I've always been monogamous. Never cheated! Because I never really wanted to, and I was only acting on my hetro side at the times.lol
But since I've been in the world of gay sex, I've been swayed to wanting an open relationship.
Not because I want both m&f at the same time or screw around like I'm single. But because I've met and chatted to some really fucked up jealous, paranoid, needy, insecure pieces of work on my travels.
They want OWNERSHIP of you! They want you to be their everything forever. They try to pin their reasons to believe in life&love etc etc on you, and if you FAIL THEM they are destroyed.
That's not love IMO! You can't own or confine somebody you love. And confining somebody from experiencing their own desires and self exploration in this very short life is not an act of love! It's pure childish spite!
It's not a 'gay thing' or even a 'male thing'! It's just that it's way more obvious with males IMO (not ALL males!).
I think the only way to protect myself from all that crap is to find somebody who wants an open relationship. I've been very impressed with those in open relationships so far. They seem to have their heads on the right way and know a little more about love than most others.
So what do you say? Open or closed? And why?
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