what to do on a first date?

[buck-rogers]

I've been going on a lot of first dates lately. I got it in my head that i've been missing out on the whole relationship thing and i've decided to give it a shot. But, what should I be looking for, what should I ask them and what should I talk about? It was easy when I wasn't looking for anything serious, but now I'm at a loss and I actually find myself a little nervous. I guess I'm looking for some advice from those older and wiser than me. Anyway, what do you make sure to do or say? How do you know when the kiss goodnight is appropriate? Is sex on a first date a bad thing? And if you know you don't want to see them again after the first date do you let them know, or just never call them for a second date?

[roy m cox]

well if this is you're first real date and you will stay with this guy or girl ,

first make sure you are very clean ans smell good don't want a bad impression on him or her ,

meat at a good restaurant and start out with a coffee or pop what ever they like don't try buying the most expensive thing .

take along some flowers i know im the sorta guy who likes them and it turns on some people ,

then complement them on how good they look ,
always do that it makes them feel good about being with you .

don't get pushy about jumping in bed right away unless you and he/she want to and agree on that sorta thing before you get together :tong:

and if you part ways for the night let them make the first move on kissing some people don't kiss on the first date i never did ,

and call them the next day and see if they had fun and would like to go out again, tho some will call you the next day and ask the same of you :)
and if you had a good time with them i had that ha pin a few times and i would go out on a 2nd date with them :bigrin:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Honey, just relax and be You. Talk much. Communication is the key to learning everything about another person. Let the person know You. Talk, laugh, go do something fun and entertaining. Share common interests, eat, laugh some more. If you feel comfortable enough with the person to have sex, then go for it, but play smart and play safe at all costs.
Above all else, Have Fun. :bigrin:;)
Cat.

[chook]

I remember when I was dating there were a few questions I always got out of the way.

1 Do you fuck on first dates?

2 Does ya dad own a brewery?

3 can I see ya tits , or would you show them to me?

4 Do you give head very often?

5 if the answer is no to my questions above...be a good sport and give me the name of girlfriend who does

Well mate I can tell ya that I've been spat at and slapped and even kicked in the knackers, but then I've scored a few fucks as well :tongue:

I hope I've helped in a little way, after all I don't give out my secret techniques just to anybody :impleased

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

[buck-rogers]

all good advice, but I don't think any of the people i've been seeing recently are right for me, you know? Maybe I should be happy just partying and having fun right now. It's easy to choose someone you want to spend one night with, but when you're trying to find a partner you want someone thats absolutely perfect. I have this idea or fantasy of what the perfect guy or girl for me would be like and I haven't found one in that model yet. Are my expectations too high? Well, all good things come to those who wait. Maybe I'm getting too anxious and I instead need to sit back and enjoy the ride.