dus??? ooo nice..so wen me glowers at ya an gives ya the Fran look of disdain ya will sit in corner, keep quiet an look sheepish jus like ya shud???:bigrin:
darkeyes
Nov 24, 2007, 8:04 PM
That is something i have always wanted to do,have awoman take charge and dominate the scene.Its agreat fantasy of mine that hasnt been fulfilled.
Any takers out there?
...an u an all....:tong:
princessSinsia
Nov 24, 2007, 11:07 PM
I love to do my man with my strap on as much as he loves getting it.
I have been to a club in Toronto and used a strap on to do this guy and was being done by a female with her strap on. I still quiver just thinking about it.:bounce::bounce:
buck-rogers
Nov 25, 2007, 12:19 AM
I have only had the pleasure once but I would love to do it again. Everything about the experience was wonderful. The experience of the anticipation from watching her strap it on and lube it up in front me slowly was so intense. And the look on her face during the whole thing... well I just hope it isn't a once in a life time thing:). :compuser:
welickit
Nov 25, 2007, 9:12 AM
My wife has two strapon's which we both enjoy very much. I think the first time she fingered me she was 16 or 17. She was blowing me and just decided she wanted to slip a finger in me. From then on it just progressed and has been fun for both of us.
ihavapa
Nov 25, 2007, 4:07 PM
I have often wanted a strapon used on me but there are not many takers on it, a couple used a vibe and there were some fingers too, all in all it was a very full-filling event.
musqrat
Nov 25, 2007, 11:21 PM
I only did it once and didn't find it very fulfilling but that may be because the dildo we used was very small (about the size of my thumb). If we'd used a more life-size dildo I might have enjoyed it more. My wife isn't into it, but I have a FWB who may be...
musqrat
Nov 25, 2007, 11:22 PM
Related question, has anyone here used one of those J-shaped double-ended dildos with a woman? You put the smaller end in the man's ass and the bigger end in the woman's ass, and your cock in her pussy. Sounds like fun, but I wonder how practical it is.
princessSinsia
Nov 26, 2007, 10:34 PM
About double dildos. They can be very akward and slip out easily. Just like anything else, practice makes perfect. I prefer vibrating eggs myself.:upside:
rmark111
Nov 27, 2007, 11:25 AM
I guess I got really lucky with my girl. On our second date she asked me if she could use a strap on on me and I was all too willing to allow her to dominate me. We have several toys that she uses with great vigor to please me from behind. I love the full feeling and the constant pressure on my prostate that makes my legs shake. She has a gift and does me better than any man I have ever known. Love that girl!!!!
I feel sorry for all those guys out there who have not had that experience. I hope they will open up and explore all that great sex has to offer. Enjoy!!!!
welickit
Nov 27, 2007, 6:55 PM
Our experience has been that lots of guys want to try it but few are able to accommodate a strap on the first try.
DiamondDog
Nov 28, 2007, 5:48 AM
I personally love the feeling of a woman taking charge of a man especially me with a strap on, what about you?
That's not something I'm interested in doing.
I've tried anal sex and I prefer it with fingers and a tongue.
Also, women don't really understand what it's like to have a prostate orgasm and don't really get a prostate or how to pleasure it as well as other men do.
The same goes for women truly understanding a penis and how to pleasure a man with their hands/mouth, and likewise for men truly understanding a clit, a clit orgasm vs. a g-spot orgasm, and how to please a woman with their fingers and mouth.
I'm OK with watching bi porn star Christian/Maxxx Disel bottom for women with toys, and pre op MTF/genderqueer people who look MTF since he's so damn hot! *ROWL!* <3 XO
musqrat
Nov 28, 2007, 6:54 AM
Our experience has been that lots of guys want to try it but few are able to accommodate a strap on the first try.
Well, I would assume most guys interested in trying a strap-on would try using a dildo on their own first. And for any kind of anal intercourse, you gotta get the anus "warmed up" first before putting anything of a decent size in it...
its just me
Nov 28, 2007, 10:16 AM
Musqrat is right...you have to "warm up" before you can take a good sized strap on. i bought a set of 3 butt plugs (sm. med, OMG), after some play with the sm and med one, the OMG goes in just fine. Also have a double headed dildo (AC/DC type) that i use. One side is graduated from small (1 inch circum) to about 5 1/2 inches and about 7 inches long. After that work out, a strap on should be enjoyable:bigrin:
jay_1981
Nov 28, 2007, 12:16 PM
ive always wanted 2 try it
welickit
Nov 29, 2007, 8:33 PM
Musqrat you assume wrong. Most guys don't. Additionally, we have been doing it longer than you have been alive so are well aware of the lube issues etc. No offense intended toward your post but as we stated, that is our experience. Obviously there are lots of guys that have nothing more than a plug or dildo so they may well experiment.:bipride:
biupstateny
Nov 29, 2007, 8:52 PM
My bf came out to me almost a year ago after dating 2 years.!! I have always been turned on by gay (man) sex, now I have the best of both worlds. We just recently bought a strap on for me to do him with....getting him on his knees and pounding his ass, slapping his ass, and just pushing that cock in him was so intense....id love to tell my story but think I wrote enough!
mn freak
Nov 29, 2007, 10:56 PM
We love our strap ons. "A picture is worth a thousand words."
mooon
Dec 16, 2007, 2:43 PM
We love our strap ons. "A picture is worth a thousand words."
Is that a Feeldoe? HOT.
My wife finds the usual strap-on uncomfortable. But I sure like it!
Many of the dildoes aren't stiff enough for good anal penetration. Others are too hard on the surface.
So please tell us:
Is it stiff enough, and how is the texture?
Do you (the woman) find it comfortable and pleasurable?
I have heard that some need a harness with it to keep it in place. What is your experience?
:male:
bi42guy1958
Dec 18, 2007, 2:51 PM
I was lucky enough a few yrs ago to have a gf that enjoyed me being bi, and strapping on was an almost normal thing in our lovemaking, because SHE wanted it! Unfortunatley, I let her slip away she wanted marriage at the time and I wasnt ready for it. And you guys are right, not many out there like her! What I wouldnt give to have her bach boinking my brains out now!:)
darkeyes
Dec 18, 2007, 4:10 PM
Dunno if yad count this as kinky zactly..but me m8 wos in throes of pash wiv er lady luff wen she overbalanced an fell 2 floor wiv strap on well strapped on...she hit floor, winded erself, bruised er hip an tummy..an the strap broke.... all me can say is she wos lukky me wosnt er partner cos 1 thing me cant stand is unreliable an clumsy luffers.. spesh wen me expectin a rite gud time imminently!!!!!!
Bluebiyou
Dec 18, 2007, 10:32 PM
Sounds like fun! I'd love for my girl to even wander conversation into a 'feeldoe'.
But my gf must express interest in the act or my feelings. The last thing I want to do is force my (bisexual) stuff on her. She knows I am bisexual. Free will is everything. I'm lucky to have found a girl as loving as her, for that is my foremost principle and love in my life; just love; anything beyond is ... icing on the cake. I've learned that pure hearts are just so rare...