Is it really hard to find a woman to join a couple?

[tendertouch9]

This is our first time trying to find a woman to join us and it seems to be a tough thing. We just want a nice woman 20-40 in Jersey, PA or NY to go out for some drinks and then hook up and have fun. You guys have any ideas?

[Driver 8]

Single bi women who'll join couples are as rare as unicorns. Have you thought about looking for another MF couple who's looking for the same thing, and taking turns witih who gets to be the M in the MFF threesome?

[WillowTree]

I agree with Driver on the rarity of such a creature. I like her suggestion as well. I'd also suggest that if you are able to find only a female to join you might have more luck close to home, as in someone you know.

[cchalmer]

Yes it is very hard to find a woman to join a couple. CL and I have been looking for about a year and a half and so far no luck. Lots of starters but no finishers yet......

Only advice I can give you is like Driver said...try the couple route. The only other option would be just keep plugging away. Patience is a virtue and good things come to those who wait seem like such a pain in the ass but.......

Good luck and good hunting

[anne27]

If you'll look at the personals sites, there are thousands of couples looking for a female to join. Not that I surf those sites, mind you *coughs* :tong: .

[crowznest]

I don't know what it's like over your way but it seems so much easier to find a woman to join us than it is a man? Whats up with that? You can learn to talk to them more as a unit than two seperate whores trying to get in her pants? Or depending on your day to day, you can shop around while out on the town then find what your interested in and work it into the program.....if you get my meaning. i don't know?

[moonlitwish]

Hell yeah!....We've looked and looked.....I do have a date this weekend, but she's lesbian, considering only limited contact w/ hubby. I must be really cute or she's really desperate...not sure which yet.

I'd thought of the couples route b4, but hubby has no intentions on sharing me w/another man. And I'm not that interested in sleeping with another man anyway......

I guess I shall keep looking also......... :rolleyes:

[woolleygirl]

I know we have been trying all routes. Well almost all, no to the other Couple thing I don't want to sleep with another man. We are trying on some of the searchsights like sexsearch.com and a couple others. It is hard and just like Elvis sights rare unless you are in Graceland. We have yet for this to happen for us but patience is a pain in the neck but it will happen. I am Bi curious or whatever I happen to be I don't like lable, I have yet to explore that side not matter how bad I am wanting it because for my husband we are doing this together.
If you get luck let me know how to go about it or :oh: whatever.

T

As we go bi and bi life just rolls us along

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[Lisa (va)]

I would have to say I agree with Driver, as it seems most women are having a hard enough time to find another women to themselves, much less them and another person (hubby, b/f etc). Take the easy approach and just make friends with folks and hopefully one of them will be copmpatable in the situation. Just because a women likes another women doesn't necesarily mean they will like the spouse in the same manner,or if the wife finds someone she is interested in and hubby doesnt, or vice versa.

Lisa
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