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LonelyPrince
Feb 3, 2010, 5:12 PM
Okay, I am relatively new to the bisexual community and still have alot of things to learn. At the moment, however, I have found a particular guy who has caught my interest. He has came out as bisexual which was music to my ears! We had been really good friends even before he made the announcement, and we still are, he also knows that I am bisexual. I just seem to get nervous around him whenever I want to tell him how I feel about him, because he is the first guy I have ever felt this way about. I really need help with this because I have no real idea how to go about this.

fredtyg
Feb 3, 2010, 5:26 PM
You're lucky you know he's bi. That removes one obstacle right off the bat.

I'd try to find a way to be alone with him and just talk and tell him how you feel about him. It might help you a lot to start off by telling him you feel nervous in approaching him about this. That might relax you and him both. Then tell him you'd like to be around him more and do things together. Take it from there.

If he doesn't sound interested, bummer. If he sounds interested in doing some things with you, I'd say you have it made and it could go a lot further as time goes on.

Wish I had the guts to do that with my old work buddy from 35 years ago.

LonelyPrince
Feb 4, 2010, 3:53 PM
OK, thank you for the advice! :)

fredtyg
Feb 4, 2010, 4:02 PM
And be sure and let us know how it works out!