some thoughts about this site

[BI_OHIO_GUY45601]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

[littlerayofsunshine]

Ahem... Buddy... Take a pill please!. Your name calling is inexcusable but very telling in why you have not found a certain someone.. It is not the site's fault as in why you haven't connected. You assigned this site a job that it never promised. It never promised to find you sex or love. But to share and be in contact with other bisexuals. Which in that aspect it has delivered. If you ever use the forums which I could never tell cause this flaming post is the only one in your history (also telling) You would have seen that Drew doesn't normally delete someones ID just because you request it. He owns the name, not you. It has been explained in the past that all you do is disable your ad.. and choose not to log on again. But calling someone a faggot cause they don't jump at a childish command is pathetic. Drew is not crooked, but buddy you sure as hell are bent. And since you have shown your true colors I think you are a sad lonely human being who is a hateful person and I wouldn't want to be your friend anyway.

[rissababynta]

Must suck when you realize that you are not at the top of everyone's list.

You and your hatred obviously don't belong here.

See ya biotch.

[CUMM2LBV]

IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE NEIGHBORHOOD, WHY ARE YOU HANGING OUT HERE?

[Holmes]

Great Green Goddess on a cracker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have some serious issues dude. I have only beenon less than a year ,but I have this site to be a great help and the people I have met to be wonderful and caring. If you wanted to meetsomeone there are many [U]fee[U] based sites that will match you with someone. This is a free site. No one is matching you to anyone any contact you make is of your own making. How is this crooked or phony ? No where have I seen anyone promising or charging for anything. You are an adult so leave.

[rissababynta]

Great Green Goddess on a cracker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have some serious issues dude. I have only beenon less than a year ,but I have this site to be a great help and the people I have met to be wonderful and caring. If you wanted to meetsomeone there are many [U]fee[U] based sites that will match you with someone. This is a free site. No one is matching you to anyone any contact you make is of your own making. How is this crooked or phony ? No where have I seen anyone promising or charging for anything. You are an adult so leave.

First of all, I love the Goddess thing. Secondly, I personally think that he simply got hit with the bitchy stick, which sent him flying into the bitchy tree, then he proceeded to hit every branch on the way down.

There's no reasoning with bitchy people. I should know :bigrin:

[_Joe_]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 1

I assume you only sat in the chat channel ?

Then you didn't really use this website to the fullest potential in my honest opinion.

[Gay2Bi]

First of all, I love the Goddess thing. Secondly, I personally think that he simply got hit with the bitchy stick, which sent him flying into the bitchy tree, then he proceeded to hit every branch on the way down.

Oh, so THAT'S what all the commotion was about. I've been picking up broken branches from my front lawn for days! Do you realize how hard those trees are to grow? ;)

[rissababynta]

Oh, so THAT'S what all the commotion was about. I've been picking up broken branches from my front lawn for days! Do you realize how hard those trees are to grow? ;)

Oh dear, I've heard that they are quite expensive too!

[eddy10]

This old saw comes to mind: "If you don't like my peaches, don't be shaking my tree."

[bifitm52]

All I can say is friends I've made here have helped me enriched and affirmed my journey.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Well you know what? If you dont like the site and dont wish to be here anymore then simply use your brain and Stop Coming In Here. YOU are responsible for deleting your own account, Nimrod. Take your ad off and dont post anymore. There was no need to be an insultive jerk to a good person that you dont actually know, and since dont like it here any longer, then dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.
Cat

[rissababynta]

Well you know what? If you dont like the site and dont wish to be here anymore then simply use your brain and Stop Coming In Here. YOU are responsible for deleting your own account, Nimrod. Take your ad off and dont post anymore. There was no need to be an insultive jerk to a good person that you dont actually know, and since dont like it here any longer, then dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.
Cat

I personally don't care about the door hitting people in the ass as long as I don't have to be the one to clean the ass prints later...

[imway2wild4you]

I, to a degree, have to agree with the original poster in that this is somewhat of a lame site. I have yet to chat with anyone on here, there are very few times that I have seen people online at the same time I have been and compared to other sites the quality of this site is lacking. However, it appears to be a fairly new site and the threads/forums can be quite entertaining at times. If you're using this site for hookups then you're going to be sadly disappointed.

[MissyMissy]

i feel hurt by the way you have treated us and drew because you cannot get what you want and more Sir.
i am who i am despite my many setbacks. i have always admitted i am bisexual that i have been since a very young age and slowly admitted that i am into bdsm. my life has changed for the better. part of it is because of this site. this site has saved my life over and over Sir. many times i have been alone and ill and this site is all i had and many of the people on it have been very patient with me and have embraced me in my darkest hours. though i would honestly love to meet many of the people i have met and have come to love i know that it is not always going to be possible and may never be possible but i still have hopes and dreams to meet the friends i met her on a friendly level.
drew has a life as well and there are many who come here and don't come back. but i have written drew about young people being on here and people who act way too strange as well as other people have Sir. that is a lot of work in itself as they keep coming back repeatedly Sir.
part of chat is for sexual needs we all know it. sometimes you cannot get what you need in the physical world right away and it is nice to have a helping hand until those times come and there are a few here who have met each other in person who do not need the site as much but come and stop in to check on thier friends as well as have a lil fun.
if i was able to i would help drew and remove old profiles that have not been used in years.
as for you i think drew should leave your profile be for now just in case you change your mind after you deal with your anger and frustrations even if you don' deserve it Sir.
missymissy

[MissyMissy]

and i NEVER have read here of ANY promises or guarantees that anyone would meet in person on here.
and i also love this site because not only can bisexuals come here but people from other walks of life as well.
we all have not been accepted in some way in parts of our lives and i like that it is an open site and not prejudiced.
missymissy

[littlerayofsunshine]

Listen, This site was started out of self love and understanding of the issues of other Bisexual people. The lack of understanding and openness of the LGBT community towards bisexual and same from the straight community. Not many sites cater to bi-men and most bi women don't want the kind of hookups swinger sites offer. So I will stand proud as a Bisexual Married Woman on Bisexual.com because I have came here and vented, laughed, befriended, cared and even loved on this site and just because some pussy didn't fall out of the sky doesn't mean there isn't wonderful things here. People have fixed there marriages here, some people have learned/grew and moved on. Some keep coming here just because the friendships they have here are priceless, our members have had relationships and met IRL, some have had children that they have shared. Maybe that stuff doesn't mean much to those that are just about sex, but to alot of us is does,! Where just being able to log on and someone know who we are and accept us as we are when we feel no one we know will. It's important. And to us who just need the outlet and this site is 24/7 and we can hide ourselves amongst the thousands from other countries and know that our loved ones don't see, its important. To the person, who's crying to themselves because they feel they have know where else, and happen to use a search engine and come to this site and maybe for once, someone offers them understanding and help, its important. For all the glitz and glam you feel you are missing, remember you don't pay here. Someone.... singlely....with their blood, sweat and headaches takes care of this site on his own. There was a chance to bring in money from this site and he (Drew) cared enough to ask the members if they wanted advertising here first. And the members responded NO! and so look.. NO ads...NO ads, no one paying, Then No fancy smancy tittly winks for those who are complaining. And remember.. This site is ran out of Canada. So Americans... I love ya, but just be glad there are Americans here Eh?

You don't like what ya don't pay for, Drop it and move on and quit bitchin, cause to someone like me. This site is golden and I wouldn't trade it for anything. GOD I get sick of the ME generation. Everyone wonders whats fucked up in the world and pays no notice to their own contributions...


DREW! I know hearing people complain is hard at times. But seriously most of us genuine folks understand and are totally thankful for you and your ideas.



Sorry for the rant all, but I love this site, I love all the people in it, from the manics to the masturbators. I love all of ya in my own way. I see how many people have an important roll here even if they don't feel they do.

[codybear3]

I personally don't care about the door hitting people in the ass as long as I don't have to be the one to clean the ass prints later...

Or imagine the doorknob getting stuck in the "poop-chute"? Wouldn't wanna clean that up either... Especially if its smacking some whiny chump that broke all of Gay2bi's tree branches on the way down....:bigrin::paw::paw:

P.S. - I'll help with picking up the branches, G2B... :tong:

[DiamondDog]

I do find it odd that the owner of this site will not delete people's accounts if they ask him to or want it done, yet trolls and spammers get their profiles and posts deleted very quickly.

[onewhocares]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

So you have been a member here since 2005 and have made ONE post.....and that post is to blast the owner of this site....what a rotten member YOU are. I have been here the same amount of time you have. Funny I have met so many wonderful people....in person....oh nearly fifty by now....and countless others on line. One thing I have learned is that you get out of something what you put into it....obviously YOU have not put anything into it. So many of us contribute to the site, each in our own unique way.

I think that your comments about Drew, the owner of this site, are unwarranted and uncalled for. If you have issues with the way the site is run I am sure that there is another more respectful manner in which to address your comments and complaints other than to slander Drew. As others have said above....this is a free site, a site which you can choose of your own free will to LEAVE....perhaps you should.

Belle

[Rudy75]

Speaking just for myself, I do not have any complaints about this site.

I've met a few people here, most of which I like very much. Do I agree with their viewpoints? Sometimes yes, sometimes no; but if someone respects them, I respect them.

I am an adult. If I am having a problem, I find a way to solve it; I don't sit and complain about it like a child.

:flag2:

[Lateralus]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

Decent people like you? Please let the door hit you on the way out.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

IMwaytootame said "I, to a degree, have to agree with the original poster in that this is somewhat of a lame site."'

So how hard have you tried to communicate with people on here? As to my knowlege, I have never noticed you in chat trying to strike up a conversation or to make friends. How can you say this is a lame site if you havent put forth the effort to Be a part of this community, this Family?
In the words of my generation(other than dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out) Dont knock it unless you try it"

Put yourself out there, let yourself be known, show that you're friendly and trecieptive to being open and friendly.
You may be vastly surprised at how far you get. So try this before you say something is lame.
My :2cents:
Cat

[Herbwoman39]

I, to a degree, have to agree with the original poster in that this is somewhat of a lame site.

Lame site? Hon you've posted a total of three times since 2007. How can you expect to make friends or ANY kind of connection with that track record? Most of us aren't here for a quick hookup. We want to know the person we're talking to. That starts with getting insights from the kinds of posts they write here in the forums. Then it continues in the chat room by being friendly and not just trolling for cyber in IM's.

This place is my second home. These people accepted me and loved me for who I am when I was having a hard time coming out. EVERY time I freaked out, one of these wonderful folks was here to comfort me and give me advice or gently chide me to "get over it"...whatever "it" was.

If you're looking for real connections and a place you can be yourself, this is it. But you've got to give it a real chance.

As for the original poster, the rest of you have already handled it better than I could.

[Delilah]

I didn't join this site for hook up. I know I made a lot of cool friends here though. And met a few in person from this site.
Why take it out on a site just because you ain't gettin' none :2cents:

I love this site!! :)

[AdamKadmon43]

This site can not be all that bad.

It tolerates people, such as myself, who occasionally act like immature assholes.

[BrotherJack]

This site can not be all that bad.

It tolerates people, such as myself, who occasionally act like immature assholes.

Only ''occasionally,''.........well, that made me laugh my socks off! 24/7 you mean!!!

Forgetting the above, I came to this site acceidentally and not because I had planned to and when I first came, I was angry and distressed. I'm still angry and distressed, but not with the people I have encountered in the chat room (well. not all of them).

I have never hidden the fact that I am heterosexual and also female (forget the stupid name) and I have spoken to many people in chat, usually in private. I have always preferred to converse with men and though I have talked to some ladies, the majority of people have been male.

I have received more understanding and counselling from these people than from the one person, I would have wished to have had talk to me. I thank those people for that. I thank them very much indeed.

The OP has made one post with the opening of this thread. I guess that this means not many people have been encountered and spoken to. And ''there's the rub,'' as Shakespeare wrote! Talk to people! Talk to people as people and not their sexuality! Maybe then you will make what some people call ''on line friends.''

My pain and distress have not been eased, but at least I have been able to talk to people.

[void()]

"And ''there's the rub,'' as Shakespeare wrote! Talk to people! Talk to people as people and not their sexuality! Maybe then you will make what some people call ''on line friends.''"

<void falls out of his chair unto the floor>

Ah, got the knack, now do ya?:tongue:

[BrotherJack]

"And ''there's the rub,'' as Shakespeare wrote! Talk to people! Talk to people as people and not their sexuality! Maybe then you will make what some people call ''on line friends.''"

<void falls out of his chair unto the floor>

Ah, got the knack, now do ya?:tongue:

Hope you didn't bump your head Void!

I know you are very young...OK youngish!!! Believe it or not, I have always been able to talk to people and not their sexuality!! I have also always corresponded with people.......well, from the age of about eight. To me, people are just that......people.......I haven't needed to ''get'' the knack. I've always had it!!!

Don't turn this into another Void attacks a post by BrotherJack, or it will begin to look like a vendetta!

You don't like me.....fine.....or you think I don't matter....fine too...whatever!! I paid the people I have talked to a compliment and you sock it on the jaw!

Sheesh!!!

[12voltman59]

To the OP from my state--that you have been here all this time----and this is your first posting---bitching as you are about the site--I hardly think you really have much grounds for doing so--I do know that you come into the chat room--but when you do---it doesn't seem that you take much part in what goes on in there----

If you are looking for a hook up site---there are a number of them I suggest you try out, here are a few that ya might find to your liking---bicupid.com, adutlfriendfinder.com, squirt.org and men4sexnow.com----you can join them for free--but don't get much unless ya ante up on them and go for paid memberships---on all of them---if you are looking for hookups with other guys----post up some "cockshots"---pics of your manhood in various states of turbidity from limp to rock hard--and don't forget the money shot---a load of cum spurting from your cock---pics like that will get ya all kinds of responses.

Go check em out and have fun at them!!!


PS--I almost forgot---maybe if you actually had some useful information in your profile beyond the most basic it contains---it might serve useful---you don't give me any sense of what you are like as a person--'where you are at' in terms of your bisexualitya and what you are looking for----we are not frackin' mind readers ya know????

[vittoria]

To the OP from my state--that you have been here all this time----and this is your first posting---bitching as you are about the site--I hardly think you really have much grounds for doing so--I do know that you come into the chat room--but when you do---it doesn't seem that you take much part in what goes on in there----

If you are looking for a hook up site---there are a number of them I suggest you try out, here are a few that ya might find to your liking---bicupid.com, adutlfriendfinder.com, squirt.org and men4sexnow.com----you can join them for free--but don't get much unless ya ante up on them and go for paid memberships---on all of them---if you are looking for hookups with other guys----post up some "cockshots"---pics of your manhood in various states of turbidity from limp to rock hard--and don't forget the money shot---a load of cum spurting from your cock---pics like that will get ya all kinds of responses.

Go check em out and have fun at them!!!


PS--I almost forgot---maybe if you actually had some useful information in your profile beyond the most basic it contains---it might serve useful---you don't give me any sense of what you are like as a person--'where you are at' in terms of your bisexualitya and what you are looking for----we are not frackin' mind readers ya know????

agreed.

make yourself known and try to get along with people instead of thinking everyone should cyber or something. it gets tiring in chat when people just randomly type Yahoo Chat (tm) type BS ~~~"A/S/L?" or "I'm horny... are you?" especially when they see someone is in a conversation with people about things and stuff all interrupting and crap~~~and get all pissy because no one wants to "play". try being a human being first!

the OP's comment sure took some balls... for a numbnuts.

Nuff sed.

[PolyLoveTriad]

Bah, people like you come and go everyday. I wasnt aware that this site was only a dating site. *shrug* my bad!

I do think that drew should make a way for people to remove themselves from the site though. Not that I would ever leave, I like it here, but Ive seen people asking how before and apparently youre not allowed to leave... like ever lol How about making an option to delete your account if you want?

Btw, Hope everyone had a safe 4th of July!

[Doggiestyle]

Dammmmmmmm All this drama. I mean that it would be a overload for even the "daytime soaps" QUESTION ??? Bi Ohio Guy. Who pissed in your canteen? :mad: But there's not really a reason to reply to this post is there? I mean that youre so pissed that you're not ever going to read this cause youre never comming back..... Right???? Yep, I thought so.

Only thing left to say to Bi Ohio Guy is Bye Ohio Guy!

I usually leave my signature on all my post's. But this time i'll keep my shades on & remain anonymous.......:cool:........So nobody will recognize me!

[bimwmdecatur]

This is a very nice site, well run, with lots of nice people and most importantly, good information and advice if you want it.

Have not seen anywhere that this was advertised as a hook up site. I have though, met a friend on this site whom I get along well with, and I very much appreciate that.

You might consider taking a chill pill.

[chook]

Fucked if I know......I mean if the place really gives you the shits that much, wouldnt it be just as easy not to come back in, instead of rubbishing people on your way out.......I know I would, I'd say to myself "fuck em they aint worthy of my presence" and I would just disappear into the sunset never to be seen again............anyway just my :2cents:

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

[bigregory]

Speaking just for myself, I do not have any complaints about this site.

I've met a few people here, most of which I like very much. Do I agree with their viewpoints? Sometimes yes, sometimes no; but if someone respects them, I respect them.

I am an adult. If I am having a problem, I find a way to solve it; I don't sit and complain about it like a child.

:flag2:

I have been here for awile.
I rember me and Drew and another member /thats it...
So now we have like 100 thousand members.
So over the years I seen it all fights/ love connections/ trolls you name it.
But every time I also saw people who gave there hearts out to help people ,now thats what the sites about..
It is a shame to see all the fighting...
The bad people make it so bad and the good people make it so GOOD

[rissababynta]

Personally, I couldn't care less if someone likes this site or not. What bothers me is the OPer calling Drew a faggot, which was obviously intended to be offensive. And it was. Especially coming from a supposed bisexual? Shame...

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I have received more understanding and counselling from these people than from the one person, I would have wished to have had talk to me. I thank those people for that. I thank them very much indeed.

Well if you'd stop this personal vendetta you have and quit making personal attacks on the person you are "Angry and depressed" Over, then maybe more people would try to like you and talk to you more. Live and let live and get on with the business of living, and begin to have fun again.

And, just as Volty said to the OP of This thread Perhaps if you had some info on your profile outside of the basics" then perhaps folks would take more of an interest.
Just my:2cents: but if you want to have people like you, you have to make yourself Likable.
Cat

[BrotherJack]

I have received more understanding and counselling from these people than from the one person, I would have wished to have had talk to me. I thank those people for that. I thank them very much indeed.

Well if you'd stop this personal vendetta you have and quit making personal attacks on the person you are "Angry and depressed" Over, then maybe more people would try to like you and talk to you more. Live and let live and get on with the business of living, and begin to have fun again.

And, just as Volty said to the OP of This thread Perhaps if you had some info on your profile outside of the basics" then perhaps folks would take more of an interest.
Just my:2cents: but if you want to have people like you, you have to make yourself Likable.
Cat

You really ought to get things right, which you have no possibility of doing, because you don't know me, you don't know another person and you don't know the situation.

1) I do not have a personal vendetta against anyone, especially a certain person. Any remarks I may make will be the truth, which is something you will never get from a certain person.

"2) Your words in inverted commas are not a quote of anything I have said. I have not stated that I am angry and guess what, I am most certainly not depressed. I have never, ever suffered ffrom depression and I am not likely to. I'm a survivor....always have been...always will be. So please do not think you can diagnose me with depression!

[nudeorphic]

Vittora's and Voltman's comments say it all.
Respect and knowing the other person beyond the physical plane is, to me, most important.
This site is more on Bi Sexual issues and exchange of information. Bi sexuality is very complex and a site like this one helps those express their concerns.

[TaylorMade]

This. Is. NOT. Craigslist. Do NOT expect cock/pussy at your door w/in 24 hours or your money back.

First of all, this place is free. Not a lot of free places like this on the intarwebz. AFF, BiCafe, and other places? You'll have to pay to get anything beyond fleeting glances. Here and maybe OK Cupid. . .is where you'll find bi-sexual (if not at least bi-tolerant) individuals in large quantities spread over a large area. And talk to them at length. And Chat. For free. For that alone, I don't think I'll complain much.

*Taylor*

[BrotherJack]

I have received more understanding and counselling from these people than from the one person, I would have wished to have had talk to me. I thank those people for that. I thank them very much indeed.

Well if you'd stop this personal vendetta you have and quit making personal attacks on the person you are "Angry and depressed" Over, then maybe more people would try to like you and talk to you more. Live and let live and get on with the business of living, and begin to have fun again.

And, just as Volty said to the OP of This thread Perhaps if you had some info on your profile outside of the basics" then perhaps folks would take more of an interest.
Just my:2cents: but if you want to have people like you, you have to make yourself Likable.
Cat

You really ought to get things right, which you have no possibility of doing, because you don't know me, you don't know another person and you don't know the situation.

1) I do not have a personal vendetta against anyone, especially a certain person. Any remarks I may make will be the truth, which is something you will never get from a certain person.

"2) Your words in inverted commas are not a quote of anything I have said. I have not stated that I am angry and guess what, I am most certainly not depressed. I have never, ever suffered ffrom depression and I am not likely to. I'm a survivor....always have been...always will be. So please do not think you can diagnose me with depression!

''then maybe more people would try to like you and talk to you more. Live and let live and get on with the business of living, and begin to have fun again.''

This makes no sense! I don't need people to like me more. I am but a line of type and could be anybody and anything. I talk to plenty of people in the chat room, mostly in pm, because I prefer one on one chat with people, whether they be male or female and I guess the sometimes fantasy style chat of the main room doesn't always interest me and sorry...I don't talk about sex...unless it is in an incredibly adult manner, talking about anatomy and physiology. I don't do what I call ''smutty chat''......it's just not me.

''live and let live''...What is that meant to mean. Again...you don't know me...you don't know a certain person....you don't know the situation.

I actually do get on with the business of living. I have a life. Not very exciting, but then is anyone's. I go about my business, I look after a couple of children.....who guess what?...Tell me that they love me...which is really nice and we do ''crafty'' things together.

I don't spend all day on line, drunk as a lord, watching pornography!

I have fun at times......but life is never easy....for anyone and like I've said...you don't know me...you don't know a certain person and you don't know the situation.

''if you had some info on your profile outside of the basics" then perhaps folks would take more of an interest.
Just my:2cents: but if you want to have people like you, you have to make yourself Likable.''

My basics are all I would ever be prepared to put on this site. I am female, heterosexual and I live in Europe. I chose a damned stupid name...but heh...you should see some of my email addresses. Ask me questions and I'll either answer them or not.

What sort of interest am I expecting people to take? I chat to people and I have even tried to contribute to some threads.

I remember starting one thread of my own where I thought it would be nice for people to post things they had written. Not a critique.....just a sharing and what did I get.....Void insulting me and trying to pull the piece, which I had posted, apart. The man doesn't like me....fine.....but I would never have insulted him in the way he insulted me and it seemed as if he was just wanting to score points.

I haven't asked people to like me! I certainly do not believe that one can be likeable or dislikeable in type! One can be annoying and insulting and I could point a figure at one particular person......but what the heck....whatever I say....it will never be right and I know why.

I paid a compliment to some of the people here and even that is thrown back in my face. I got that with a certain person too....everything thrown back in my face......so I'll not pay compliments from now on!!

OK Babygirl!!

[Annika L]

I do find it odd that the owner of this site will not delete people's accounts if they ask him to or want it done, yet trolls and spammers get their profiles and posts deleted very quickly.

I must agree with DD here...it is odd. Basically, if someone is dissatisfied with the site, and wants their account deleted, the best (only?) way for them to go about it is to play troll with the rest of us. The more outrageous and offensive the post, the more likely they'll have their account deleted.

Seems like an incentive to become a troll...I've never understood it.

On the OP...well, apparently his post in this thread was too tame/lame to warrant banning or deletion. But sheesh, people! Some idiot makes a stupid, hateful, and baffling post and everyone wigs out...just let the thread die!

[pottzie]

This site hasn't met all my expectations either.
Where's my pony, dammit?

[boca.openminded]

there is SO much hatred in the post that theres no wonder why he did not get what he seeked out to get. Yes, we all have comments (good or bad) about the site BUT in no way is it the site owners fault.

He created a great / easy site for people to be open about their bi sexualities and to talk among people that share similar interests & opinions. Of course theres going to be some that disagree with you but that is what makes the world go around.

What I hate about this site is everyone that I talked to privately want to take it to yahoo and then cyber sex BUT I can't blame that on the owner of the site. I blame stupid people. I don't know why but most men are into sex & sex only. That is why you see men (not women) at parks, bathrooms, etc seeking sex.

Then again there are stupid people in real life too. I just wish people read my profile before contacting me... then they'll see that I am not seeking friends first...Yes, I 100&#37; positively want sex but I want a friendship too!

Site owner (drew or whatever your name is) thank you for creating a forum for people like me to talk to. The site is very simple and easy to use..

I just hope you do not add "webcam" to this site because then you will surely get alot of jerkoffs that only want to jerk off on this site...

Thanks!!!

[BrotherJack]

there is SO much hatred in the post that theres no wonder why he did not get what he seeked out to get. Yes, we all have comments (good or bad) about the site BUT in no way is it the site owners fault.

He created a great / easy site for people to be open about their bi sexualities and to talk among people that share similar interests & opinions. Of course theres going to be some that disagree with you but that is what makes the world go around.

What I hate about this site is everyone that I talked to privately want to take it to yahoo and then cyber sex BUT I can't blame that on the owner of the site. I blame stupid people. I don't know why but most men are into sex & sex only. That is why you see men (not women) at parks, bathrooms, etc seeking sex.

Then again there are stupid people in real life too. I just wish people read my profile before contacting me... then they'll see that I am not seeking friends first...Yes, I 100% positively want sex but I want a friendship too!

Site owner (drew or whatever your name is) thank you for creating a forum for people like me to talk to. The site is very simple and easy to use..

I just hope you do not add "webcam" to this site because then you will surely get alot of jerkoffs that only want to jerk off on this site...

Thanks!!!


A very intelligent post Boca. Especially the last two lines. If anyone wants to see some pretty foul web cam behaviour, across the sexualities, one only has to visit the Adult section of Paltalk. Keep this site for the kind of chat their alreay is and what can be posted in the forum.

[boca.openminded]

A very intelligent post Boca. Especially the last two lines. If anyone wants to see some pretty foul web cam behaviour, across the sexualities, one only has to visit the Adult section of Paltalk. Keep this site for the kind of chat their alreay is and what can be posted in the forum.

Thank you..

and I agree with you about Paltalk. I was on it around 5 yrs ago and at first it was ok but turned ugly very qiuckly. I saw more drama there then a daytime soap opera.

[mijnenig]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

Seems pretty telling to me that someone on a bisexual site would use the word 'faggot' against someone!

[rissababynta]

Seems pretty telling to me that someone on a bisexual site would use the word 'faggot' against someone!

My point exactly!

[mrplayfuluk]

to the guy who started this forum thread. cheerio you won't be missed....

[MissyMissy]

my opinion of why this man shouldn't get deleted...
he demanded he be removed from the site
he insulted drew very badly
as far as im concerned he insulted us badly
i myself have temper tantrums and blow off steam and it has NOT always been blown off at on the person who deserves it
and though i am wrong to have done what i have done in the past i AM VERY GRATEFUL i am not tossed out.
i have apologized as best as i can. that is all i can do.
i cannot say this man would come back and apologize.
and i am not happy the man called someone a faggot who did not allow him to.
part of the reason i love this site is it is not so damn prejudiced even if some people get upset that others who are not bi come here.
love one another. it doesnt mean you have to like like someone.
the man may be an ignorant fucktard but i say we embrace him even if we don't like what he said.
i cannot say he would change but at least we can.
missymissy

[welickit]

The guy who started this thread must have been looking for an anger management site. :eek:

[MarieDelta]

And the law of consevation of energy proves true, yet again - You get out of it , what you put into it..

IOW -

If you post ONCE, chat only about hook ups, and just generally hang about, of course you arent going to meet many people.

You gotta be a member of the "community"(used loosely, mind you) to be recognized by the "community."

At any rate, be gone, come here not again, and we will trouble you not.

[weskain77]

Just remove all the info from your profile and stop being a bitch. And because someone doesn't go commercial with their site doesn't mean they are "a crooked son of a bitch" or a bastard or anything else. You are WAY out of line. Of the people I have read anything from on this site, you are at the top of the list I would NOT want to talk to. A little hypocritical when your basis for leaving is because the average character quality is not to your standards....

[rippedabs]

I am not able to remove my picture... (the one with a hat on the right hand side of my profile).. what should I do? I want to put another picture

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Why are you responding to a dead post to change your pic??? Put another one on there and get it taken care of.
Cat

[void()]

I understand this is a 'dead' thread, despite that it gave me pause for thought recently.

First lets put a few things in order.

Drew may indeed be homosexual. Does that matter one way or the other? No.
But where is the insult in calling a homosexual man a fagot?

There are a few definitions of the word.

American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language (http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/fagot)

Webster's 1828 Dictionary (http://1828.mshaffer.com/d/word/fagot)

Webster's Revised Unabridged, 1913 Edition (http://machaut.uchicago.edu/cgi-bin/WEBSTER.sh?WORD=fagot)

Urban Dictionary (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fagot)

And I recall once in speaking with an Oxford Don of English language, the discussion of the word fagot to mean a proper English primary school boy. You do meet the most interesting folks on the internet, this Don was at one point given to serious consideration of paying my tuition to attend Oxford. Of course, I also had an offer to be Shepard for one of the world's largest sheep flocks. I would have been given over all sheep in Australia with a full share of the company to boot.

At any given it seems that calling a homosexual man a bundle of sticks or a stand in to pass muster, is really dumb. I won't bother deferring to dictionaries for word bastard. It can be taken to mean a male child born out out of wedlock, or a test tube baby. Again, it seems dumb, and implies a bit of personal knowledge of the object. I doubt the OP has such knowledge.

So in all where lies the venom of the alleged stings? If I could offer pity for the OP I would. But I cannot as they don't even merit it. Their ignorance at something as simple as insulting another, truly discredits themselves alone.

And yes I'm being a prick and asshole. There's no pretentiousness in my being so. I'm simply frustrated and intelligent, offering my thoughts about a moron.

As they cannot even bother insulting properly, it makes it all a moot and null point. The only rationale I can deduce for them to post is narcissism. It's a classic sign of it in being an attention whore. I know from having dealt with a similar person in the past, no not myself. I'm too self depreciating to be narcissistic, in all earnest and seriousness.

That brings up another point. Whores at least provide a service. This one may or may not have dependent upon your perspective. I really don't see a service granted, unless of course this whore is a sock puppet or an agent provocateur (http://wordsmith.org/words/agent_provocateur.html). Then they did in fact provoke and illicit a reaction from most herein. Someone being entertained?

And further I do think such is the case of our recurring troll, they are an agent provocateur. Let us stop this abuse, for it is in our power to do so. We can simply ignore them. They ought to tire of not finding entertainment. And maybe even the puppet master may need to reveal themselves. If not, we're still not out anything save self moderating and ignoring idiots.

I for one am bored, tired of such dramatics. It lessens the value of this site for all of us.

[Realist]

Well said, Void....my sentiments, exactly!

Rodney King couldn't have said it more eloquently.

[Doggie_Wood]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

First of all - - me thinks he's throwing the insults at Drew to purposely get banned or deleted.
So Drew, don't do it (because that's what he wants)
Trolls don't want to be banned or deleted so, they get what they don't want.

Secondly - - two things come to mind;
1) you catch more fish with sensuous bait than with turd-balls
2) seek and ye shall find . . . ya can't connect if ya still have the window shut BOG. Just wishing and hoping your lovers or prospective lovers will come to you is unrealistic. Go forth and seek!

You have to put forth more than an occasional word or sentence.


Like me, for example, I gently pursued Marie Delta for 1-1/2 - 2 years before I finally met her. And she has done so much to draw me nearer to her and to educate me. She has filled a void (not you Ben, but maybe some day) that needed substance. I love you Marie!

This site has done a lot to educate me as well.
And Drew, please don't delete my profile! :bigrin::tongue:

Nuff said

Doggie :doggie:

[celticmagic]

When i first started on bisexual.com it was decent. i met some decent people then you have your usual run of the mill assholes. I am having this ad pulled because i feel there are too many phonies on here. I have asked drew to delete my account on a number of occasions. but he has yet to do so. seems to me the owner of this website is none other than a crooked son of a bitch that runs a crooked site. Drew please delete my account immediately!!!. The way things are you are a phoney like the others on this site. I hope you all find happiness in your search but when a person is online there are very few people on here at any given time. so how can a person meet others when this site is not very popular? maybe its because of a faggot owner of this site that does not know what the hell he is doing. Im sorry Drew but i am only speaking the truth. Truth of the matter is this site is lousy. too many out of country people that you know will never meet any of us. I want to thank the freinds that i did meet on here. you will be missed. Drew please remove my id name immediately ok. or are u going to be a crooked bastard that u are.

You are asking Drew to delete your account? Man, your problems and issues are much more serious than you know. It takes only 2 or 3 clicks to do it yourself in your computer. Maybe you want Drew to find a mate for you too? Get a life, my friend. In the past 5 years since I joined this site, I have conected with more people than I could handle...By the way, before you dare to call someone a Fag, phoney or other things, do yourself a favor-Try to correct your poor spelling and grammar. It is "Friend", not "Freind". Got it?

[rukiddingme]

Ironic how you can come to a bisexual forum site, and not be completely satisfied then call someone a faggot when you get angry. But the beauty of it is, even though you directed this rant at the owner "Drew", he still allows you to post such a negative post.

[justlooking222]

you raise an excellent point, rukiddingme, but the fact is the OP hasn't been on the site since May of 2010, so good riddance!

[bicurcple]

My wife and I joined this site many years ago and still have not a bisexual experience, but we get a ton of information from this site. We enjoy it for the forum and just to see that there are other people out there with the same feelings as us. Many people seem to come on here and think this is a hook-up site, while there are some hook-ups, we don't think of this site like that. It seems to me it is more of a supportive site where you can get opinions and advice. Maybe it's just that nobody found this person interesting or attractive enough. If they are looking for a "hook-up" maybe they should try craigslist?

[biinlou]

Get a life. If this site is all you have to worry about you are indeed a lucky person.


Peace not Piece

[NjbiGuy01]

All I can say is friends I've made here have helped me enriched and affirmed my journey.


Maybe for you..... Look, no website is perfect. I am on a few. I used to think (in the past) that certain paid membership sites were better quality of people than free sites. The internet is a cesspool, and you need to sort out the riff from the raff. I've met some amazing people on Craigs, and I've met asses both here and on Swinglifestyle, and other similar paid sites. There's no reason a creep cannot have the cash to get onto a paid site, just like normal nice people can turn up on public sites like Craigs.

I've met some great people here. I've also met people I thought were great, and ended up fearing they would ruin my life. Things I've learned on the web:

I learned you have to limit how much personal info you tell people, period. No matter how much you think you like or trust them.

People (in many cases) do not know what they want. Many THINK they do, but when it comes down to it, many discover the reality of what they thought they wanted, well, it freaked them out.

People can and DO lie. I read someplace where the most likely thing a person will lie about is their sexual history or past. Not comforting.

Look, swingers, bi-sexual and gay people, and non-mainstream lifestyle people have it hard enough in this world. I think you simply must take a deep breath, exercise care, and hope for the best. Slamming this website (I think unfairly) doesn't fix a thing. If you don't like it, most web browsers will allow you to block it. If you cannot get your profile deleted, then strip all the information from it, and make it useless.

Like biinlou said: There are clearly more important things in life than worrying about this website...

;)

[Doggiestyle]

:bigrin: Hey folks!!! Did anybody check out the original posting date? It was July of 09, I mean that, that was last year! I mean this thread is so old that it's not even a "rag" anymore..... I x 2 mean that this thread is so old that it's fabric seems to be "rotted away" I x 3 mean that this thread is so old that you dam sure would not want to be caught wearing them. I x 4 mean that this thread is so old that an Egyptian mummy wouldn't even want it. Well I could go to more about just how old this thread really is,,,, BUT I'M WILLING TO SPARE YA, OK? :rolleyes:

So, it seems to so elementary on how to excuse yourself from this site that it seems to just "fly over some peoples heads" HUH? It's really very simple,,, you just quit coming here,,, that's all,,, real simple HUH? See there, not so difficult after all HUH? I mean that I'm just trying to be comical about all this, "don't ya know" :cutelaugh

Just wondering if the "BI-OHIO-GUY" ever went "BY-OHIO-GUY"? (I bet that he is still at least, lurking here, whadda you think?) :disgust:

My :2cents: here,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Your friend, :doggie:

[Major65]

Grow Up!

[Huntergh103182]

I, to a degree, have to agree with the original poster in that this is somewhat of a lame site. I have yet to chat with anyone on here, there are very few times that I have seen people online at the same time I have been and compared to other sites the quality of this site is lacking. However, it appears to be a fairly new site and the threads/forums can be quite entertaining at times. If you're using this site for hookups then you're going to be sadly disappointed.
Would love to be able to hook up in Northern Virginia

[welickit]

Obviously this guy is mad at the world. We happen to think the people from other countries who are members here improve the site experience. Had the OP come here to listen and learn rather than assuming it is a site for a quick hook up, he might have enjoyed it.

[67torinouy]

Well not to side with this guy who seems to have some issues he needs to figure out. He does have one point as to wanting his profile removed. This seems to be a reoccuring comment on here that people can't get there profile removed if they so desire. Why is that? Drew if someone wants their profile removed do it and be done with them. It will help free up some space on your server if nothing else. And give them one less thing to bitch about.

[67torinouy]

Well not to side with this guy who seems to have some issues he needs to figure out. He does have one point as to wanting his profile removed. This seems to be a reoccuring comment on here that people can't get there profile removed if they so desire. Why is that? Drew if someone wants their profile removed do it and be done with them. It will help free up some space on your server if nothing else. And give them one less thing to bitch about.

My bad Drew. I didn't realize this tread is almost 3 yrs old now.

[Brian]

No worries about the bump.

The site has 110,000 members. The heart of the site is a public forum, and most of the site is free - so by design and necessity it is "self-serve". And deleting accounts creates real problems for the forums - it breaks threads.

But, to address this issue...

The site (as of a couple of months ago) has a "Make My Account Dormant" feature - with "one click" (alright 2) you disable your profile and turn off all contact options. You do this under Control Panel > Edit Account Info (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/profile.php?do=editaccountinfo). And I just realized we should add the deletion of the new More About Me profile field to the list of things done by this "one-click" feature - I have added this to the programmer's To Do list - in the meantime that part can be done easily enough under Control Panel > Edit Profile.

And the new "Change My Username" (also Control Panel > Edit Account Info) feature also helps address some of the concerns. So if you used the same username as you use on other sites when you registered and have second thoughts, you can correct that.

So the site has all the self-serve tools a person needs to protect their identity.

I have gone way out of my way to meet people more than halfway on this issue - some people who contact me are rude and treat me like I am their personal internet maid. I just ignore those people - life is too short.

- Drew :paw:

[Realist]

Drew,

The OP reminds me of my uncle, who borrowed my dad's truck to haul some furniture. My dad used the truck in his business, but he did without it, to help my uncle.

When my uncle brought the truck back, he complained that it had no fuel in it and he had to pay for gas! (If he'd hired a moving crew, it would have cost $1,000. He made the move for only the cost of the gas and some work.)

Some days you just can't win!

Ignoring an anal retentive, irrational, inidvidual is the best way to deal with him!

[lilbitbi]

Odd thread starter. Seems tolerance would be a quality common to many bi's. The whole wishing to accept others and be accepted thing.