Are women attracted to CD'S??

[PrettyFlowingGown]

Went out as a lady to a fancy dress party friday night. Alot of men in drag and women in sexy attire. A few gay men there aswell. I wore my frilly black satin skirt and lace top. Could'nt get over how many girls wanted to dance with me, it seemed like they were attracted to me. We were talking girlie too, like our fave dress shops, what perfumes we like. when i was dancing with them, we were rubbing up against each other. one woman caressed me and lifted my skirt up, and even touched my panties. I was turned on, but also felt like one of the girls too. A guy did fancy me, and we did have a breif kiss, but found out he was taken. I could've got a girl on the night too, but had to be home early for work.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I know some women are attracted to CD's..other's are not. Its just a matter of what a person is into.
Glad you had fun. :}
Cat

[darkeyes]

Sum r... 1 a me m8s is married 2 1... she thinks e looks delish.. me thinks e looks,well.. like a buildin site worker in drag.. an poor drag at that... mos CD's don hav a clue bout dress make up or even how daft they look..they jus do NOT look like wot they wont 2.. soz if it hurts.. but its how me c's it.. mos CD's look like guys in womens dress..an the mismatch is awful...

..occasionally the odd CD carries it off..but by far an way the biggest majority jus don look the part... don mean 2 hurt.. jus sayin how it is..or at least how me c's it.. an askin ya ifya wonts 2 do CD..take advice bout everythin it means 2 b a woman.. an ifya cant hack it..don do it!!

[Billys_gurl]

I know that it isn't the same thing, but I know alot of drag queens. I have always been comfortable with them. My husband just came out to me as a CD a couple of months ago. It was an adjustment, I have known him for over 20 years and had no inkling about it. I love him though, and I have even done his make-up for him. We shop together too.

[TaylorMade]

Sum r... 1 a me m8s is married 2 1... she thinks e looks delish.. me thinks e looks,well.. like a buildin site worker in drag.. an poor drag at that... mos CD's don hav a clue bout dress make up or even how daft they look..they jus do NOT look like wot they wont 2.. soz if it hurts.. but its how me c's it.. mos CD's look like guys in womens dress..an the mismatch is awful...

..occasionally the odd CD carries it off..but by far an way the biggest majority jus don look the part... don mean 2 hurt.. jus sayin how it is..or at least how me c's it.. an askin ya ifya wonts 2 do CD..take advice bout everythin it means 2 b a woman.. an ifya cant hack it..don do it!!

I'll definitely agree with you here, Fran.

Yeah... if you can look like this

http://www.filmtotaal.nl/images/newscontent/063c283.jpg
Cillian Murphy, Breakfast on Pluto

Or this. . .

http://www.celebrityhq.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/jude-law-rage-movie-drag1.jpg
Jude Law,Rage

I'll even accept this:

http://manolobig.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/miss-vida-in-chanel.jpg
Man, Patrick Swayze made a VERY hot Cougar-y Drag Queen.

Then yeah, that WILL get my panties moist. I WILL want to date you.

But it's a VERY rare man that looks THAT GOOD as a woman. And then back as a man again. That's probably why very few women will date CD's. . .

But almost every man that likes women, straight or bi. . . will always be amused by a woman in his clothes or even boxers. :p

*Taylor*

[brutal_priestess]

In general I don't think a lot of women are. Believe me, when I've attempted to be open about my particular love of it, I usually get a lot of tittering, asinine questions, and funny looks.

btw, that pic of Jude Law is amazing....

[MarieDelta]

Sum r... 1 a me m8s is married 2 1... she thinks e looks delish.. me thinks e looks,well.. like a buildin site worker in drag.. an poor drag at that... mos CD's don hav a clue bout dress make up or even how daft they look..they jus do NOT look like wot they wont 2.. soz if it hurts.. but its how me c's it.. mos CD's look like guys in womens dress..an the mismatch is awful...

..occasionally the odd CD carries it off..but by far an way the biggest majority jus don look the part... don mean 2 hurt.. jus sayin how it is..or at least how me c's it.. an askin ya ifya wonts 2 do CD..take advice bout everythin it means 2 b a woman.. an ifya cant hack it..don do it!!

Well, to speak for the CD's who look like men in dresses...

Yes, they need help with make-up and what not

Yes, some of them look terrible.

However, the need to cross dress isnt something that can be put away in most cases. In some cases it ties into a larger gender disorder.

There have been cases where people have tried to 'quit' crossdressing and have had breakdowns that required hospitalization.

I can tell you from experience how many times I threw out tons of clothing and make up and what not, swearing that I would never ever crossdress again. Just to find myself buying the same stuff over again a few weeks later.

So yeah, I know they know how ridiculous they look. Problem is (in most cases) no one steps up to help them. They just get *those looks.*

I know that I will never look that fab, its just one of the crosses I bear. I do the best I can with what I got, honey.

Being transgender isnt something that you get to choose, just like being bi or being lesbian.

[brutal_priestess]

Well, to speak for the CD's who look like men in dresses...

Yes, they need help with make-up and what not

Yes, some of them look terrible.

However, the need to cross dress isnt something that can be put away in most cases. In some cases it ties into a larger gender disorder.

There have been cases where people have tried to 'quit' crossdressing and have had breakdowns that required hospitalization.

I can tell you from experience how many times I threw out tons of clothing and make up and what not, swearing that I would never ever crossdress again. Just to find myself buying the same stuff over again a few weeks later.

So yeah, I know they know how ridiculous they look. Problem is (in most cases) no one steps up to help them. They just get *those looks.*

I know that I will never look that fab, its just one of the crosses I bear. I do the best I can with what I got, honey.

Being transgender isnt something that you get to choose, just like being bi or being lesbian.

Sometimes it's just about feeling comfortable and a little sexy, too. Maybe I'm just a big old freak but I don't mind if a guy looks like a guy in a dress (if I'm attracted to the guy in question). That's just another aspect of gender-bending/fucking with the bullshit system of gender laws.

[MarieDelta]

Sometimes it's just about feeling comfortable and a little sexy, too. Maybe I'm just a big old freak but I don't mind if a guy looks like a guy in a dress (if I'm attracted to the guy in question). That's just another aspect of gender-bending/fucking with the bullshit system of gender laws.

Where were you when I was your age (j/k)?

[TwylaTwobits]

Kinda tough to answer....I think for some women it might be the frequency of the CDing. Let's face it, women get no flack, instead we get praised when we grab the boyfriends shirt, but a guy can't even just grab the nearest robe to answer the door without worrying it's his wifes. I love to watch movies that have CD men in them. But most of those movies are just that... they are men who have artists working on them to make them look good for the camera, they have the stylists picking out clothes and adjusting areas that need a bit of a tuck to make the clothes fit right and look feminine. I believe it was Marie that posted a link with a vid from Better than Chocolate. Peter Outerbridge looked awesome singing "I'm not a fucking drag queen", I loved it. But I also well remember him as an officer on The Commish and his turn in Cool Runnings as a competing bobsled captain.

Mrs. Doubtfire was a great movie...but it was played as a person desperate to be near his kids not out of a need to CD.

See told ya it wasn't easy for me to answer?? I know that LDD has at times dressed in women's clothing, so yes I can be attracted to someone who at times CD's. Now if he started wearing my clothes all the time, I'd have to find stuff that was complimentary to us both.

[brutal_priestess]

Where were you when I was your age (j/k)?

lol. Probably watching Velvet Goldmine for the first time and realizing my fetish.

[TaylorMade]

Well, to speak for the CD's who look like men in dresses...

Yes, they need help with make-up and what not

Yes, some of them look terrible.

However, the need to cross dress isnt something that can be put away in most cases. In some cases it ties into a larger gender disorder.

There have been cases where people have tried to 'quit' crossdressing and have had breakdowns that required hospitalization.

I can tell you from experience how many times I threw out tons of clothing and make up and what not, swearing that I would never ever crossdress again. Just to find myself buying the same stuff over again a few weeks later.

So yeah, I know they know how ridiculous they look. Problem is (in most cases) no one steps up to help them. They just get *those looks.*

I know that I will never look that fab, its just one of the crosses I bear. I do the best I can with what I got, honey.

Being transgender isnt something that you get to choose, just like being bi or being lesbian.

But you look good, tho. I don't know if it's the hormones, but your face fits well as a feminine one.

*Taylor*

[MarieDelta]

Transgender women in movies typically come in two types


Decievers - "Crying Game" , "Dressed to Kill"


Pathetic - "Mrs Doubtfire", "Normal", "Breakfast On Pluto"

Very few movies/ screenplays have been written by transexual women. Almost never do these films accurately portray transgender folks.

And you forgot one of my favorite trans characters -

Angel from "Rent"

http://www.ruggedelegantliving.com/a/images/Angel.Rent.The.Movie.jpg

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Marie, you're beautiful, so hush...lol I do know CD's and some are just fabulous, and others just dont "Live it" like most Trans-folk do. They dont take the time to do their clothing right, or do their make up to where they dont look like a dock worker in K-Mart mark downs...And some look like they have had their make up applied with a rolle, paint brush, and trowel.
Most Trans ladies look like fine thoroghbreds because they Do take the time to Look like the Ladies that they truly are.
You, my Lady. are one of those....a True Lady.
Yer Cat

[Long Duck Dong]

Went out as a lady to a fancy dress party friday night. Alot of men in drag and women in sexy attire. A few gay men there aswell. I wore my frilly black satin skirt and lace top. Could'nt get over how many girls wanted to dance with me, it seemed like they were attracted to me. We were talking girlie too, like our fave dress shops, what perfumes we like.

based around what I know and understand, a lot of ladies would relate to you better as another *lady*...not a cross dresser or a bi person, but as another * lady *

I remember a couple of young lady friends that once told me that they could talk to me about anything cos they didn't feel like they were talking to a male....and that I could relate so well to them..... even to the point that I could talk with them about period pains and how to ease them ....
( exactly how I do that, is not something I share with people.....it leads to too many issues and headaches )

you come across as the type of person that is not a male in a gown, nor a female impersonator, but a person that draws ladies to you, and has a way of letting them feel like you are listening and understanding them as another lady would...... its a gift that more males need.....lol

I would venture as far as to say that even in the bedroom, that gift is even stronger and I am not refering to the way you make love, but the way you make your partners feel, just by being who you are....

[Billys_gurl]

All of the guys from the movies looked good. I liked John ?Leguizamo? in To Wong Foo too. Of course I loved his crazy ass attitude! I think a CD is a beautiful creature, even if she looks like a man in a dress. It's wonderful to see her expressing herself as she truly feels. I think that is what is important to me, that she feels as beautiful and comfortable as she wants to be. Confident women are a turn on for me and CDs are no different. I can't attach a pic of hubby in her persona or I would see what you all think. I think she's cute but of course I'm biased, I get to sleep with her.:rolleyes:

[DanniNeels]

No they do not. Many girls like gay guys, but not crossdressers. If I were to guess, I would say only 1 out of 1,000 like it.