marysueiowacd
Jan 2, 2010, 8:31 PM
Heres a new twist.My wife and I have been married over 30 yrs. When we got married I wasn't crossdressing. I started again after about 3 yrs of marriage. I did it in secret (although she knew I liked to wear panties in bed with her)and I told her about 10 yrs a go. After a lot of conversations she was an accepting wife of a crossdresser. Keep in mind I didn't dress in front of her until about a yr after I told her. She also knows I masterbate and she is fine with it so she says. Now here is another twist I did what I should not have done and had sex with another mtf crossdresser. I have a couple of times with her. I had these thoughts for many yrs and had hoped they would go away which they didn't and probably won't. So my turmoil is how do I go about telling my wife I am bi sexual. I know she has accepted all the other things but I think this might put her over the edge. I have told I would like to do a 3 some with a male or female but she is not interested. She is pretty vanillia. I do love my wife and she loves me and I don't want to lose her. I am still trying to fight these feelings. I will look for everyones response. Take care marysueiowacd