If Prostitution was Legal???

[loveatl]

Most guys say they are bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be. If prostitution was legal in your area, and you could just drive across town and find girls willing to do what you want, would you take advantage of it? If you could find what you want at the local house of prostitution and still wanted to be with a guy, wouldn't you really be gay?

[slipnslide]

Most guys say they are bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be.

I believe your premise is flawed right from the start. I've not heard one guy say they are "bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be" let alone "most".

[fredtyg]

Agreed. I don't think anyone here has said they turned to men because their wife or girlfriend wouldn't put out. They might of gone outside the home for sex- with either guys or gals- because their sexual desires weren't fulfilled inside the home. But no sex in the home didn't make them queer.

Along the same lines of that issue would be asking a question that's been asked here before. To paraphrase: If you had your choice between a guy and a gal you could do anything you want to with right now, which would you chose, the guy or the gal?

All else, including appearances being equal, I'd likely chose the guy.

The same question with hookers thrown in: If you had $20.00 and could go across town and rent a guy or gal that you could spend the night with and do anything you want, which one would you chose?

Probably neither. I've never had the "pleasure" of a hooker, although I came close at least a couple times. Just seems lame paying for sex, to me. Unfullfilling. Hooking up with some guy from Craigslist would be cheaper and possibly more fulfilling.

[darkeyes]

Most guys say they are bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be. If prostitution was legal in your area, and you could just drive across town and find girls willing to do what you want, would you take advantage of it? If you could find what you want at the local house of prostitution and still wanted to be with a guy, wouldn't you really be gay?

There seems to be something seriously flawed with this question.. a basic understanding of the sexualities for a start... and a considerable lack of knowledge as to what makes people tick..

[Long Duck Dong]

$120 a hour ???? lol nope, I have a hand and a imagination......

prostitution is legal in nz where I live....and while I have prostitues that are friends, I do not seek * friends benefits * or *favours *....

[loveatl]

[QUOTE=slipnslide;179571]I believe your premise is flawed right from the start. I've not heard one guy say they are "bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be" let alone "most".[/QUOTE
Read my other thread--"do older guys turn bi" several wrote about their wives were no longer doing it for them.. they couldn't find the excitement that was when they were young. Nothing seemed new to them. I have had response from several saying that was the way they felt.

[butthat'snotmyname]

I considered finding a prostitute several years ago as a result of the divorce and subsequent non-existent sex life. There are a few semi-famous brothels in western Nevada, a short drive from the Sacramento Valley in California. A healthy sex life offers so much more, I think, than can be bought like you would buy a car. Yes, I checked ahead: the brothel's website offered a range of "models" from which I could choose depending on my particular tastes. Further, I could and did talk to two of them online. I could even prebook my session. There was offered an amazing range of services and for unique combinations of models and services the price could be negotiated, but not by telephone.

Imagine haggling over price in the hope of fulfilling at least two of the most basic of human needs!! I couldn't. My research certainly left me knowing that I needed something other than a very tempting yet expensive substitute for my left hand. The left hand I was born with was still free and I still had a vivid imagination.

I'm still waiting for the right time, place and person. I'm sure that I'm not expecting a LTR to just show up in a chat room but I'm just as certain that I need much more than I could have gotten in about an hour for about $600.

A suggestion that I might seek refuge in false bisexuality because deficiencies in my heterosexual existence leave me grasping for anything available is ridiculous. I clearly and vividly remember the first time I saw another male's orgasm resulting from solo masturbation. I clearly remember the envy, the desire to show him I could do it, the desire to have him teach me, to touch me like that. That was more than a decade before many of you were born. That was before I had a mature sense of my own sexuality, when homosexuality was severely stigmatized; that was when gay bashing was defined as sub-human pigs driving up the coast to San Francisco to beat gays in Haight-Ashbury half to death simply because they were gay. That was before I learned to overcome fear and terror; I certainly wasn't going to be gay in the little town I lived in. And I was already attracted in a very real, very sexual way to women.

That I am finally, at 51 years old, acknowledging that those needs and desires from so long ago have remained CANNOT be just a weak reaction to dissatisfaction with my heterosexual sex life. My tendency toward bisexuality runs much deeper than my dissatisfaction with my sex life. I'm typing two handed. The left is very versatile indeed.

Maybe my next lover gets more than I've given here.

[slipnslide]

Read my other thread--"do older guys turn bi" several wrote about their wives were no longer doing it for them.. they couldn't find the excitement that was when they were young. Nothing seemed new to them. I have had response from several saying that was the way they felt.

That's a self-serving interpretation of those responses though - you posed the hypothesis and discarded anything that didn't support it. There was also a strong sense in the responses that societal change was allowing these men to explore part of their sexuality that had been a taboo in their younger years. They didn't necessarily "turn" bi - many may always have felt they were, but couldn't act on it.

As you can see from other posters, the premise is still regarded as flawed.

[citystyleguy]

fail to see the corrallation here regarding legal prostitution and bisexuality; i am bisexual, because i am; my sex life is fine, in any relationship that i have had, and i have sought those males in my life, for the man, not the sex, sex being the icing on the cake once we knew we were for each other. hell, our life together had a lot more going for it than just the sex. oh, and by the way, i was one who answered the inquiry, and no where was there any indication of your supposition being the cause for my natural bisexuality.

also, for the very same reasons cited above, the women in my life have been for the individual, with the sex again for the further enjoyment, but not the definition of the relationship.

as to legal prostitution, i am all for the legalization of the so called vice crimes, not crimes truly, but simply enacted as a crime, all for interfering into the privacy of others! men go to prostitutes because they have an itch that needs scratching, no matter what they are getting in the home turf.

[DuckiesDarling]

$120 a hour ???? lol nope, I have a hand and a imagination......

prostitution is legal in nz where I live....and while I have prostitues that are friends, I do not seek * friends benefits * or *favours *....

Decides not to send Duck a bill for services rendered :tong:

[Realist]

Sex without a caring/loving relationship has no appeal to me. When I was 19, I had sex with a German woman for money; it was the worst sex of my life. Mindless, base, sex was no better than masturbating and I didn't have a warm, fuzzy feeling about being with her. I imagine sex with a guy for money would be no different. It was an experience that I never repeated.

I suspect that a person, who has to resort to prostitutes for sexual gratification has little going for him/her, as far as personality, charm, or an interesting demeanor.

Although, I have no interest in being with a prostitute, I do think they should be legal. Like anyone earning money, they should be taxed and pay for the periodic medical inspections. Their clients should also have to submit for medical testing, as well. Sleazy pimps and the parasites that prey on them would be eliminated and they'd have the law to protect them, like everyone else. In theory, the control of their earnings would be theirs and the element of crime would be removed.

[darkeyes]

[QUOTE=slipnslide;179571]I believe your premise is flawed right from the start. I've not heard one guy say they are "bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be" let alone "most".[/QUOTE
Read my other thread--"do older guys turn bi" several wrote about their wives were no longer doing it for them.. they couldn't find the excitement that was when they were young. Nothing seemed new to them. I have had response from several saying that was the way they felt.

People do many things for many reasons.. people become bisexual and gay for many reasons.. the most usual is that they are gay or bisexual...they may not always have been gay or bisexual, or considered themselves such..sexuality can be and often is remarkably fluid.. but its not usual to become so simply out of boredom..

[jamiehue]

Um i dont like that scene ...see ya.

[53bimale]

For me, I am bi....it is not anything to do with women, lack of women, or lack of sex with my wife. It has to do with me loving to have sex with men and women.
I did not turn bi, I can not remember not being bi. I have expierenced those urges all my life.
If a person is truly bi, you understand.....and if you are not truly bi, you will never understand.
Also to pay for sex???? When I am with a person sexually, I want to feel the desire and passion of my lover. I want to know my lover, and I do not think paying for it, would fulfill those requirements. I want to desire my lover and my lover desire me and seek total fulfillment for us both.....
I may be wrong, but I do not think you can pay for that.
Sex is too good to be wasted.
All enjoy....make the most of each encounter.

[Jessicaknight]

If Prostitution was Legal

I would be employed
and I could work from home

[darkeyes]

If Prostitution was Legal

I would be employed
and I could work from home

It is legal here.. tho' they hardly make it easy for prostitutes to work.. at least not street walkers.. but it is possible and many women, and men for that matter, do make a decent, sometimes even prosperous living at it.. it can be dangerous.. maybe if society stopped being so bloody hypocritical about it it would be less so.. many students sell themelves to pay for their studies.. I know several students who have and a number who do.. my best friend considered it at one time because she had so little money to stay on at uni..its not something I could do, but its their bodies and their lives.. so good luck to them... many in society may not like prostitution but that there is a need, or at least a demand for it is plain.. for if there wasnt there wouldnt be quite so many customers, many of whom risk much for the privilege of paying and playing.. but not as much as the girls and guys who risk themselves day after day...

[Robinium]

Most guys say they are bi-sexual because their current sex life is not what they want it to be. If prostitution was legal in your area, and you could just drive across town and find girls willing to do what you want, would you take advantage of it? If you could find what you want at the local house of prostitution and still wanted to be with a guy, wouldn't you really be gay?

This is really a weird thread opening.

My answers: No and no - the idea of having sex with someone who only does it for the money turns me off, plus I have better things to do with my money.