Had my first threesome and now I am very confused.

[sonofdad]

Hello.

I am a 27 year old male straight male. The other night I had my first MMF threesome. I am going to give alot of details and I am sorry if it is too long but I can't get this whole experience out of my mind.

I dated the girl years ago when i was in college and we have been best friends since and often times are screw buddies because we feel so comfortable with each other and know each other so well sexually.

She is basically a sex goddess and is so kinky that she has almost ruined me sexually when it comes to other women. She is a beautiful blonde with amazing legs and hips and nice D sized breasts. Recently she started seeing a guy from her work and told me about the couple times they had sex. So on the phone, she mentioned that he had the biggest dick she had ever had and that it hurt her and satisfied her at the same time. I found when she was telling me this that I was getting butterflies in my stomach and so aroused. I asked her for details about what they did sexually and as she told me, I masturbated. When she told me about the places that he came on her I lost it myself and came.

I didn't think much of the conversation other than i thought it was like a form of porn and because she is so hot to me that the thought of her pleasing another guy was arousing to me.

So fast forward to the other weekend. I take her out on the town and too a movie and we head back to her apartment for the evening. As we were watching a DVD, there is a knock on the door...it's the guy she is seeing...lets call him Juan. He was just stopping by to say hi and while he and, let's call her christy...while they chat I take a call outside for 20 mins or so. I re-enter the apartment and find them on the sofa passionately kissing and oblivious to my presense in the room. I immediately got rock hard and took a seat in her lounge chair next to the sofa and watched them lose themselves in each other...as well as their clothes!

he was sitting on the right side of the sofa with his legs forward while she was on her knees next to him on the sofa. Christy was stripped down to her red, lacey boy shorts and she wasted no time in getting Juan's jeans slipped off. When she got his underwear off and his cock sprang out, i could not believe it. It was an impressive site. I was soo aroused watching her take it in her mouth and drool saliva all over his shaft. She was obviously giving him an amazing blowjob because he could not stop moaning and squirming.

I removed my pants and started to masturbate myself to this, afraid to join in on the action. Christy noticed me and give me a slight nod and a wink letting me know it was ok to join in. So I immediately climbed up behind her and removed her boy shorts and slid a couple fingers inside her. She was soo wet and warm, i could not hold out any longer and slid my cock into her from behind. I screwed her doggy as she moaned all over Juan's dick. I was in heaven, I could not believe it was happening. juan climbed to his knees and and got to a position on his knees where he could thrust into Christy's mouth and we continued this way for a while with Christie cumming over and over. Juan finally roared in orgasm and came all over her face and squirt up over her and onto her back. This sent me over the edge and I pulled out and shot all over her back as well. I rubbed our combined cum into her skin and let her lick the rest off my fingers before she pushed me to the ground and climbed on me 69 style.

She immediately sucked me to a full hardness again and I buried my face into her and tasted her juices. After a few moments I felt Juan position himself over me and I watched in delight as his massive, mocha colored cock head spread her lips and push into her. Her whole body tensed up as he slowley entered and she moaned on my cock in delight. I watched his beautiful cock push in and out of her and she came all over he shaft.

I licked her clit as he screwed her and found myself wanting to taste his shaft as he went in and out of her. His balls teased me as they dipped onto my face and I finally just ran my tongue off her clit and onto the area where his shaft entered her. I could feel it slid over my tongue and he moaned a bit. After a few moments of this, he pulled back a bit and his massive penis slipped from her and plopped right on my face. He left it there for a moment and I realized he wanted me to lick it and suck it. I had butterflies flood my stomach again as I ran my tongue over the shaft and tasted her juices...then i arched my head back and took the massive head into my mouth and ran my tongue around it. I was soo aroused. The mushroom head felt soo good in my mouth and I turned on my side so that I could get my tongue underneath his cock head and I sucked on as much of him as i could before i gagged. I ran my hand over his shaft and felt the hardness and throbbing. His precum oozed in my mouth and it tasted soo good. I ran my hands over his balls, then reluctantly released his member from my mouth and guided him back in Christy.

Soon Juan growled like a beast and plucked his already cumming cock from Christy and sprayed the remains of his cum onto my face and again let his cock fall on my face. I licked what cum i could off his head and out of him, which sent me over the edge and I came hard into Christy's mouth. Afterwards, we exchanged no words and Juan left.

Now i find myself very confused. I don't find men physically attractive. I don't want to kiss a man and I don't want to be emotionally intimate with a man. But for some reason I can't get the idea of Juan's cock out of my mind and I want to suck on it again as he screws Christy.

What does this mean? Does it mean i might be bi sexual? or does it simply mean I have a cock fetish or a curiosity?

Any insight will be appreciated.

[xxxcjs]

That is one hot story! Sounds like you got luck and found out something new about yourself at the same time. Just ask yourself a question , if you had the same situation over agin would you do the same think ? Or if the roles were reversed would you freak if theis guy took you in his mouth , if if it went on any long would you went any further with the situation? Maybe your curious and this was just the opertunity you need to push you over the edge.

[TrimBeardHairyBod]

I've always suspected that same-sex attraction is an attempt to connect with a part of oneself - you as the person you are now, you as the person you could be.

Something for you to reflect on, perhaps....

[diB4u]

Well to be honest with you if you found the act stimulating then you need to really think about stuff.


That's how I realised that i was Bicurious, because althought the women that I paticipated with i didnt really like, i liked kissing a woman and having them touch me.

Like i said in a previous post, i'm waiting for the right moment and relationship with a woman for me to finally become bisexual as well as pansexual.

[curcpl88]

Loved your story - got me really aroused. I also am having difficulty with my sexuality although haven't had the pleasure you describe in your note. I am happily married and love sex with females, but also find the sight of a nice cock very arousing. Like you though, I don't enjoy touching, kissing,and cuddling with men arousing at all. I do luv to touch, stroke, and suck a cock to completion. I now arrange to meet other Bimen for sex without my wife knowing and of course feel somewhat guilty some of the time.
Don't know where all of this will lead...

BiGuy

[innaminka]

What does this mean? Does it mean i might be bi sexual? or does it simply mean I have a cock fetish or a curiosity?

Any insight will be appreciated.

An unknowing insight here - I have never participated in a 3'some to that extent. Barely any extent, actually. Not my scene. :) But I do have years and (perhaps) wisdom.

I wouldn't ponder too long on the details of what happened. Okay in the excitement of the sexual encounter you experienced what you perceive to be a partly homosexual act. And weren't completely undone.
I think maybe you should put it down to one of those accidents of life that happen. During the actual sex act, excitement levels can go through the roof and sometimes you do things that in the cold light of rational daylight probably seem totally foreign. It happens to everyone. :tongue:
That you weren't devastated probably says something for your sanity; pretty good I'd say, but being bi (or gay) entails far more than tasting a bit of white stuff during a frenetic threesome.

Have a cold shower and put it down to a wonderful night where you got very excited and very satisfied.

[31cho]

Hello.

I am a 27 year old male straight male. The other night I had my first MMF threesome. I am going to give alot of details and I am sorry if it is too long but I can't get this whole experience out of my mind.

I dated the girl years ago when i was in college and we have been best friends since and often times are screw buddies because we feel so comfortable with each other and know each other so well sexually.

She is basically a sex goddess and is so kinky that she has almost ruined me sexually when it comes to other women. She is a beautiful blonde with amazing legs and hips and nice D sized breasts. Recently she started seeing a guy from her work and told me about the couple times they had sex. So on the phone, she mentioned that he had the biggest dick she had ever had and that it hurt her and satisfied her at the same time. I found when she was telling me this that I was getting butterflies in my stomach and so aroused. I asked her for details about what they did sexually and as she told me, I masturbated. When she told me about the places that he came on her I lost it myself and came.

I didn't think much of the conversation other than i thought it was like a form of porn and because she is so hot to me that the thought of her pleasing another guy was arousing to me.

So fast forward to the other weekend. I take her out on the town and too a movie and we head back to her apartment for the evening. As we were watching a DVD, there is a knock on the door...it's the guy she is seeing...lets call him Juan. He was just stopping by to say hi and while he and, let's call her christy...while they chat I take a call outside for 20 mins or so. I re-enter the apartment and find them on the sofa passionately kissing and oblivious to my presense in the room. I immediately got rock hard and took a seat in her lounge chair next to the sofa and watched them lose themselves in each other...as well as their clothes!

he was sitting on the right side of the sofa with his legs forward while she was on her knees next to him on the sofa. Christy was stripped down to her red, lacey boy shorts and she wasted no time in getting Juan's jeans slipped off. When she got his underwear off and his cock sprang out, i could not believe it. It was an impressive site. I was soo aroused watching her take it in her mouth and drool saliva all over his shaft. She was obviously giving him an amazing blowjob because he could not stop moaning and squirming.

I removed my pants and started to masturbate myself to this, afraid to join in on the action. Christy noticed me and give me a slight nod and a wink letting me know it was ok to join in. So I immediately climbed up behind her and removed her boy shorts and slid a couple fingers inside her. She was soo wet and warm, i could not hold out any longer and slid my cock into her from behind. I screwed her doggy as she moaned all over Juan's dick. I was in heaven, I could not believe it was happening. juan climbed to his knees and and got to a position on his knees where he could thrust into Christy's mouth and we continued this way for a while with Christie cumming over and over. Juan finally roared in orgasm and came all over her face and squirt up over her and onto her back. This sent me over the edge and I pulled out and shot all over her back as well. I rubbed our combined cum into her skin and let her lick the rest off my fingers before she pushed me to the ground and climbed on me 69 style.

She immediately sucked me to a full hardness again and I buried my face into her and tasted her juices. After a few moments I felt Juan position himself over me and I watched in delight as his massive, mocha colored cock head spread her lips and push into her. Her whole body tensed up as he slowley entered and she moaned on my cock in delight. I watched his beautiful cock push in and out of her and she came all over he shaft.

I licked her clit as he screwed her and found myself wanting to taste his shaft as he went in and out of her. His balls teased me as they dipped onto my face and I finally just ran my tongue off her clit and onto the area where his shaft entered her. I could feel it slid over my tongue and he moaned a bit. After a few moments of this, he pulled back a bit and his massive penis slipped from her and plopped right on my face. He left it there for a moment and I realized he wanted me to lick it and suck it. I had butterflies flood my stomach again as I ran my tongue over the shaft and tasted her juices...then i arched my head back and took the massive head into my mouth and ran my tongue around it. I was soo aroused. The mushroom head felt soo good in my mouth and I turned on my side so that I could get my tongue underneath his cock head and I sucked on as much of him as i could before i gagged. I ran my hand over his shaft and felt the hardness and throbbing. His precum oozed in my mouth and it tasted soo good. I ran my hands over his balls, then reluctantly released his member from my mouth and guided him back in Christy.

Soon Juan growled like a beast and plucked his already cumming cock from Christy and sprayed the remains of his cum onto my face and again let his cock fall on my face. I licked what cum i could off his head and out of him, which sent me over the edge and I came hard into Christy's mouth. Afterwards, we exchanged no words and Juan left.

Now i find myself very confused. I don't find men physically attractive. I don't want to kiss a man and I don't want to be emotionally intimate with a man. But for some reason I can't get the idea of Juan's cock out of my mind and I want to suck on it again as he screws Christy.

What does this mean? Does it mean i might be bi sexual? or does it simply mean I have a cock fetish or a curiosity?

Any insight will be appreciated.

Wow thats a hot story.Where did you find that book? Because i know your local barnes and nobel does not sell those kind of books.

[hankjr]

I myself do not like kissing and such but I am a very very good cocksucker , I look at the cock first and foremost. I feel i am bi sexual. Don't feel confused just enjoy your new found way of enjoyment

[jem_is_bi]

I do not have any advise that would be useful for you. Because, I would have tried to get Christy out of the way and DEFINITELY find out if Juan wanted more of what I had to offer (and he liked) at a later date.

JEM

[swans]

I enjoyed reading about your first mmf threesome and became VERY eroused as you perfectly described having that hard cock against your face. I was especially turned on by how much you were excited by having his large wet mushroom cock head enter your mouth for the first time, for I can easily picture the scene and remember my own first mmf experience and how exciting it was.

I hope, like me, you can continue to enjoy having another cock (or two as in my own case- greedy I know) to occasionally play with. And if you do I will, I hope, look forward to reading more of your sticky adventures.

[DiamondDog]

Wow thats a hot story.Where did you find that book? Because i know your local barnes and nobel does not sell those kind of books.

lmao! :tongue:

[open2both]

YES, you're bi!
Don't fight it, that's in your makeup.
EMBRACE the "new" you!!

[cliffml]

I would say you're Bi. I wouldn't worry about labeling yourself, if you enjoy it then have a good time if the situation happens again. :bipride:

[FerociousFeline]

Well, I'd have to agree that this story reminds me of something I'd see in an old penthouse forum or something.....and if it were posted on CL I'd lay odds that it was bait. Having said that, regardless of the source of the information if it's perspective you wish to have, here's mine.

First of all I believe that the natural state of all human animals is that of being bisexual. We are born that way and then we are socialized OUT of the impulses. For some, the social conditioning isn't substantial enough to overcome our own natural instinctive sex drives. Those are the people who wind up coming to terms with their appetites for both sexes and from there on out it merely becomes a matter of trying to integrate the behavior into our self image, or into our lifestyle if we decide to go ahead and act on it.

If you were to look at the situation you presented, the key here would be to determine several aspects of the experience. (It should be noted that one of your previous answers really hit the mark when they said that you were pretty much in full out GRIND mode and likely would have found anything okay while you were in that state) But, the craving to put a big cock in your mouth and experience the sensations of that does go over the line of heterosexuality. Many Het men can enjoy anal intercourse with toys or their wives fingers and still not technically be over the line. But to CRAVE the experience of servicing another male might indicate that you are at least CAPABLE.....of being more than JUST heterosexual. A lot of people would and do disagree with me that expression of sexuality is a choice, but I believe that if most people were to ALLOW themselves to "let go" of all the fear and shame that has been programmed into them by society, most of those people would wind up on the bisexual side of the fence.

So really, it's not about whether or not you should think of it like: "OMG I drooled over the possibility of servicing a male, and OMG, um...I DID...and even MORE OMG.....I think I um....might have actually LIKED it."

But purrhaps you might think of it more along the lines of: " Wow. I really AM that flexible. I really have the strength to realize that I don't have to limit my sexual expression to what homophobic people tell me is okay."

Either way, it's extremely important for you to realize that having a homosexual or even bisexual experience doesn't MAKE you either homosexual or bisexual. It makes you "Experienced". The difference is that having the experience means you've done it, whereas choosing the experience over and over again indicates that you enjoy/prefer it.

I hope this helps.

FF

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

What was the question?? Oh, oh..thats right. (Sorry, got all H&B over the story..lol)
Hon, you had a small taste (no pun intended) of what a Bi situation is like, and as long as it was pleasurable for you, then worry not. If the opportunity to play with them both again arises( pun intended this time) then go for it! How are you going to learn if you dont experiment and explore your boundries? :}
Have fun Sugar
Cat.

[Cherisher1]

I agree with others that the post sounds like a magazine article. Yet, I offer this anyway.
A few years ago I read a statistic that said 10% of American men has had one sexual encounter of some sort with another man. I once worked for an agency and with some personal research there learned that that percentage could actually be as high as 25%. The just this week I read a web article that stated 33% of American men have resisted some manner of attempted rape by other men. A lot of people don’t put much stock in statistics but some things are for sure.
Every man has some female in him and every woman has some male in her. Even the orient speaks of this and represents it with the Ying/Yang symbol. It is typical that this is in balance in our personalities. However, during our lives, we drift from one side to the other depending on influences and circumstances of our environment. Society places labels on us no matter which side of the balance we find ourselves on or desire to be on.
When we unexpectedly find ourselves on a side of the balance we would never expect, there is a period of confusion, and then, we must decide consciously where we want to be (straight, bisexual, or gay). The problem is that we often make that decision before we understand what out new feelings really mean to us because to find out means more exploration in that new world of feelings. Most straight men are afraid to do this exploration because of the many pressures and affects it would in fact have on the world he has built for himself and that others have built around him. Some have developed psychological blocks due to some factors that impacted them as they grew to adulthood. They may be so psychologically blocked that they become violent at the mere suggestion of the idea of sexual contact with another man and indeed, our society supports that aggression. The so-called straights ridicule and ostracize those they identify as being on the female side of the balance and they do it out of fear of what they themselves might unwittingly come to like if they allowed themselves to be exposed to the sexual contacts. Others go on the downlow as we say in the Black community, and do what they want undercover, to preserve their straight life facade. Those that accept being bisexual have accepted to some extent that they enjoy being over the line on the female side, but they are still drifting along a continuum. An example, are those who do not kiss, but will suck or even desire to be fucked. The end of the continuum is those who readily claim to be Gay, and want no further (if they ever had any) contact with women and even want to become a woman. Naturally the same occurs with actual women who want to be men.
Never-the-less, the person in discovery of his female side must explore it to the furthest it can go to understand himself and make the right decision. He should try kissing and if it turns him off, then he knows, that is a limit, and he should be sure it is the act and not the person that is causing the negative reaction. He should try sucking, fucking and even being fucked before he decides. If the single contact was a fluke in the heat of the moment and none of the deliberate exploration offers no pleasure then he can make a decision based on knowledge that he is straight and his Ying/Yang will come back into balance. If he finds there are things he wishes to do repeatedly, then he knows where he is along the continuum and hopefully become comfortable with himself and new identity.

[parkerbi]

hmmm, a nice story.

I believe you are just bicurious.

[Nick_bi]

First of all I believe that the natural state of all human animals is that of being bisexual. We are born that way and then we are socialized OUT of the impulses. For some, the social conditioning isn't substantial enough to overcome our own natural instinctive sex drives. Those are the people who wind up coming to terms with their appetites for both sexes and from there on out it merely becomes a matter of trying to integrate the behavior into our self image, or into our lifestyle if we decide to go ahead and act on it.

Thats my thinking as well. :)

[DiamondDog]

First of all I believe that the natural state of all human animals is that of being bisexual. We are born that way and then we are socialized OUT of the impulses. For some, the social conditioning isn't substantial enough to overcome our own natural instinctive sex drives. Those are the people who wind up coming to terms with their appetites for both sexes and from there on out it merely becomes a matter of trying to integrate the behavior into our self image, or into our lifestyle if we decide to go ahead and act on it.

If you were to look at the situation you presented, the key here would be to determine several aspects of the experience. (It should be noted that one of your previous answers really hit the mark when they said that you were pretty much in full out GRIND mode and likely would have found anything okay while you were in that state) But, the craving to put a big cock in your mouth and experience the sensations of that does go over the line of heterosexuality. Many Het men can enjoy anal intercourse with toys or their wives fingers and still not technically be over the line. But to CRAVE the experience of servicing another male might indicate that you are at least CAPABLE.....of being more than JUST heterosexual. A lot of people would and do disagree with me that expression of sexuality is a choice, but I believe that if most people were to ALLOW themselves to "let go" of all the fear and shame that has been programmed into them by society, most of those people would wind up on the bisexual side of the fence.


I don't believe that.

Despite what lots of people here think there are people who are homosexual and they're born this way, and they've never had sexual attraction desires for the opposite gender. The same goes for heterosexuals and sexual attraction for the same gender.

The ideas and statements that "everyone is born bisexual but simply doesn't identify this way because of conditioning/choice" or "everyone is bisexual but just doesn't know it" these sort of opinions reek of chauvinism, since not everyone is bisexual and not every person is born bisexual.

Original poster: Only you know who you are and what your sexuality is. Give yourself time to figure it all out.

I also agree with the people who wrote about how this is more erotic fiction written for an ego boost than an actual question.

[EvilDoctor]

hmmm, a nice story.

I believe you are just bicurious.

My choice of word would be troll myself...

[herkemer230]

You know what? I think first that all of us are bi-curious. That desire goes beyond gender when you open your mind.And, that you will never forget this experience. I can tell from your story you have been hooked the same way I was.Very similar to my experience. Ain't it fun with three or more?

[james4u4ever]

Wow, I loved that story, thanks for sharing! Wish I had that experience under by belt ...

... I think when it comes down to it, we're all "bi", you just need to get over the social aspect and go with something that brought you GREAT pleasure ...

[thinkfree39]

It does seem to me that bisexuality is at least partially an aquired taste. Or at the least, requires that you overcome certain assumptions, some learned but also possibly instinctive.

I recall my early thoughts about enjoying another man. They creeped in little by little until they were very arousing. But when I watched my first gay porn, I found it difficult to watch, with a bit of a yuck factor. Today, I'd rather watch a guy sucking cock than a woman. I haven't had many real life experiences, but what I have had were similar. Fun at the time but feelings of regret later, like I did something wrong. I didn't have anti-gay crap drilled into me growing up. So where does that little voice come from, that says "Hey, this ain't quite right." But if I think to myself "Why not?" I can't come up with a reason. Confusing? You bet.

Thanks for the post.

[bi4asplay]

I don't believe that.

Despite what lots of people here think there are people who are homosexual and they're born this way, and they've never had sexual attraction desires for the opposite gender. The same goes for heterosexuals and sexual attraction for the same gender.

The ideas and statements that "everyone is born bisexual but simply doesn't identify this way because of conditioning/choice" or "everyone is bisexual but just doesn't know it" these sort of opinions reek of chauvinism, since not everyone is bisexual and not every person is born bisexual.

Original poster: Only you know who you are and what your sexuality is. Give yourself time to figure it all out.

I also agree with the people who wrote about how this is more erotic fiction written for an ego boost than an actual question.

I would have to agree Dog on this. It most likely would have made my dick hard if I read it in a mag, just as it did here. That being said, what I would have suggested if I had seen this when it was posted would have been talk to her have her set up another play time. Suck that big cock for real and see if it still is good for you. If it is welcome to the BI world.

[Gearbox]

God I'm glad I'm alone reading that. My cock won't go down!:eek2:

[elian]

You may not like ALL men, but in the heat of the moment watching both of them together you certainly enjoyed yourself. One of my friends once remarked to me, "I've never once heard a straight guy complain about the dick while watching a porno."

When you are aroused, you are aroused - if you are all consenting adults who enjoyed giving and receiving pleasure that way I don't see the problem. Just do be sure that you don't have children if you don't want them.

There are at least two different types of attraction - romantic and sexual attraction and the two can be different for each person.

One of the most erotic things for me as a man is being able to "lose" yourself in another person, to feel pleasure - even from a man, and know that it's alright to do that.

Of course, not everyone feels that way - it took me many years to understand that I can either be happy being me, or be miserable trying to live up to the social expectations that I THOUGHT everyone else had for me.

I still do try to help people, and it pleases me to do so but I no longer deny an innate part of myself just to please others.

[Hypersexual11]

It's just sex and it seems as though you may be making a bigger deal of the label than necessary. You like sex, you didn't start that adventure with the intention of sucking a cock. You were wrapped up in the heat of the moment which brought out desires that were previously hidden. You obviously aren't bisexual. My advise is to not sweat this. You were brought up to believe that sex takes place between a man and a woman. That's bull. Sex with whomever is just sex. So you want to suck a cock again. Big deal, we all do. Not all of us are bi, I'm not but sure do love a cock. Not too impressed with the carbon unit giving it life though. Sit back, smile and enjoy this new aspect of your sexuality.

[Hypersexual11]

wow, I didn't notice the date that was posted. One post then gone. oh well, fun to write I guess.

[perry555]

Guy, I loved your story and I am Bi-curious too. I can't wait to try it to see if I like it. Obviously, you got your first taste and apparently enjoyed it since you can'y take Juan's penis out of your mind. If I was in your shoe, I would have to try it again as a threesome, try more with Juan and if you like it; then try it alone with Juan. By the time you have done this, I doubt you will have another question about your feelings. I believe in the right circumstance we are all Bi-sexual and our Society's values placed on us, prevent us from acting out our emotions. Not to worry, life goes on, just enjoy life.:tongue:

[charles-smythe]

That is one hot story! Sounds like you got luck and found out something new about yourself at the same time. Just ask yourself a question , if you had the same situation over agin would you do the same think ? Or if the roles were reversed would you freak if theis guy took you in his mouth , if if it went on any long would you went any further with the situation? Maybe your curious and this was just the opertunity you need to push you over the edge.
…sounds good to me…if you liked it…don’t try to over analize it…just do it again & enjoy it…FYI: Juan isn’t the only guy with a dick…

[NakedInSeattle]

I was believing this until..."we exchanged no words'....H just walks in, takes over your date, all this goes on, and then nothing is said...bad even for fiction