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Men, how do you overcome your sexual cravings with ED? At 79, I still have strong sexual cravings. Until 10 year ago oral sex was my sex of choice but now arthritis has made that difficult with my wife. Most recently, my desires have turned to admiring men's cocks. I can't explain it. It gives me a thrill.
I agree with you. The urge is there, but the action is not. I started sucking cocks at an early age, and once again I am seeking cocks to suck and drain. When they cum in my mouth, I swallow their cock deep down my throat, I love that throbbing feeling. I can't suck enough, always looking.
The answer depends to a degree on where you plan on taking your new cravings. If it is simply a matter of wanting to be able to masturbate, then you can try any of four approaches I am aware of (which also have some likelihood of working if you hope to be sexually involved with another man, rather than just jerking off while imagining doing so). There are a couple of other things that come to mind that don't directly answer your question but warrant consideration if you intend to find a male partner of like mind. I will not go into all of these in detail, because it is late and I am tired, and there is more than adequate info readily available on each on line (and for the first three, you might do best to discuss them with your doctor, anyway).Quote:
Originally Posted by sergio40
1. The oral pills that stimulate erectile function (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra) were godawful expensive when they first came out, but if you have no problem with the idea of taking generic meds, they are all available generic now and can be found at extraordinary price savings. They are not safe to use if you have any degree of coronary artery disease.
2. A penis pump is complicated to describe, but they are available online and through some doctors' offices (most notably a urologist but also some primary care doctors). They are easy to investigate online just by googling "penis pump." I am not 100% sure about this, but I think those you get through a doctor's office may be more reliable in function.
3. There are meds, this time that you must get through a urologist, that act like normal hormones that trigger an erection. It is like getting a higher does of the natural hormones until you find out how much stimulation you require to trigger an erection. This only makes sense if you think you can bring yourself to stick a tiny needle in your penis and push the plunger on a tiny syringe. You also must have adequate eyesight and manual coordination to draw the medication up into a syringe from a vial. (all the meds in numbers 1 and 3 can cause a somewhat dangerous condition doctors call priapism, where you get an erection that is somewhat too firm and lasts too long (more than four hours, despite your no longer being sexually stimulated). The injected meds are more prone to do it than the oral tablets. There is treatment for it, but you must be ready to go to the ED with a quite firm erection to have a doctor and nurses quite focused in attending to it.)
4. There are prostate stimulating devices that in some men stimulate a quite satisfying erection. Some of them are very much like a vibrating dildo, so if the idea of getting a big cock up your ass turns you on, this might stimulate an erection and then turn you on to imagine you have a real man with his cock stuffed up your butt (two bangs for the buck, so to speak).
5. Sometimes being with someone who has the sort of genitals you are excited by proves to be much more stimulating and able to induce an erection than being alone and fantasizing about it.
6. This does not necessarily involve getting an erection, at all. It depends on what you are after. Many men prefer sucking off other men to getting sucked off themselves. If that sounds good to you, there are plenty of men who feel just the opposite and would love getting a blowjob and not having to return the "favor."
My last comment does not attempt to answer your question, at all. I simply wonder, if you have arthritis in the neck bad enough that it makes it hard for you to eat your wife's pussy, as giving a blowjob involves much more vigorous movement of the neck than does eating pussy, as a rule, where you expect to take this new thrill. I hope it works out for you wonderfully in one way or another. Good luck.
My first wife encouraged me to check out playing with other cocks. It took awhile, but we had always played with other guys in threesomes, though just straight threesomes. During these times she would ask the other guy to share my cock with her. Eventually she had me sharing other guys cocks with her. I had fun with it. Then we split up, and I slowly became curious about trying cock on my own. Found out I did enjoy sucking cock one on one. Then ED hit and now I love cock and cum like never before. I do a lot of cruising looking for cock and cum.
Anyone here ever have a TURP surgery? Had a great sex life till then. Now I can't cum! I get hard and can have an orgasm (all the same feelings but no cum) My wife never cared for a mouthful of cum, now she can suck it for hours and not worry about the cum. However most guys want that mouthful..
Many men are suffering from the erectile dysfunction problem due to various reason. Lots of men are not able to overcome their weakness due to lack of awareness. First up all, mutual understanding between couples is an important thing. Regularly keeping the body health is an important things. Doing simple exercise and consult with health care expert is helps to make body health care condition well and good. Few young men are consuming medicine to overcome this health issue. Old age men should consult with their health expert before, going to take pill.
Actually communication that it is issue not playmate. Other ways to play and have fun. Penis pump did help me.