Welcome to the group. We hope this page grows as there are plenty of bisexuals living in Illinois. We are a married couple. I am bisexual. My wife is straight, but loves to play. Wondering how many married bisexual couples there are in Illinois? Feel free to post.
You can count us! We are both bi. He is more driven and active in interacting with men, but we both have great times whenever we are with others of a like mind... that is, open-minded. Both of us are sensual and not fearful of closeness. That is to say, we are more hopeful of finding intimate friends, and not interested in anonymous encounters.
Hi there. I am bi, my fiance is not. She knows about me because I told her. The right thing to do. Suffered through a marriage where I couldn't be myself. That broke down for a number of reasons, this included. Never felt safe telling her. My new lady supports me but doesn't want to know if you know what I mean. Just be safe and all if I decide to have this in my life. Anyway, Southern burbs of chicago, feeling alone as I have no bi friends right now. Hoping to chat with some like-mindeds here. Peace to all, Ed
Hi, I joined this site a long time ago. Glad to find a group of people from Illinois. I'm one of the people who has always known and afraid of what others would think. I've had a couple of friends in the past who have known. I've also talked to my wife about my bisexual feelings and how I found out about my sexuality at a young age. She' doesn't understand enough to be comfortable with it and doesn't like talking about it. I know she's just afraid of it like I use to be. Just wanna be in touch with people who understand. Anyway, hope we can chat sometime.
I'm new here and just wanted to introduce myself and say hello to everybody. I live in Illinois, but I'm close to St. Louis.. I'm a Bi MWM. If you want to know more, check my profile or drop me a line.
First off, hello to you all. I like most people on here are bisexual, but very deep in the closet about it, I started in high school and have explored this part of me throughout my adult years. I am married and the wife does not know about this side of me as she is not as open minded as she lead me to believe prior to getting married. I have not been very active in the bi lifestyle for a few years, mainly because of my wife but that part of me has never left. I have noticed as I grow older (now 53) that it is harder to approach this subject with other people due to the rules of society that I grew up with. Also, I have a hard time as I pretty much demand, provide and expect total discretion. It truly is no ones business unless I choose to involve them with this information. Anyway, I feel like I am ranting, and that is not my intention....lol I am seeking down to earth, "normal" open minded people to get to know as I need to feel the freedom of being myself as not feeling that acceptance at home is quite difficult at times. I am in no hurry to start a sexual relationship as I have to like the person before exploring. This is something I have found that most men want to get at it within 1-2 minutes of talking. I have not done anything like this before so please excuse the post as I have little to no experience talking (writing) about this potion of my life. Thanks, and I hope to meet some very cool people on here.
Hi I'm not really from Illinois but I do work there in North Chicago. I live less than a quarter of a mile from the Illinois boarder in Wisconsin about 3 miles from the lake. I haven't been here for a while but drop by once in a while to see if anyone close by has joined. I'm not into traveling because I've been stood up too many times in my home town of Kenosha to want to spend all the time and money to go get stood up somewhere else. I'm really not into anal at all. Just want to find a blow buddy for mutual fun. I'm not really that attracted to guys at all really just the idea of sucking dick and getting sucked. My past experience on these kind of sites have been totally fruitless. I think this is just a game some people play. They entice you into going to meet you and then never meet you. That's particularly why I'm not interested in the long distance thing when I can go and get stood up right here in Kenosha. I'm married with children and have a full time job. I don't have a lot of free time just mainly on the weekends. Saturday is my normal free time when I visit the book stores and record shops and a few other shops I frequent.