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And was it something you didn?t know for sure until you had an actual sexual experience with someone of the same sex? Do you feel someone can truly be bi without the experience first? I?ve been curious for years through cybering and such and I?ve decided that until I really put myself out there with apps or boards like this that I won?t really know until I do, but the interest is definitely there.
thoughts and or advice are welcome, but I?d love to hear your stories
Honestly? It wasn't until I learned the word "bisexual" that I knew I was... but I'd been happily having sex with boys and girls for a whole three years before accidentally finding the word in the library's dictionary. I was nine when I got started, didn't find the word until I was 12 and, oh - that's what I've been doing! And I was very much okay with it all of it. But I grew up with this. Can someone be bi without the sex? Yes - and a lot of people are because it's not all about what you do but how you're thinking and feeling. There's a... compulsion to have the sex that I've never been able to make sense out of except to know that it just shows up. A lot of men and women don't feel that they're really bisexual until they have the sex and doing so validates what's on their mind and how they're feeling about this.
Yep - you will not ever know until you actually get around to doing it. Everyone here who has taken the plunge can tell you what it was like for them and that's fine... but it doesn't become... really real until you do it and find out for yourself. I got tossed into it and, man, did I love the shit out of it and still do. But, again, I grew up with it and interacting with guys who are "late to the party" revealed the some of the same things you mentioned - and thank you for sharing this with us! It's... scary as fuck and more so if you start listening to and believing the horror stories, which are real but do not assume that your first time is going to be just another horror story... and you won't ever know if you never do anything and if you don't put yourself out there in some way, ditto.
I can tell you how glorious it was to suck a man's dick and taste his cum and then to feel his hard dick against my asshole and him cumming like that. That was my experience... and yours will be different but, again, you won't know unless you find out what it's going to be like for you. Now you have a choice and it's not an easy one to make but be assured that a lot of guys decide to go for it... and they don't regret it one bit and even wonder why it took them so long to do it and what were they afraid of.
I can remember when I was in 6th grade looking at my High School aged step brother's dirty magazine that I liked looking at the naked men's cocks. By 8th grade I was considering myself bi or bi curious. In my 20's I knew I was bi and in my mid 30's I had a 3 way with a gay couple oral only with condoms. I'm in my early 50's now and really have a strong desire to find a fwb situation. I haven't been with a guy since the 3some. I watch mostly gay porn these days desiring cock, I still find women attractive though.
I realized I was Bi when I stopped looking for guys to suck because of my wife and instead did it for myself. I used to say "it is ok as long as she likes to talk about it and plan for it." but then I started liking it for myself.
I'd like to meet someone for a semi long term relationship to please myself and my lover, instead of pleasing my wife.
When I first started playing with guys, I wouldn't say I was "bi", I would say I was just cumming. I would meet up and get my dick sucked every few years. It wasn't until last year that I truly wanted to do more with guys. I want to get between a guy's legs and worship his cock and then have him fuck me. The difficult part is finding a guy that has what I'm looking for. When I find the right, I'll try sucking him like he has the Hope Diamond in his ball and let him fuck me like he's trying to bury it. I'll give it the college try.
Right now I think that I may only be interested in guys for a few reasons:
1. The sneaking around behind my wife's back.
2. The taboo of two guys pleasuring each other.
3. The risk of getting caught.
It was similar when I would cheat on my wife with other women:
1. Sneaking around behind my wife's back.
2. The risk of getting another woman pregnant.
3. The risk of getting caught.
I first came to understand my bisexuality after developing a boy crush on my best friend at age 16. We had enjoyed some mutual JO that progressed to mutual oral during weekend sleepovers. A month or so later I was at a junior high school track meet and started to notice how hot so many of the boys looked and the beautiful way their muscles ripped as they walked. I realized I could enjoy the beauty of both male and female bodies and found that good sex with either was very satisfying to me. I was discrete about my tastes, it being the middle 1970's but I never had any mental conflict because of it/
I stared having sex with boys at 13 Loves sucking When I was 18 I fucked my first girl loved it came back the next day and fucked her 3 times
first cock I sucked was when involved in a 3 some, he was curious and she wanted to watch him. figured since he he enjoyed it so much wanted to try and also enjoyed. had a great relationship for several years until they moved away
My first live-in GF left me in 1970. I was 20, and she eight or nine years older. She taught me a lot!
She enjoyed sucking my cock other than if I came before she got off my face it was usually the end of a session.
I was devastated when she left for a better ride.
She (or he?) left behind a few pornographic, plain cover, paperback novels that were old then. The one I liked the most was about three bank robbers driving to get across the state line. That in itself wasn't well written, but they were having a lot of graphic straight sex along the way. Well into the book these 'manly tuff-guys' picked up an effeminate guy. More and more I'd cum during this part of the book.
I realized I wanted to suck cock, (there was no anal in the book, and she and I hadn't done it.)
I didn't know there was a category for those who went both ways. The attitude of the time was if man sucked a one cock he was a queer, faggot...
Sometime after, I got to experience it. Like her I swallowed. It was OK. The second time, after getting over the social attitude thing of what I'd become in my mind and missed a few opportunities, it was WOW!!
I now consider myself Bi from the time cock sucking first turned me on. I haven't been with a man in years, but I'm still Bi.
I didn’t know what Bi was until I heard the word later in my late teens. I just thought I liked something that I had to keep secret. At 8, I started sucking older mens cocks that I’d send in the mens shower room at the public pool. I knew I liked girls and was curious about how they looked between their legs. The guy next door to us had a swimming pool and would let me swim in it. He had a daughter that I liked. One day when his wife and daughter were out shopping, we were swimming in his pool and he said it was okay for us to swim nude. I had already been sucking cocks for several years, so I knew what to expect, but when he pulled his trunks off, his cocked was massive. He said to take my trunks off and I did, but I was had from looking at his cock. He walked closer and said you must really like my cock and if I wanted to suck it. I started to suck him and he came so fast, it was all I could do to swallow his load. I blew him often after that, in his car, in his bedroom, in his garage and in his pool house. One day when I was swimming with his daughter he came out and said he and his wife would be at the mall for a couple of hours. A few minutes after they left, his daughter got out of the pool and went into the pool room. I heard her calling for me to come in, so I got out of the pool and walked in. She was totally naked and my cock went rock hard. She had her feet up on the bench and her legs spread, I finally knew what girls looked like between their legs. She said was laughing and send to come closer and when I did, she pulled my trunks down. She took me in her mouth and started sucking and then she stopped and asked if I liked her pussy, I said I did, she asked if I had ever licked a girls pussy and I lied and said yes. I went down on her and licked nail she was so wet and finally came. She said I was good and returned to sucking me off. About a couple months later, she said she knew I liked to suck her dads cock, that she had scene us on several occasions. She also admitted that she sucked her dad often. I now knew I liked pussy and cocks. I didn’t know I was Bi, just that I like oral sex with both sexes.
when i did my first 3 some and got fucked in the ass and the his wife got us to 69 and let her watch
I started having sex with men at 11-12.. then in high school I was introduced to girls by my football coaches wife.. she also told all the hot girls in school about me.. so high school was a lot of fun.. I spent quite a few years flip flopping back and forth between men and woman., I was ok with both.. I knew that I really liked having sex with both just didn’t know it was called bisexual until much later when I heard the word..
The first time I sucked cock. I was very nervous, but at some point when I was sucking him I realized I was hard, since then I’ve enjoyed being bi
I recognized my bisexuality several years ago when I realized that porn did not excite me unless there was a handsome cock involved.
? currently, whenever a female is enjoying all the pleasures that a hard cock can provide, I fantasize that I am her, not him.
Iwas 6 or 7 when I started sucking guys. We would mutually msuck each other, and I thought it felt so good, so I kept it up with different guys. It brought me the pleasure and intimacy I was missing in my life. I swapped sucking with guys until about 16, when I first swallowed cum. Loved it.
But also started fuckling girls at 14 an d also loved pussy. It wasn't that I thought of myself as "bisexual" just that I loved the intimacy with anyone. I pretty much just drifted into hetero sex exclusively, except for some brief times in my 30's when sucked and was sucked, but aids scared me off. For me, it was all a matter of feeling intimate, and when wife completely shut down about 10 years ago, after no sex for 3 years, I decided to try bisexual again. Loved it. Brought me the intimacy I craved so much again. Well over 100+ guys now and one woman....7 years later, and swallowed hundreds of loads of cum. Really love it. Also loved eating pussy again, all sex is still great.
Came out to everyone in family and my wife also, and glad I did, it is who I truly am. Wife just took me back in and really likes to get on me about being fucked in ass, which is okay, but my sucking is what I really like most. I could easily swallow several loads of cum a day.
Strange living with wife again. We are getting divorced, but if I still had guys regularly on the side, I could stay with her, but it be hard for her in her totally unsexual way, so not sure. I would like to have her watch me suck a guy and see if she could get off on it, but not sure it could ever happen. There, of course, other issues between us other than zero sex, so I don't know. Still, I am really glad to be open about being bisexual, and will see what future holds. Of course, all this talk is making me really horny to suck right now, but temporarily trapped at home. Just got back from 4 months in Ecuador alone, and really clearly learned about myself and my sexual feelings.
Looking forward to more bi sex regardless of how marriage goes.
Grant
I can't say that I truly knew that I was bi until I sucked my friend's dad's cock and he complimented me on what a "good little cocksucker" I was. The first time a man calls you a cocksucker, and you indeed have his cock in your mouth, you pretty much know. My bisexuality was affirmed the next day when he fucked me and made me cum hands-free. I knew I liked girls, but I also knew I enjoyed sex with a man.
That said, I had been "curious" since the age of 9 when I watched a guy suck off another guy while riding my bike on the trails at a regional park that was near my house. It was late afternoon on a typical summer day. I was riding on the back trails which went through a small oak grove. After having made it up the hill, I stopped to catch my breath. That's when I heard what sounded like two guys talking. I knew there was a picnic table just down and off the path a ways, so, for some reason, I laid my bike down and crept through the brush until I could see them. At first I thought the one guy was kneeling to tie the other guy's shoe. Then I noticed that the kneeling guy's head was bobbing, and that the other guy was gripping the table with both hands and was leaning with his head back, and that his shorts were pulled down to his knees.
I still didn't fully grasp what was going on until I moved around to the side. That's when I saw that the guy who was kneeling had the other man's cock in his mouth. Once I realized what was happening, I stood as quietly and watched until the man who was standing let out a low grunt and came in the other guy's mouth. A minute later the guy giving the blowjob got up, wiped his mouth with the back of his hand, and walked back to the trail. The other guy stood there for a few minutes, presumably so as not to be too obvious, before he also left toward the trail.
That night, a friend of mine came over to spend the night and I told him what I'd seen. I don't think he believed me, but he said that must have been gross to watch. I remember telling him, "Man, I didn't think guys did that kind of thing."
Little did I know that less than five years later, I would be given the opportunity to suck my first cock and swallow my first load.
the first time i gave in and sucked a cock, as soon as he cam in my mouth i knew i was bi
I suspected I was bi when I would see my cousin's cock while we jerked together. The first time he let me suck it and fed me his cum I knew beyond any doubt that I absolutely loved sucking cock and eating cum. Soon after I realized I must be bi, because I was still attracted to females, but would suck a cock in a heartbeat, and I remain that way to this day.
I long as I can remember, I have had crushes on both girls and boys. When I was in 7th grade, we had detailed sex education and that is when I learned the term bisexual. I knew that applied to me, because my desires back then were pretty much evenly divided, although I did have a bit more luck playing with guys in those early years than I did with girls. I did not have to do anything sexual to create that bisexual aha moment - it was just always there without being named. Now in my 50s, I still feel the same way as I did when I was 12.
When my neighbor got a hard on while watching me take a piss ��
When I saw porn mags and wanted to try sucking cock, I was 11
I just always was, no realization, it was just something about me
Same with me... I had urges and just went with them.... I do enjoy being bi and enjoying what both men and women have to offer and enjoy.
Before I realized I was bi, on a conceptual level, bisexuality just made more sense to me than being gay, or maybe even straight. Why not be able to have sexual encounters with both sexes?
But I considered myself to be "straight," until I had a couple of encounters.
I had a gay friend that had been pursuing me for several years. One Friday night, we made arrangements for him to come to my apartment, and prepare dinner for us both, and stay the night. We got drunk and stoned, and since there was no place else for him to sleep, we ended up in bed together. I was wearing underwear that I knew aroused him sexually.
In very short order, he slid the briefs off of me and proceeded to suck my cock. I didn't resist at all, but at first felt somewhat conflicted by what was happening. But that didn't last long and he sucked me to completion. He woke up in the middle of the night, and sucked me off again. We spoke up in the morning, and he sucked me off a third time.
I didn't reciprocate at all, and he left without us discussing anything.
Since I was still not completely at ease with everything that happened that night, I called a women I was seeing casually and invited her out to dinner that Saturday night. It was basically a ruse to get her back to my apartment to fuck her.
So, it worked, and she came back to my place, and I fucker her that night, and again Sunday morning. All in all a pretty nice weekend.
So, I was now at ease with being bisexual. I invited my gay friend back a few days later to my apartment for the same routine as the first night. But this time, I planned on sucking his cock when we went to bed for the evening.
This time I initiated things, and proceeded to give my fist blow job. When I as finished, he complimented me of my ability, and then he initiated a little "talk."
It was basically, "so you're not straight." I was certainly fine with that at that point, and we continued to have sex together for the next few years......
Most all my heterosexual acts included lots of oral sex. I trained my girlfriends how I liked getting my cock sucked. Lots of porn was involved, blowjobs and cunnilingue but I drifted to MMF porn and foound myself enjoying the oral scenes between men. I started practicing with a 6 inch realistic cock dildo and then moved up to an 8 incher, pretending I was giving blowjobs and tamed my gag reflez. Finally I decided to try a guy out and see if I could get a man off by sucking his dick. I was hanging out a a nearby lake and a nice looking guy asked if he could sit with me. I was shirtless, getting some sun and his shirt was open to his navel and he had long curly hair. Wofey was out of town and Iinvidted him back to my house to watch some porn. I put on a MMF vid and we both started playing with our cocks sitting next to each other on the couch. He lened over and started sucking my dick while I ran my fingers through his hair. and then pulled his head up so I could go down on him. He had a nice 7 inch cock with a curve in it and it slid down my throat wioth ease and it felt so good sucking him balls deep. I treated him to a blowjob like I trained my girs to do me and he erupted with several spurts and warmm salty cum. I swallowd some and spiot out the rest into a naplin but I was hooked on giving special men head from then on and I made sure I swallwed on the first date. !
I am new to bi sex but I still love pussy. The site of a nice cock me me hard too. I am going to try my Bi side soon I hope.
I have been curious for many years as yourself, but guess the real test will be to have an actual experience. I think about what it would be like and want to put myself out there to have such an experience. Feel bi feelings are very natural part of being human.
I was led down the path to bisexuality by my bisexual 2nd wife. We lived together for almost 6 years before we got married and during that time we had several threesomes with guys and girls. A few days after a particularly hot all-nighter with a guy, my wife, Jean, brought up the subject of seeing him again. That led to discussing some of the more erotic moments of that encounter and at some point I told her how hot and erotic it was watching her suck his cock. She said, "You think that's hot to watch, you should try doing it. Sucking cock is a whole lot more fun than watching." "I dunno, he probably wouldn't be into it if I just started doing it." She replied, "He might. I could ask and find out if you want.". As it turned out, we did get together with him again but she never got the chance to talk to him about it, and I chickened out about just doing it. We moved away from our hometown, to a large city a couple of months later and it was almost 2 years before I got my chance to prove her theory. She was absolutely right, it was a lot more to suck cock than to watch someone else have all the fun.
At a swinging party many years ago when I realised the person giving me a BJ was a guy .................. my GF at the time just smiled when I looked at her and then sat on my face
At some point watching porn a few years back I realized I was just as interested in the cock and cum as I was the woman's hole the cock was cumming in.