Going from bisexual to straight.....with the right person....

Over the weekend, we had a bi male friend over for dinner.... and in the middle of dinner, he looked at my partner and said if I had a partner like you, I would never have sex with another guy again....... my partner is female, intersex and one of the very rare types that is actually hermaphrodite intersex, meaning that they were both with both fully developed genitalia rather than the more common enlarged clit.......

The friend went on to explain that he is not attracted to males, but loves sucking cock and being fucked by a real cock, and because females tend not to have cocks, ( no offense to crossdressers, trans and non binary ) he was kinda stuck for options.....and also he said that because he loves cock more than pussy, hes regarded as mostly gay, even tho he prefers ladyboys and trans females with functional cocks, over males......

He then said would that make him straight.....my partner promptly replied with * the more important question is would you want to get out of bed at all *... which got everybody laughing......but it sparked a interesting conversation......

Turned out that almost everybody that night, 3 bi males, 3 bi females, one gay male and one lesbian, had the same thinking, they would happily go without sex with males if there was more people like my partner.....the lesbian admitted that she would be open to being fucked by my partners cock, because my partner is female, not male.......

Now the key thing is that they would not be missing out on a nice cock or pussy......just the male.......

and yeah as for if it changes a persons sexuality label, none of them cared tho in the gay guy and lesbians case, they said they would immediately lose friends but who needs friends that shallow anyway.......

Then my partner said could you all put up with me, I am bi sexual, I need a male and a female, I am attracted to both....not just whats between their legs.......everybody said yeah they would be open to her having a person like me as a friend with benefits.....even the lesbian said she would find a way to make it work for the sake of her partner with things like a 3some as long as she herself, was not asked to have sex with the male......

All in all it turned out to be a interesting conversation.... .and so I thought I would post it in this site.....

As for what it would be like with my partner, click out the video.....and decide for yourself if it would change anything for you........and sorry, cloning my partner is not a option, which is a shame because her and I would love to share copies of her all over the world.......

https://www.xnxx.com/video-iklr60/big_tit_hermaphrodite

That sound perfect... but if I were that fortunate, it wouldn't change the fact that I'm bisexual - why would it?

You gotta feel comfortable in your own skin of what you are as what you are into sexual stuff

Well, if I got married to a male or female................It would not stop that I am bi, it just means I would not act on my impulses.

I would not stop being Bisexual. It has balanced out my life for the better.

I'm not trying to be insulting in any way but if I was with a hermaphrodite or intersexual, does it get any better than that? I don't think it does when you're bisexual. But the relationship and who you're in a relationship with doesn't define the sexuality of either person although I can see how it could change that straight guy's sexuality if being involved with an intersexed person didn't freak him out and he's heading for the hills as fast as he can. I mean, I'd stay put and be all into them and not just because they're intersexed but, yeah, I'd be lying if I said that this... condition didn't appeal or excite me to be able to have the best of both worlds... with one person. LDD, now I'm "jealous..."

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Originally Posted by KDaddy23

I'm not trying to be insulting in any way but if I was with a hermaphrodite or intersexual, does it get any better than that? I don't think it does when you're bisexual. But the relationship and who you're in a relationship with doesn't define the sexuality of either person although I can see how it could change that straight guy's sexuality if being involved with an intersexed person didn't freak him out and he's heading for the hills as fast as he can. I mean, I'd stay put and be all into them and not just because they're intersexed but, yeah, I'd be lying if I said that this... condition didn't appeal or excite me to be able to have the best of both worlds... with one person. LDD, now I'm "jealous..."

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lol.....all that glitters is not gold, trust me, lol.....

Some people are old school bi ( attracted to males and females ) and some people are modern bi ( attracted to males, females, trans, nonbinary etc ) and yeah we were using the old school bi definition....

where it gets hilarious is people will say if a female dates my partner, they are lesbian, but if a male dates my partner, they are bi.. and will argue that genitalia does not matter or define a person while using the dual genitalia to call the guy, bi, but ignoring the genitalia when they call the female, lesbian.........a bit like how people say if a female marries a guy, shes straight, not bi but if a guy marries a female he can still be bi......

now my partner is ok with being seen as female, tho she does not call herself female and people say oh shes non binary.....and the answer is no, she does not id as non binary either, she just does not use either label, and people will start arguing that not seeing herself as female means shes non binary.....and completely miss the point that they are trying to label her as something......she actually does not call herself female to annoy people that tell her she needs to stand up for womens rights and feminism because she is female.......

But if she did use the term of non binary, then people would still argue that a female dating her, is a lesbian and a guy dating her is straight because she is female, completely ignoring the fact that non binary people do not see themselves as a gender.... its others that do........

She uses the term bisexual in that she has sex with males and females and again the same thing comes up, if she dates a female, then the female is lesbian, not bi, but if a guy dates her, the guy is bi, not straight, cos she has a cock and pussy......

Thats part of why we were having so much fun during our discussion.....but yeah I agree, a persons sexual orientation does not necessarily change if they had a partner like mind and forgo all others.....however its society that will argue that it does and has, using their fucked up logic........

Anyways we will continue to work on cloning her, cos she really is a interesting person outside of the bedroom and lots of fun in the bedroom....lol....just bear in mind she has the sex drive to wear out 4 other people and still want more sex.....lol....maybe I need to send her to the US on holiday to visit you and jaz and others, lol.....

Send in the clones!

Roflmao.....starts cloning...

Unit is 5ft 5 about 120 pounds, athletic build, red hair half way down her back, scottish / irish and a high sex drive, bisexual with an any place, any time approach to sex.....

Unit runs on scotch, steak, cuddles and sex, lots of sex, has a twisted sense of humour and a strong sense of loyalty. Comes complete with a range of sex toys, a copy of the kama sutra, bondage set

Warning: May snore, fart in bed, hog the covers and is prone to sarcastic comebacks and the temperament of a wolverine with a itchy asshole if provoked by bigots and phobes

Batteries not included or needed

to me being bi is the best of both sexs