Very Sad

[Dano111]

My Girlfriend, after one year moved back to Indiana to care for her son. A guy with a child (9) helped care for her son. She told me they were having sex. The father that is. We had always been honest with each other. I knew about her GG experience, she knew about my MM. She wanted to witness a MM.

I am very sad cause she had two episodes with this other guy. She has told me about it and says it will not last, though I am soooo upset:

Jealousy is the most rotten emotion: I would not care if this was in front of me. I'm sad cause this is behind my back and we were to be married in a few weeks.

I need some mental support:

[BrotherJack]

My Girlfriend, after one year moved back to Indiana to care for her son. A guy with a child (9) helped care for her son. She told me they were having sex. The father that is. We had always been honest with each other. I knew about her GG experience, she knew about my MM. She wanted to witness a MM.

I am very sad cause she had two episodes with this other guy. She has told me about it and says it will not last, though I am soooo upset:

Jealousy is the most rotten emotion: I would not care if this was in front of me. I'm sad cause this is behind my back and we were to be married in a few weeks.

I need some mental support:

Dano...you have my sympathies...you really do. It is never easy to discover something out about a loved one or even if not loved, the person one is legally attached to, who also knows that one would never do what they have done. I have experience of such a betrayal.

What do you do....I cannot say....advice is not really going to help.

You obviously need to talk to the lady and come to a decision, at some point, about your future. If you were to be married soon, then you had both made a commitment and personally, I see what has happened, as infidelity.....so don't rush into marriage...thinking that this will solve your problems. Better to wait and see what the next few months show you, or come to a decision to go your separate ways. Easier to do, if one is not married.

I wish you luck...and my thoughts are with you.