Are you a sexually pleasing person.

[amcur09]

Whether you prefer same, opposite or both sexes, is it important for you to please your partner or partners and how important is that to you on lets say a scale of 1 to 10. Or is your pleasure more important to you.

[rissababynta]

Weather you prefer same, opposite or both sexes, is it important for you to please your partner or partners and how important is that to you on lets say a scale of 1 to 10. Or is your pleasure more important to you.

My partners pleasure is what really gets me going...it's pointless for me to attempt feeling good if they're not so...10 for them!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Oh Absolutely, more than a 10 actually. It gives me great pleasure to excited, arouse and please a partner..no matter what sex they are. And in turn their pleasure excites me to no end. Hearing their sighs, groans and moans of pure unaddulterated pleasure arouses me, and only makes me endeavor to create them more and more pleasure. I've cheated myself out of some good loving by getting so euphoric by causing a lover Their pleasure first...lol But, thats just me. :bigrin:
Cat

[codybear3]

Ditto on the last two comments... When its my turn, I can enjoy it all without the feeling that I have short-changed my partner... 10, being the highest, If I understand your scale correct... :paw::paw:

[amcur09]

Since I posted this, I'll answer too. I also agree with the first two. I especially like the cats answer. The moans and small noises of pleasure that my partner makes are what reallly excite and arouse me. I really enjoy pleasing the other person. Thats what passion is all about. It makes my pleasure that much more ejoyable.

[Scot99]

Like Rissa it is a 10. Their moans tells me to start swallowing fast! Afterward I like to be told what turned them on. I'm new to this and believe in learning by doing.

[bityme]

I guess the response here is very consistent. I also, have to say a 10 or better. If your partner is satisfied, it makes the interlude soooooooooo much better. I can't give any better reasoning than Cherokee.

[fairbankswingers]

Male half here: I am sooo much into pleasing the one I am with...a 10++++++

[jem_is_bi]

I like it best when the pleasure is flowing both ways, (69 is my favorite). Second best is a tie between giving and receiving. However, my present partner lasts much longer that me so I do a lot of giving pleasure. No complaint from me, I just get to the point of no return quicker than he does.

[Long Duck Dong]

definately 10+ my partners pleasure is the reason for making love......

sure I draw pleasure from it.... but I would rather have my partner cum, and say that was nice, and they loved the feeling of touch, holding, hugging, kissing etc....and having me cum for them.....more then me having sex with the intention of me cumming....

I quess its important to me that my partner is fulfilled before my desires and needs are met......that way me cumming is that extra lil bonus for them

[Hephaestion]

In the 60's there was a film which has as one of the opening scenes, our hero, a young man in bed with his lady. As the morning arrives, she snuggles up close with a pleased smile on her face. Carefully, he reaches for a bottle of cola on the side table and it disappears under the covers. A few seconds later her eyes open wide, startled.

"You disgusting pig!" she cries and flies out of the bed and out of the house dressing in panic en route.

He lies back with a smile, throws the covers off the bed and puts the empty bottle back on the side table. He puts salt in his navel and dips a ready boiled egg in it and proceeds to eat it with a smug look on his face.

The "Women's lib" movement was still in its infancy. For the complete pig, the only thing missing from that scene would have been the medly of farts comprising the morning chorus.

Sadly there were there morons who emmulated him; why did their girlfriends stay? Do women really love a bastard?

[TwylaTwobits]

10, I find that pleasing my partner is one of the highlights of making love.

[Randy from Pa]

A 10+ for my partner, I totally agree with Duck, pleasure partner and will pleasure you 10x over. Just my:2cents:

[AlternatingRed]

Oh yes 10. I think I prefer it to them pleasing me. The only time that's not true, is with more than one other person. With a few others, there is nothing quite like when they all suddenly pay attention to you! OMG! That is completely overwhelming. I just start to shake!! OO! :bibounce:

[tg Shannon]

It is of the utmost importants that I give my parter(male or female) the absolute time of their life, if they are satisfied then I am satisfied.:2cents:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

In the 60's there was a film which has as one of the opening scenes, our hero, a young man in bed with his lady. As the morning arrives, she snuggles up close with a pleased smile on her face. Carefully, he reaches for a bottle of cola on the side table and it disappears under the covers. A few seconds later her eyes open wide, startled.

"You disgusting pig!" she cries and flies out of the bed and out of the house dressing in panic en route.

He lies back with a smile, throws the covers off the bed and puts the empty bottle back on the side table. He puts salt in his navel and dips a ready boiled egg in it and proceeds to eat it with a smug look on his face.

The "Women's lib" movement was still in its infancy. For the complete pig, the only thing missing from that scene would have been the medly of farts comprising the morning chorus.

Sadly there were there morons who emmulated him; why did their girlfriends stay? Do women really love a bastard?

Uhmm, I realize that I havent had caffein yet, but what does this have to do with the original thread???
Confused Cat

[Hephaestion]

The thread is about whether you please yourself or please your lover.

Quite clearly this person was only out for himself and his lover was insignificant in his way of thinking. He's screwed her and determined that the quickest way of getting rid of her was to pretend that he'd just pissed in the bed - seemingly a well practiced routine.

The added comment was "yet there are women who are attracted to such men" and these men become heroes

I thought that was pretty well relevant Cat and took an opposing perspective to what the majority of us prefer.

[grxclaus]

I'm for equal pleasure, 10 for both of us.