[FONT=Verdana]Most of us acknowledge the value of good communication as a preqequisite for good sex. Sometimes when I reflect back on my past sexual encounters I wonder, "What would have happened if only I had the courage to say this . . . or say that? What if I had simply told him (or her) "I liked this (or that) . . . would you do it?" or, "Would you like me to do this or that?" Of course some times we just do "it" - or have "it" done - without the need for any verbal expression. But my guess is that we all experienced times when we wished there had been more. We all miss opportunities. If you have ever come away from a sexual encounter wondering what might have - what could have been, listen up; this advice is for you. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]I submit the act of verbalizing desired sexual behaviors adds to the fullness of sexual enjoyment for both parties. One of my criticisms of most porn films is the absence of any meaningful dialogue among the participants. The only utterances one sometimes hears is the occasional grunt, or "Yeah!" "Yeah!" We can and should do better than that. We can and should be more communicative than the lower species of animals. And we should expect and encourage more verbalization from our partners too. It takes a conscious - and possibly courageous - choice on our part to be more verbal. But it can and should be done. The results can be surprisingly rewarding if you do it. You should take the risk of offending your partner. My bet is that they'll silently thank you for doing it and with any luck, they'll quickly surpass your ability in employing this acquired talent . . . the talent of talking dirty while having sex.[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]One dirty talking technique I employ I call "Elicit and response" (for want of a better expression) It happens like this:[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]Instead of simply - and minimally - stating "I love the way you are sucking my cock", I ASK, "Do you like sucking my cock?" And when he (or she) responds by simply nodding their heads, I [/FONT][B]instruct [/B][FONT=Verdana]them (for this is the learning moment.) [/FONT][B]I tell them[/B][FONT=Verdana] to back off my cock and restate the complete sentence I just uttered. [/FONT][B]I instruct them to say[/B][FONT=Verdana], "I love sucking your cock." Tell them to say it! Have them say clearly and out loud: "I love sucking your cock." Though initially surprised or hesitant, with luck they'll respond as requested and be grareful you gave them permission to actually say the words out loud. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]The principle is to have your partner repeat the complete sentence, not simply utter a yes or no, or nod or grunt. By having the other echo back the specific words, more verbalization is introduced and, believe me, it works. Both parties love it. The more explicit and "dirtier" the words used, the more heightened the positive effect. Words such as "cock", "suck", "prick", "fuck", "pussy", "asshole", etc. are all good. The dirtier, the better. Go there - and repeat the same words frequently if necessary. Saying anything is better that saying nothing. Talk dirty and talk dirty often. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]For most of us, the more uninhibited the sexual practices we employ, the greater the pleasure. When we were young we were all instructed to avoid engaging in all kinds of taboo behaviors. Among these was the injunction: "Don't say that; it's dirty!" Avoidance of talking dirty to your partner while in the bedroom is simply another taboo to shed. We've had the courage to shed other prohibitions, so we should add this to our list of accomplishments; it will yield richer experiences for both you and your partner. Try it; you'll like it.[/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]As a concluding note let me add the following. [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]One of the funniest lines I ever heard delivered on TV was uttered by the actress Cloris Leachman who played the role of a girlfriend to Mary Tyler Moore on that old great show bearing Mary's name. Cloris's character was married to a never-shown husband called Lars. In response to Mary's complaint that she, Mary, was lonely, Cloris responded, "Mary, you don't know what loneliness is until you've slept with Lars." [/FONT] [FONT=Verdana]Don't be a Lars; talk. And talk dirty.[/FONT]
Updated Dec 27, 2014 at 8:43 AM by Shazam (typo error in title)
looking for sexy chat with m or f maybe webcam as well
The chat rooms were the best part of this site. There appears to be no one from this site answering e-mails or blog questions about chat room access issues. It seems the chat rooms are still closed.
Sorry! forgot to ad his pic! He fucked me good!
Quite some time since I was here! I still think it's a great site! We had a wonderful christmas eve at home. My hubby's loverboy was with us and I had a lonely neighbor fucking me. I allowed my hubby to lick his cum out of my used cunt. He gets crazy horny when I let him do that. I licked his loverboy's cum out of his too and then we kissed deep! I wish you all a merry christmas and lots of good sex in the new year!! Suzi in the pic I ride my hubby
Updated Dec 24, 2014 at 9:30 PM by cibeis
Any other man here thinking about growing breast. Been working on it for three years now, Been taking female hrt,and now I am a 36b,
In today's entry Bernda (her mother is dyslexic) is the narrator: Asleep in my own bed, I feel familiar sensations stir inside me. Outside my window there is a treeless yard, a figure slouches towards my window, peers in at me, naked, asleep in my own bed, I spread my legs, he winks and smiles and disappears, reappearing at the foot of my bed. I pull my legs together, roll over into a fetal position. I feel his hands on my ankles. He is strong. Strong enough to roll me gently onto my back, spread my legs. I hear his smile crinkle. His lips taste of peppermint'; it makes a mild burning sensation on my vagina. It spreads open, the peppermint spreads too, inside me. It is his tongue. Long and flexible like a snake it enters me and peers into every crevice, I want to sit up, but the snake curls inside me and I fling my hips up, his eyes are fixed on my mine, the line of his sight a caress up the center of my body, between my breasts, his grunts make his tongue wriggle, or twisting his long tongue inside me makes him grunt. It is not his grunt, but mine. I twist and abrade the snake with my interior. The snake smiles and coils and thrusts. Hiding safe and warm inside the cave. In two places at once, the same eyes stare at me, silent, tongue tied, and there is another tongue, that enters my mouth and wriggles to my throat. Long and flexible like its lover, they seek a meeting a place, a kiss, in the center of my being. Their kiss is wet and sloppy, two greedy tongues flicker their taunts at one another, the mouths grow wet, spurts of wetness, there is semen filling my mouth and my vagina. Another snake enters my anus. Two more affix themselves to my breasts. What is that kissing my belly button? Sucking on my neck? I am suddenly afraid. “John, help me!” John helps me. I tell him to push harder.
I just looked at main stats page and it appears chat is working FOR PAID MEMBERS ONLY.....I done with site after some 5 years now...c'ya all. 1/10/2015 Well I keep showing up like a bad penny LOL...just wanna say that my initial reaction was kinda a knee jerk one as I see that stats for the chat rooms are still the same...oh well I keep coming back here for the other features of the site. Have checked out a lot of others but just not the same so I re-initialized my profile and keep checking in hoping to see chat and read the forums and blogs...I see where a bunch of peeps are chatting on yahoo so I guess I'll check that out sometime soon...sure hope the this site sticks around as the community is the best of all the bi and other sites I've checked out...Drew if you're out there let us know you're alright as some of us are really concerned for your well being no matter what happens to the site. To all my friends and acquaintances I made here, feel free to message me if you wanna and hope to chat with you all soon...Peace, Love, Dove...Doc
Updated Jan 10, 2015 at 6:06 PM by DrBimind (Update)
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