I've often wondered if most folks fantasize when they masterbate, and more so about what, or if it's just the physical sensation that gets them off. Myself, erotic fantasies, usually about bi-threesomes/foursomes,oral, etc. What's typical?
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I've often wondered if most folks fantasize when they masterbate, and more so about what, or if it's just the physical sensation that gets them off. Myself, erotic fantasies, usually about bi-threesomes/foursomes,oral, etc. What's typical?
Usually I cycle through some of my favorites in my head until I hit one that makes me go BINGO! For me its like browsing through a menu of my favorite dishes until I find the meal thats is perfect for my mood.
Wow...well, what is my fantasy while masurbating huh???...use to do that but not much anymore....
No, lately it's been VERY interesting in that I usually get into it for what it is completely caught in the sensations of it. For instance; I bring out toys which consist of dildo, butt plug, cock ring, and once in a blue moon, the anal beads..need some better ones though. Bring out the lube too once in a while and it's great. If I need some added stimulation, I'll add a porn video but not often. The sensations themselves I open up to.
The recent addition are what my sweet woman has recently introduced to me to do which is to try a new/old approach...that is, to use different ways of jacking my cock. She recently was on the phone with me directing me how to jack/pump my cock...she told/commanded me to use just 2 fingers and my thumb and jack on the shaft of my cock without going over the head until she said when...and then I'd do that...
Now you see, when you're only pumping your shaft without including the head of your cock, you'd think this would take away from the sensation..which initially, it seems like it. But then, I started to feel these incredible sensations coming just from the shaft itself rising up towards the head. And when she said pump up only once over the head and then back down, it was amazing...and then I had to stay at the shaft again without bringing the head into it again though I really wanted to bring the head back into it....so refraining caused another sensation. I could feel my cock really getting much much harder....and these very exquisite spasms were moving all through my cock...and it just seemed to get harder and harder and the precum was literally pouring out through the slit of my cock....soaking it....
By this time, I could feel my orgasm really mounting and building and then finally getting to the point where it was getting right to the edge.
This kept going for some time...and then she told/commanded me to just jack the head alone without the shaft...again, at first it didn't seem that stimulating until a few moments later...and the precum was getting distributed all over the head since I was now focused on the head and it was very very wet and shiny of course...precum all over it and on my fingers by now....
Then I was told to go back down to the shaft in one entire pump and then back up again, then down and up again....a series of entire pumps...by this time I was ready to explode and told her I was ready but she said NO...oh god!.....to have to hold back...but I did and somehow managed feeling my orgasm right on its very edge. Another huge amount of precum oozing out of the slit/head...I stopped as the sensation to cum subsided somewhat but just barely...and stayed in a place waiting for the final moment....
I could feel more cum gathering....so I continued the pumping just alone on the shaft and was told I could now add a 3rd finger and did....my cock was so hard and my head was turning a very deep bright red...and precum now on a continual oozing....
Again, I was told to pump the entire shaft and did so...after about 4 or 5 pumps there was no way to hold back....man!!!!!!!...it was fucking amazing....
My cock surged with an incredible hardness and the cum not only exploded but torrents of it came pouring out too matching the sensations of this orgasm....
Since that remarkable moment, I did it once again and the same thing happened....
It takes a lot of time and patience.....I use to do this kind of masturbating in my 20's....and forgotten how wonderful it is...kisses to my baby for this for bringing it back....
So fantasize...sure..why not...but it isn't necessary that's for sure. Just allow the sensations to take over and stay with them. You won't be disappointed I promise!
AndrogynousLuv - great post! I have done that same type of masturbating as well. Just stroking the shaft until cum just oozes out! Its more cum that precum, but a lot of it keeps oozing out and I taste it and swallow it and finally explode with orgasm!! Its really amazing sometimes how much I can cum without orgasming that way. Sometimes I do it on my back with legs up and cock just above my face and let it ooze over my face and into my mouth!
I have never touched another cock before so usually my fantasy is about giving head and deepthroating etc. Usually, but not always regarding a beautiful transsexual, but a well hung dude is starting more and more to take the place!
When I use my left hand I fantasize I'm volunteering at Habitat for Humanity building a new Food Shelf in an impoverished inner city ghetto, when I and another volunteer wind up pounding more than nails. When I use my right hand I fantasize about sex with an intern in the corner penthouse office of a major corporation overlooking the same city where clueless liberals down below struggle to better conditions for poor people. I'm afraid my left and right are too closely tied to political stereotypes.
Usually I cycle through some of my favorites in my head until I hit one that makes me go BINGO! For me its like browsing through a menu of my favorite dishes until I find the meal thats is perfect for my mood.
The above was written by love lion. It more or less describes the way I get there, only I use the internet to bring up stories or images and usually look at up to 150 pics before I climax.
I have many fantasies invlolving wife sharing, incest, bi sexuality, cross dressing/lingerie, you name it.
One think I like to do if I have time is read sex stories on the net. The descriptions of whats happening and how the characters are feeling throughout gives you something pictures and videos dont. I love stories about people experiencing sex with a member of their own gender for the first time or just sex for the first time
Well, it has been a while since I have masturbated. I usually let a friend do it now when required. But, I used to pull down my pants in a place, usually private and really enjoy it! One time, I beat off in a Department Store Mens' Clothing Dept dressing room while trying on clothes. That was exciting! Another time, I masturbated next to a tree on a Golf Course while I had my pants fully down at night.Thank goodness that I did not get caught. But, I really do like to feel myself (cock and balls) along with the wetness (pre-cum) that comes (PUN). Anyway, I enjoy playing with myself, and I feel like taking out my cock right now and exploding all over the computer keyboard. I do not think that I would masterbate in a pubic place again, and I really did not.
I like to think of some dom bitch telling me and her husband what to do.
uninhibited bi sex.
gay sex.
het sex.
BDSM.
kissing whoever I'm fantasizing sex with.
when i masturbat i love 2 think about a fantasy of 2 girls or more having wild hott kinky sexx or i would picture me and 2 other ppl having gr8 sexx and there is a female slowly taking off her clothes awaiting 2 join in and experience a f/f 4 the first and what turns me on and start me 2 masturbate is a pic of a woman or womens posing doggystyle
Wow, many excellent posts! I'll Definitely add some of these images to my file. Posted somewhere below is the comment of fantasies watching experience same sex for the first time or being with some for their same-sex first time. That’s one of my personal favorites, and it’s usually me who’s the first timer. And AndrogynousLuv, thanks! for reminding me what an art it can be!
One that always sticks out is being one of my fiancee's friends and us being a couple and/or pulling each other. Doing her up the arris is another.
My favorite thoughts while masturbating are not fantasies -- it actually happened.
My sister and I were in the middle of divorces at the same time. We were spending a lot of time together helping each other through a difficult time. One thing led to another, and our relationship became intimate. We both knew it was wrong, but it was difficult to keep our hands off of each other. She was (and still is) so gorgeous.
I remember the things we did together, and still get hot when I think of those times. We both went on to remarry and the intimacy stopped, but we still talk about those times when we're alone together. She admits to me that she masturbates with those memories as well.
Thanks for sharing that with us, doing so must be very brave. I wouldn't call it wrong either.Quote:
Originally Posted by warmpuppy
My fantasies are usually same sex involving either 2 women together or 2 men. It's the same with porn and stories. I like gay porn and les porn. I like true stories involving 2 men or 2 women. No wonder I'm bi lol. When I masturbate it's my mood that determines what will help me get off. Sometimes I'll watch porn, sometimes read stories, or other times just fantasize.
You're very welcome....it's such an amazing joy to have someone get something also from your own experience.....enjoy, for it is truly a joy!Quote:
Originally Posted by querty
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Originally Posted by Bighead
This is the best way to get enough pressure to jerk the semen wide and a lot. I found it very hot, when we had sex in a group (swingerclub) when the cumshots came with such a pressure out of the cocks, that even the face of another girl or man, lying beneath the group, but not directly concerned with the group got the jizz into their faces as well. But they liked it.
Also very hot, if you want to spray the cum into someones face and the more the face is wet, the hotter.
cumposer
My big fantasy is a three-way with my wfe and another guy. I'd luv to watch my wfe with another guy. I'd lick her puss while he fucks her from behind. After he's cum in her puss I'd lick his cock clean then proceed to lick his cum out of her puss. While I'm licking his cum from her puss he'd be hard again and fuck me in the ass. Thats my biggest fantasy I wish would happen for real. But don't think it'll ever happen. Other then that I usually think about oral and anal with another guy which I'd be on the recieving end. Doing it with another guy would be a possabllity one day I hope.
Too many different things. Crossdressing fantasies where I'm dominated by bigger tops, with big dicks, especially gangbangs and especially black guys.
I love women who smoke, and usually I'm the dominant one in those fantasies.
Some fantasies are impossible, like scifi oriented "vore"/vampire women/men type stuff. Too many to name.
Ha ha ha ha ..... wow, for a second there I really thought, "Habitat for Humanity?? That's odd..."Quote:
Originally Posted by someotherguy
And for a woman's strange perspective (read my profile or posts), I fantasize that I'm a guy - pretty much all the time. Every now and then a hetero fantasy might sneak in, but hey even after a good Johnny Depp movie, it's still Johnny boy sucking a cock in my head, not a clit. So yeah, I have a vibrator that's curved in a way enough so that if I stroke it up and down it can very easily feel like a cock in my head, so I go with that. Sometimes it involves a "quickie" in which I'm a "straight" man getting sucked off and sometimes it is my lover (if I had one) and of course that is better because it is slower and more imaginative.
Anyhow from the Far Side, that's my :2cents:
I would have to say that most of my masterbation fantasies revolve around sucking guys cocks. Sometimes my wife is involved or watching and sometimes not but the man to man sex seems to be a predominent theme for me. Rarely when I have seen a really hot woman that day I find myself thinking of her when I do it but again that is more the rarity. I love thinking about sucking guys off it gets me hotter than anything.
i fantasize about things that i have already done like ride a big cock while bein sucked off by one of the wives :tong:
It has changed over time:
-Started thinking about sex with a beautiful woman
-Then it became sex in a group atmosphere (sometimes just women, othertimes men and women participating with both)
-Currently, its all about sex with a man (both giving and receiving)
I think about being dressed in a nice black dress, black stockings, and heels....I am giving head, while getting stroked under the dress......
It depends on what I am watching as it pertains to porn, gay men or lesbians. If it is gay men I am watching, then it is about sucking their cocks. If it is lesbians it is about licking their pussys. If I am on web cam than it is to please the one watching.
I love to write, so when I masturbate, I just write something totally sexually explicit, and read it. I usually write all Lesbian, but sometimes I keep it straight. Very Rarely.
sometimes words can be the most powerful porn.
My favorite fantasy involves a neighbor in my building. He is a compact, toned Eastern European man with sparkling eyes. He is in his mid 30s to early 40s. Frequently, he smokes a cigarette on the back balcony wearing only gym shorts in warm weather. I swear he once grabbed his crotch when I looked at him and said hello.
In my fantasy, he is out on that balcony, but I notice that their SUV is not in its spot. I say hello, and he does the same. I asked where the car is and he says his wife is out for the day somewhere and grabs his crotch and I can see the start of his erection.
He is a very handy man and recently redid his entire kitchen. I ask about it and he invites me up to see it. I gladly accept and as he is showing me around he moves close so I can feel his erection against my leg. I move and put my hand behind me. Again, he moves in and this time, the erection is against my hand. I begin to gently stroke it and he whispers... "I see you looking at this... You are cocksucker, yes? I want you should suck me now"
And from there, I will leave it to your imagination.
i usually think of someone i've been talking to and am attracted too....or a fave celeb of mine.