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lovehotguyz
Jan 17, 2008, 9:34 PM
Ok, I've never actually given a guy a rimjob so I've just wanted to know from those who have, what does it feel like. I mean, doeznt it taste kinda gross or sumtin, like do u ask him to clean it before putting your tongue down there, do u just go and dive rite in there, i mean what is it like to actually rim a guy, and how would you do it w/o making it look awkward.

And to all guyz out there who have been rimmed, what does it feel like, i mean is it as good as getting head, does it really feel all that great. Just wanted to know.

proseros
Jan 17, 2008, 11:42 PM
My friend, please don't be offended by what I'm about to say here.
Sometimes I might see a situation that calls for "tough love", as it were, and so I hope you don't mind my be being straightforward in replying to your query.

While I respect the fact that you are honest enough about your own inexperience with some things to come forward and ask questions from those who might know better, much of what you asking is a matter of common sense-otherwise idle speculation in thinking that one thing should be comparable to some other thing; for starters, if you have to ask someone to wash thier ass before you put your face in it then obviously you are dealing with someone who doesn't consciously maintain any kind of "sexual" hygeine-And why then would you want to rim them to begin with? In that case, as is said for opinions, yes everyone has an anus, and besides the practice of said hygiene, one is no dirtier (or cleaner given that fact) than the other.

I am sure we can all argue about how to go about the whole business. Traditionally sexual education advises never to actually insert your tongue into an asshole, given the risk of sponging your tongue with cryptosporidic bateria-only to lightly play around the outside of anus. This wet tickling is quite titillating for some men and in some case may excite orgasm (and less favorably, perhaps a fart), but as far as it "feels" to the "rimmer", I wouldn't expect anyone to know that but the rimmer his/herself-in this case you. If you are as full of apprehension and expectation as you seem to be, then perhaps you should forgo the the experience until you have a partner you can responsibly and maturely engage the activity with. If you are looking to toss salad merely for the personal honor of including it in your repetoire of skills, then you might be hasty enough to expose yourself to undesirable "results".

While this may sound a bit "mushy" and unmasculine, I personally feel that the anus is very "special" part of the anatomy which should, along with the person it belongs to, be treated with tender care, appreciation and respect, especially that of the person who doesn't mind surrendering his own to you in a way that permits you to create the kind pleasurable sensations afforded when this tight, bound up area of membranous tissue is stimulated. As for the taste and smell-remarkably,the closer you get to an asshole the sweeter the taste and smell seems to be-hence the term "rim" aptly defines that part of the anus just inside and around the "opening" where adept butt-munchers like best to park thier licks, what I call the "pink ass-meat", which is somehow consistently tangy and flowery (especially in younge men), and grows sweeter the longer the tongue is in contact, which is an effect of the taste buds themselves and not necessarily an inherant quality of the anus itself.

You're not posing for anyone, and anyway you manage to get at it is going to "look" awkward, so I'm not sure exactly what you are trying to get an answer to with that consideration.

I suppose the whole affair plays out no differently than any ordinary coital act; the sphincter initially being naturally closed to all intrusions, though equally capable of welcoming, and accommodating objects much larger, with as much ease, is gently coaxed with elaborate licks and flangings, until it gives up its "meat", allowing the tongue to gradually work its way in there and do a dirty danse with the elevation of mutual passions.

Doggie_Wood
Jan 22, 2008, 6:46 AM
Pros - your sophistication and eloquence abounds. Well spoken. Bravo!

:doggie:

parkerbi
Jan 22, 2008, 11:45 AM
My friend, please don't be offended by what I'm about to say here.
Sometimes I might see a situation that calls for "tough love", as it were, and so I hope you don't mind my be being straightforward in replying to your query.

While I respect the fact that you are honest enough about your own inexperience with some things to come forward and ask questions from those who might know better, much of what you asking is a matter of common sense-otherwise idle speculation in thinking that one thing should be comparable to some other thing; for starters, if you have to ask someone to wash thier ass before you put your face in it then obviously you are dealing with someone who doesn't consciously maintain any kind of "sexual" hygeine-And why then would you want to rim them to begin with? In that case, as is said for opinions, yes everyone has an anus, and besides the practice of said hygiene, one is no dirtier (or cleaner given that fact) than the other.

I am sure we can all argue about how to go about the whole business. Traditionally sexual education advises never to actually insert your tongue into an asshole, given the risk of sponging your tongue with cryptosporidic bateria-only to lightly play around the outside of anus. This wet tickling is quite titillating for some men and in some case may excite orgasm (and less favorably, perhaps a fart), but as far as it "feels" to the "rimmer", I wouldn't expect anyone to know that but the rimmer his/herself-in this case you. If you are as full of apprehension and expectation as you seem to be, then perhaps you should forgo the the experience until you have a partner you can responsibly and maturely engage the activity with. If you are looking to toss salad merely for the personal honor of including it in your repetoire of skills, then you might be hasty enough to expose yourself to undesirable "results".

While this may sound a bit "mushy" and unmasculine, I personally feel that the anus is very "special" part of the anatomy which should, along with the person it belongs to, be treated with tender care, appreciation and respect, especially that of the person who doesn't mind surrendering his own to you in a way that permits you to create the kind pleasurable sensations afforded when this tight, bound up area of membranous tissue is stimulated. As for the taste and smell-remarkably,the closer you get to an asshole the sweeter the taste and smell seems to be-hence the term "rim" aptly defines that part of the anus just inside and around the "opening" where adept butt-munchers like best to park thier licks, what I call the "pink ass-meat", which is somehow consistently tangy and flowery (especially in younge men), and grows sweeter the longer the tongue is in contact, which is an effect of the taste buds themselves and not necessarily an inherant quality of the anus itself.

You're not posing for anyone, and anyway you manage to get at it is going to "look" awkward, so I'm not sure exactly what you are trying to get an answer to with that consideration.

I suppose the whole affair plays out no differently than any ordinary coital act; the sphincter initially being naturally closed to all intrusions, though equally capable of welcoming, and accommodating objects much larger, with as much ease, is gently coaxed with elaborate licks and flangings, until it gives up its "meat", allowing the tongue to gradually work its way in there and do a dirty danse with the elevation of mutual passions.

good comment and you got my point.HAHA

IanGray
Jan 31, 2008, 12:41 PM
Is it not wise to get hepatitis B shots before rimming someone? I wouldn't do it before I'd done that.

BreeIsMe
Jan 31, 2008, 6:08 PM
Proseros,
I have never read so much written so eloquently about a topic like the anus... Well done---you have gone above (and below?) the call of duty!!

Bree

HighEnergy
Jan 31, 2008, 10:10 PM
Is it not wise to get hepatitis B shots before rimming someone? I wouldn't do it before I'd done that.

Well, I don't know, but I kinda like to know someone VERY well before I'm putting my tongue on their anus. :eek: Safe sex is always a good thing. You can use the cling wrap that's not for microwaving veggies or a dental dam.

jem_is_bi
Jan 31, 2008, 10:41 PM
I really apreciate it clean down there while my tongue is busy at nearby attractions.
But, rimming is too just too nearby for me.
If you like it, enough to do it; I hope you take actiions, which enable you stay healthy.

JEM

anteak
Feb 1, 2008, 8:26 AM
Several years back I was attending a cock sucking party in Palm springs. I was watching others suck when a guy asked if he could suck my cock. I laid on the bed with my legs hanging over the edge. he got down and took my cock in his mouth and was giving me a great blow job when he put his arms under my knees and elevated my ass tiull he could lick me, it felt great as I have always loved anal sex. He licked for awhile the let me down and proceded to make me cum which he swallowed.

I have never rimmed a guy but used to lick my GFs ass occaisionaly. I would give her what we called a trip around the world. It started with me kissing her lips, working my way down to her breasts, tummy, navel, pussy, inner thighs, back up to the back of her knees eventually reaching her butt. I would spread her cheeks and lick her asshole trying to penetrate her as far as I could. It was part of our sex life and we both enjoyed it. I should add this only took place after we had spent 20 min. or so in the hot tub and we felt we were both very clean.

I do recall once we were sitting in her den naked, probably watching porn. without saying a word she got up, came over to where I was sitting, lifted my legs and rimmed me. It was most enjoyable and surprising.

FriedDuck
Feb 9, 2008, 5:32 AM
My friend, please don't be offended by what I'm about to say here.
Sometimes I might see a situation that calls for "tough love", as it were, and so I hope you don't mind my be being straightforward in replying to your query.

While I respect the fact that you are honest enough about your own inexperience with some things to come forward and ask questions from those who might know better, much of what you asking is a matter of common sense-otherwise idle speculation in thinking that one thing should be comparable to some other thing; for starters, if you have to ask someone to wash thier ass before you put your face in it then obviously you are dealing with someone who doesn't consciously maintain any kind of "sexual" hygeine-And why then would you want to rim them to begin with? In that case, as is said for opinions, yes everyone has an anus, and besides the practice of said hygiene, one is no dirtier (or cleaner given that fact) than the other.

I am sure we can all argue about how to go about the whole business. Traditionally sexual education advises never to actually insert your tongue into an asshole, given the risk of sponging your tongue with cryptosporidic bateria-only to lightly play around the outside of anus. This wet tickling is quite titillating for some men and in some case may excite orgasm (and less favorably, perhaps a fart), but as far as it "feels" to the "rimmer", I wouldn't expect anyone to know that but the rimmer his/herself-in this case you. If you are as full of apprehension and expectation as you seem to be, then perhaps you should forgo the the experience until you have a partner you can responsibly and maturely engage the activity with. If you are looking to toss salad merely for the personal honor of including it in your repetoire of skills, then you might be hasty enough to expose yourself to undesirable "results".

While this may sound a bit "mushy" and unmasculine, I personally feel that the anus is very "special" part of the anatomy which should, along with the person it belongs to, be treated with tender care, appreciation and respect, especially that of the person who doesn't mind surrendering his own to you in a way that permits you to create the kind pleasurable sensations afforded when this tight, bound up area of membranous tissue is stimulated. As for the taste and smell-remarkably,the closer you get to an asshole the sweeter the taste and smell seems to be-hence the term "rim" aptly defines that part of the anus just inside and around the "opening" where adept butt-munchers like best to park thier licks, what I call the "pink ass-meat", which is somehow consistently tangy and flowery (especially in younge men), and grows sweeter the longer the tongue is in contact, which is an effect of the taste buds themselves and not necessarily an inherant quality of the anus itself.

You're not posing for anyone, and anyway you manage to get at it is going to "look" awkward, so I'm not sure exactly what you are trying to get an answer to with that consideration.

I suppose the whole affair plays out no differently than any ordinary coital act; the sphincter initially being naturally closed to all intrusions, though equally capable of welcoming, and accommodating objects much larger, with as much ease, is gently coaxed with elaborate licks and flangings, until it gives up its "meat", allowing the tongue to gradually work its way in there and do a dirty danse with the elevation of mutual passions.

Who cares? Why not just have someone shit in your mouth?

Hephaestion
Feb 9, 2008, 5:58 AM
Comment on FriedDuck's scatological suggestion

I am sure that in the Marquis de Sade's recommendation, the maid to perform such action should first exist on a diet of marzipan for some lengthy time prior to the act in order to make the turds taste better.

As for the rest of us pervs we're all for the, gas rich, exploding crunchy peanut butter 'au naturelle'.

Seriously - heed the advice given by the members above. Make sure also that your partner does not eat raw meats or fish. It's not jus the bacteria. You might also consider worming; nasty little fellows nematodes.

marcelloNYC
Feb 9, 2008, 1:08 PM
Ciao Parkerbi,

That was a beautiful and eloquent comment about analingus, and the anus in general.:)

Ciao,
Marcello

PS. With your permission I would love to post it on my blog, with full credit to you of course.

Pm let me know!

proseros
Feb 9, 2008, 6:04 PM
Ciao Parkerbi,

That was a beautiful and eloquent comment about analingus, and the anus in general.:)

Ciao,
Marcello

PS. With your permission I would love to post it on my blog, with full credit to you of course.

Pm let me know!

Sure, no problem...

trubipoly
Nov 30, 2008, 1:39 AM
with all common sense and safety taken i fucking love to rim and be rimmed

curious44
Nov 30, 2008, 2:31 AM
My only long term male sex partner loved being rimmed. Because our sessions usually involved mutual anal sex we always began with fleet enemas and genital washing including our anus. I never got that much from being rimmed but because he did I rimmed him often and with enthusiasm. I don't recall ever doing it without cleansing first and I'm here today, years later, with pleasant memories and no ill effects.

bigulfcpl
Nov 30, 2008, 12:09 PM
Great post, pros.

Yes, Hepatitis can be contracted by rimming, so keep that in mind.

I absolutely love rimming, both giving and receiving. I will do it to my wife when I am eating her, and a guy when I am blowing him. It is an incredible feeling, but, timing is everything, and you want to limit the time you are doing it.

Just my opinion.

Ron

wss30152
Nov 30, 2008, 9:45 PM
Please, just shut up and eat my asshole

XXXperimental
Dec 1, 2008, 12:27 AM
So if you want to try this on someone for the first time do you think you should ask first or work your way down there and just go for it? I've done it a few times, but it was with my ex. We were drunk and it just kinda happened.