Trying to make a move.

[BiBombshell]

Alright,

Tomorrow I'm hanging out with a friend of mine (male) I haven't seen in awhile. Back in the day we used to masturbate alot with each other while watching porn. It even got to the point where we touched each other's cocks. I want to do alot more with him but am wondering how I would go about that. He asked me to bring over my porn collection tomorrow so it'll be like old times. I'm not sure if he is gay or bi...do straight guys do this too? If he's not gay or bi I don't want it to all of a sudden turn weird if I try to suck his cock...

Any Advice? :eek:

[lv69cpl69]

while watching porn (bi 3 way) say somthing like ever wonder what thats like while guys are sucking????? I still have not got to but just an idea.

[codybear3]

Since it was his idea to have you bring the porn, may I assume (without the making an ass out of anybody) that you being Bi that your porn collection is bisexual or gay porn? If it is, start simply be asking "Will we be keeping our hands to ourselves or can I give you a hand?" Or, while watching porn, ask him "Hey, since I last saw you, have you tried any of the stuff we've seen in the flicks with anyone?" If you do get to jack him off, try to get him to tell you when he is cumming... At the point of eruption, say, "If I finished you off with my mouth, would you still respect me in the morning???" Say it like you're joking but at that point, he may not care how he cums and you may be able to suck him of for this one and only time.... Or for that one and only time in that brief period before your sexual adventure begins... Just be care, take pre-cautions and always remember that "No means NO....."... :paw::paw:

P.S. - I happen to be a perv, so if something good does happen...Tell me, okay? OKAY? Aaauuggghhh, now I can't wait... :bigrin::rolleyes:

[Realist]

If he's about to cum, it'll be almost impossible for him to say no to anything that might enhance his orgasm! It seems that you know him well enough to anticipate if he's going to resent whatever you do, after it's over.

[Rudy75]

If he's letting you stroke his cock, he won't object to a quick kiss on it.

Kissing will lead to licking. Licking will lead to sucking, and (hopefully) maybe even 69. If he's that hard he really won't mind.

:male::male:

[boca.openminded]

If he's about to cum, it'll be almost impossible for him to say no to anything that might enhance his orgasm! It seems that you know him well enough to anticipate if he's going to resent whatever you do, after it's over.

I agree. Its what I call "the point of no return". Once you get so excited and reach the point of no return your body is taken over by the little head (talking from experience)..

After that I think theres going to be a few hours / maybe days of embarrassment or guilt but he will come out of it..

[texasman6172003]

Since it was his idea to have you bring the porn, may I assume (without the making an ass out of anybody) that you being Bi that your porn collection is bisexual or gay porn? If it is, start simply be asking "Will we be keeping our hands to ourselves or can I give you a hand?" Or, while watching porn, ask him "Hey, since I last saw you, have you tried any of the stuff we've seen in the flicks with anyone?" If you do get to jack him off, try to get him to tell you when he is cumming... At the point of eruption, say, "If I finished you off with my mouth, would you still respect me in the morning???" Say it like you're joking but at that point, he may not care how he cums and you may be able to suck him of for this one and only time.... Or for that one and only time in that brief period before your sexual adventure begins... Just be care, take pre-cautions and always remember that "No means NO....."... :paw::paw:

P.S. - I happen to be a perv, so if something good does happen...Tell me, okay? OKAY? Aaauuggghhh, now I can't wait... :bigrin::rolleyes:

Well said Cody!!!!!

[goldenfinger]

I wish I had known the answer to that question many years ago.Making the first move.He just might be thinking the same.Suggest a night like the good old days and see what he says, he should know what you'r talking about. As they say, there is only one way to find out.;)

[texasman6172003]

Hey Man,Good Luck:bigrin:.

[bityme]

OK, times up. Tell us what happened.

[BiBombshell]

Well we hung out. Jerked off and all. Though nothing happened :( He was saying some very straight things and acting quite straight before and after so I played it safe. I'm still quite confused though. Can one be completely straight and still jerk off with another guy? :(

[codybear3]

Maybe he wants to come on to you but is afraid that you might (no pun intended) blow him off... So he may be talking and walking with a str-8 suit-on... Perhaps since you have shared a few jerk-off sessions together, it may be time to bring it out into the open and simply ask him what the deal is... Do not mention your wishes but ask him what he may be looking for when you guys get together to "tug" on some old memories... Maybe its time to put your confusion to rest, my friend... I have a str-8 forward way of doing things and trying to make sense of a (relationship?) and agonizing bout it afterwards (or beforehand) does not seem like a good way to be living your life (for now, at least)... Bring it to a head in a tactful way and bring an end to your confusion... Hope I helped and don't make things worse for you... :paw::paw: