Dominant Female

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How do you know if you are indeed the dominant female? Can we really say that the one who uses a strap-on is the dominant one.

[Long Duck Dong]

that, to me is just a form of sexual expression.....

a dominant person ( male / female ) is a person that *takes charge * in many roles including sexual partner.....
they can the one that manages the day to day running of a household, deals with issues, works to resolve issues and misunderstandings.....

but a dominant person doesn't have to be forceful, controlling, dictating..... there are people that are calm and quiet but carry a air around them that gets people to listen to them and become *submissive * ......kinda like a natural leader that is able to get team unity without dictating terms

in a sexual sense, the role of acting as the * top * can be a submissive role....
as role exchange is more than just a sexual thing, its emotional and mental as well....
the idea of being * made * to lay back and watch your partner * impale * themselves on a nice lubed feeldoe / cock, can be a revealing and arousing experience, ..... being * helpless * to do not much other than watch your partner caught up in the throes of passion, while they are riding the feeldoe / cock, can be very intense......


I now would be interested to know how others feel about the role of dominance in a relationship..... passive or active dominance and what defines it

[void()]

I enjoy being submissive with guys more than gals. But the rub as I see it, is that my submission is actually domination. I allow someone else to dominate and so have control ultimately. But then at times I love being the fully overt dominate one. <grins> I'm no good one to ask, a natural switch with no real preference aside from pleasing and being pleased. <sighs> Oddly it seems the wife 'wears the pants' in our family. Though at times she does step aside giving me the reigns. <sighs again> Wish I could help aside from saying it's subjectively fluid but guess I'm not able.