Stages of Cock Sucking Addiction. Curious what others think

[Rest85]

I found a site while surfing the net, Googling different things that I was curious about. This site lays out a path that they profess many cocksuckers take to become addicted to it. I know they are in this for the money. That aside, I'd like opinions.

I wonder what others think of this. I think it's entirely possible, even likely that many guys who like being no recip, submissive cocksuckers may have started out this way. I certainly find that viewing cock sucking porn always makes me crave it more, however, I had the desire to, and started sucking cocks before I ever spent appreciable amount of time viewing porn, so this path of transition to becoming an addicted cocksucker doesn't really apply to me. I had the interest come to me naturally and I developed a love for it by trying it, liking it, and going back for more. No different than desiring pussy and becoming hooked on it, my opinion.

Does anyone feel like this is how they came to love sucking cock? I'll attach a link at the end of this post.



Cock sucking addiction can sneak in and take over a life in the blink of an orgasm.

The addiction to sucking cock starts off innocuously enough, with simple porn.

Modern pornography is produced to be appealing to its audience: men. And what are most men obsessed with? Their own cocks. So of course there?s going to be lots of long, lingering shots of cocks. Cocks in mouths, cocks in pussies and asses, cocks shooting all over a pretty face. Cocks everywhere, up close, disembodied so you can imagine yourself (or anyone, really,) in control of that cock.
The disembodied cocks showcased in porn backfire, however, because most men don?t wind up picturing themselves as the owner of that magnificent cock.

The cocks are too big, too perfect, to thick and hard and they last far too long to be an ?average? cock. So average men don?t identify with them, and wind up, instead, identifying with the person on their knees. Cocksucking addiction and cocksucking fetishes start with porn, and go on to daydreams and fantasies.
If I were looking to train you to be a cocksucker, I?d set up exactly that situation.

You?d be watching lots of porn that featured cocksucking, jerking off the whole time. You?d only be allowed to orgasm when that load hits the face of the cocksucker in the video. Opperant conditioning is a glorious thing, and when tied to the stages of addiction, well.
The stages of a cocksucking addiction are:

1. An exposure to cocksucking.
2. The linking of pleasure to the idea of cocksucking.
3. The formation of independent fantasies about cocksucking.
4. A dependence on fantasies about cocksucking to achieve orgasm.

From there, it?s only a matter of time before the cocksucking addict acts on their fantasies and becomes a real cocksucker.
Once a cocksucker has taken that final step, I?m afraid there?s just no cure. Kneel down even once in front of a real man and suck the jizz from his dick and you?re permanently branded a cocksucker. From then on, you will crave the humiliation and ecstasy of sucking cock, and it all started with watching porn.

Here's the link to the site: The Stages of Cock Sucking Addiction - Fetish Phone Sex Blog - brought to you by LDW Group

[Long Duck Dong]

Sounds like modern thinking and logic, to be honest...... what I mean is that its become a common theme to blame porn and access to porn for most things such as the way guys have sex, the expectations of females etc etc etc.......and people that have a issue with porn, will just agree....

Yet I also agree with you, for many of us, it never started with porn at all, but experimentation and enjoyment.....tho in later life, the easy access to porn may have contributed to refining our understanding, awareness and interests.....

Also the article refers to its audience as being men, lol... if it was not such a male positive article, I would have almost thought it was written by a feminist.....

[cornholejoe]

i like to suck cock but i also liked my cock sucked but i dont crave it but dont turn it down either

[Grant_Norman]

Yes. It is an addiction. I really can't pass any opportunity to suck a clean cock. Yes, I prefer older guys, medium size, heavy cummers, but any ae size, cum non cum, whatever will work. Eating puss can also be just as addicting, but I feel the cocks in my mouth is sometimes nicer. And yes, the addiction has only grown over the years where now I crave several a day. Always.

Grant

[atxbi]

I didn’t become addicted until I swallowed my first load. I had sucked a few cocks here and there and it was fun and all, but then I decided that I needed to swallow a load to get the total experience under my belt. Once I got that first load, I was hooked. I don’t think I will ever stop looking for new cocks to suck and load to swallow.

[Rest85]

I didn?t become addicted until I swallowed my first load. I had sucked a few cocks here and there and it was fun and all, but then I decided that I needed to swallow a load to get the total experience under my belt. Once I got that first load, I was hooked. I don?t think I will ever stop looking for new cocks to suck and load to swallow.

Absolutely. I have swallowed from the very first time so I don't really know what it's like to suck dick without the anticipation of having him cum in my mouth. I want it...and I want him to expect me to. I want him to know that he doesn't have to hesitate or think about where to cum.

To the point of whether the craving for cock and cum is driven by porn, I can see that it could definitely have an influence. It just wasn't the case for me. Even though I didn't suck my first till I was 29, I can't remember a time when I wasn't open to it it I knew I could trust the guy not to tell, and everyone I know thinks I'm totally straight.

[yessirtiresflat]

How explain inveterate cocksuckers before Guttenberg?

[Tag200]

Haven’t done it enough to say it’s addicting, but said after I tired never again and there was Ana again and still interested in it…

[KDaddy23]

Not sure how that works for cocksuckers who never got exposed to porn, i.e., guys like me who started young and the only porn we could’ve been exposed to was those infamous dirty books… that had no visuals. Still, you found out about it, we’re curious enough to try it, and you either found it to your liking or not. If so, you can’t seem to get enough of sucking a dick. Is it truly an addiction? Probably feels like it, huh? Humiliation? It can be but not as a matter of course and I question that because not all cocksucking has anything to do with humiliation, shaming, etc..

[Cum1st]

I was inspired by my first live in GF. When she left I had a dry spell.

She left behind some pornographic novels. (Porn was illegal then.) I found myself turned on by the idea of giving head.

When an opportunity came along I went for it. I wasn't repulsed by it, but society's no no's weighted heavy on me.

Fast forward a few years: I was married. My wife was ever as good at it as the x GF. One dark, chilly, rainy evening I stopped in a new ABS - the first in the area. I was looking for some fresh, likely str8 porn.

It was dark in the store too with just the clerk and I there. Eventually I discovered the booths. It was beyond belief that I could jerk off in a personal cubical while watching my choice of porn. I quickly got going at it.

Soon the curtain opened and the clerk appeared with his hard cock next to my face. Then there was that pivotal question: Wanna sip? Before long I was swallowing his cum. He scurried back to his post while I realized I was hooked.

[licyou69]

The combination of things that led to my fascination with having a cock in my mouth is probably pretty complicated, but porn I'm sure played a part in it. However, an "addiction" to me plays more into receiving pleasure stimulus from performing the act itself, as opposed to watching others. I don't imagine alcoholics take too much pleasure and watching someone else drink.

[SuckerMC]

My appreciation for another man's cock started for me when I began to watch shemale porn in my 20's. Trans girls are very sexy ladies and those who can still get hard have gorgeous cocks. Before I joined this forum I was on a shemale forum. There was a common question that would be asked "If you could suck shemale cock could you suck a man's cock" and my answer was "Why not?". So then I found this forum so I could explore that feeling and this site has been manly the primary forum I log onto the most. I am not addicted to sucking cock, although I very much want to try it and see how much I would like it and how addictng it would be, so I can not say I am addicteed to cocksucking but I do love looking at cocks and love reading about those who are cocksuckers and their cocksucking stories.

I have been been very sexually minded since a young age. And so reading about sexuality and looking at sexuality has been a big part of my life.

[tommyswing]

I didn;t become addiction till I sucked my first cock. At one point I visiting glory holes 3-4 times per week, and sucking 3-4 cocks a night. It naturally began to tapper off over time.

[Chester1954]

My addiction started looking at porn of cocks being sucked
Watching men jack off through a glory hole
getting sucked through a glory hole
sucking a cock through a glory hole

[dicktrobing]

I found a site while surfing the net, Googling different things that I was curious about. This site lays out a path that they profess many cocksuckers take to become addicted to it. I know they are in this for the money. That aside, I'd like opinions.

I wonder what others think of this. I think it's entirely possible, even likely that many guys who like being no recip, submissive cocksuckers may have started out this way. I certainly find that viewing cock sucking porn always makes me crave it more, however, I had the desire to, and started sucking cocks before I ever spent appreciable amount of time viewing porn, so this path of transition to becoming an addicted cocksucker doesn't really apply to me. I had the interest come to me naturally and I developed a love for it by trying it, liking it, and going back for more. No different than desiring pussy and becoming hooked on it, my opinion.

Does anyone feel like this is how they came to love sucking cock? I'll attach a link at the end of this post.



Cock sucking addiction can sneak in and take over a life in the blink of an orgasm.

The addiction to sucking cock starts off innocuously enough, with simple porn.

Modern pornography is produced to be appealing to its audience: men. And what are most men obsessed with? Their own cocks. So of course there?s going to be lots of long, lingering shots of cocks. Cocks in mouths, cocks in pussies and asses, cocks shooting all over a pretty face. Cocks everywhere, up close, disembodied so you can imagine yourself (or anyone, really,) in control of that cock.
The disembodied cocks showcased in porn backfire, however, because most men don?t wind up picturing themselves as the owner of that magnificent cock.

The cocks are too big, too perfect, to thick and hard and they last far too long to be an ?average? cock. So average men don?t identify with them, and wind up, instead, identifying with the person on their knees. Cocksucking addiction and cocksucking fetishes start with porn, and go on to daydreams and fantasies.
If I were looking to train you to be a cocksucker, I?d set up exactly that situation.

You?d be watching lots of porn that featured cocksucking, jerking off the whole time. You?d only be allowed to orgasm when that load hits the face of the cocksucker in the video. Opperant conditioning is a glorious thing, and when tied to the stages of addiction, well.
The stages of a cocksucking addiction are:

1. An exposure to cocksucking.
2. The linking of pleasure to the idea of cocksucking.
3. The formation of independent fantasies about cocksucking.
4. A dependence on fantasies about cocksucking to achieve orgasm.

From there, it?s only a matter of time before the cocksucking addict acts on their fantasies and becomes a real cocksucker.
Once a cocksucker has taken that final step, I?m afraid there?s just no cure. Kneel down even once in front of a real man and suck the jizz from his dick and you?re permanently branded a cocksucker. From then on, you will crave the humiliation and ecstasy of sucking cock, and it all started with watching porn.

Here's the link to the site: The Stages of Cock Sucking Addiction - Fetish Phone Sex Blog - brought to you by LDW Group

I'm not going to over think this, I chose to explore sex with other guys because I wanted to try it, giving a guy a BJ seemed quite natural to me just like eating pussy

[papasmurph]

I might be addicted to sucking cock, but it didn't happen the way this progression explained. I had been curious for a long time, and had jerked off thinking about guys, but I didn't have access to porn back then... one night of drinking with a bunch of friends, and on the way home my friend made a pass at me in the car. I let him. Later that night, I was sucking his magnificent dick. I will never forget the velvety texture of his cock head - and the taste of his cum in my mouth. I was instantly addicted and instantly knew it was the most comfortable sex act I'd ever performed.
When I moved to a larger city and discovered cruising, I could not get enough of it. I went there all the time and I sucked so many cocks I lost count. Might be addicted. Another word for it is that it is my pleasure. I enjoy it

[kneelsoften]

Thanks for sharing your story.The I also found that swallowing to be a lift changing experience, almost as profound as sucking itself.

[Jozyxt]

Thanks for sharing your story.The I also found that swallowing to be a lift changing experience, almost as profound as sucking itself.

They happened at different times for me too. And yes, they were both life changing. As much as when I actauly ejaculated cum for the first time. I know something had permanently changes in my life.

[jjourneyman]

My experience was something very different, but yes, it can become an addiction.

My first "exposure" to MM oral sex occurred when I was quite young (eight years old) and I was riding my bike on some park trails near my house. It was there that, from a short distance, I watched as a guy sucked another man's cock to completion. It wasn't porn, but a real life experience that planted the seed that it might be pleasurable to let another guy suck my cock, or to suck another guy.

Over the next several years, I found myself increasingly curious as to what it would be like to actually perform oral sex on another guy. Those thoughts led to elaborate fantasies (and frequent masturbation) as to how would it would be to really suck cock.

Then, some six years later, at the ripe old age of 14, I finally got my chance and just went for it. It was everything I thought it would be and more! The first time you experience it for yourself, it is a surreal experience. There I was standing in chest high water in my friend's pool bobbing my head up and down his stepdad's hard penis. After sucking him poolside for several minutes, we retreated to their house where I was instructed to get on my knees so I could "finish what I'd started." I guess reality didn't really hit home until I felt the first spurt of cum splash into the back of my mouth. It was then that I indeed realized I was a cocksucker.

[Rest85]

My experience was something very different, but yes, it can become an addiction.

My first "exposure" to MM oral sex occurred when I was quite young (eight years old) and I was riding my bike on some park trails near my house. It was there that, from a short distance, I watched as a guy sucked another man's cock to completion. It wasn't porn, but a real life experience that planted the seed that it might be pleasurable to let another guy suck my cock, or to suck another guy.

Over the next several years, I found myself increasingly curious as to what it would be like to actually perform oral sex on another guy. Those thoughts led to elaborate fantasies (and frequent masturbation) as to how would it would be to really suck cock.

Then, some six years later, at the ripe old age of 14, I finally got my chance and just went for it. It was everything I thought it would be and more! The first time you experience it for yourself, it is a surreal experience. There I was standing in chest high water in my friend's pool bobbing my head up and down his stepdad's hard penis. After sucking him poolside for several minutes, we retreated to their house where I was instructed to get on my knees so I could "finish what I'd started." I guess reality didn't really hit home until I felt the first spurt of cum splash into the back of my mouth. It was then that I indeed realized I was a cocksucker.

That is so dangerous for the stepdad, but I wish I would have been introduced to sucking cock by an older guy like that. That's a very hot story!

[Fzmr9t]

For me, at first it was a curiosity (in my mid 40s) and because a lust (not really an obsession since I don?t crave it 24/7 and nude guys don?t necessarily turn me on. For me, it?s more of a mutual pleasure thing

[phalluster]

My first encounter was when I was 14. I went to the bathroom at a department store near me and there was a gloryhole in the mens room. It was hard not to look through the hole and when I did there was a guy sitting on the toilet with his cock exposed and erect. Next thing I know that guy sticks a finger through the hole. I had no idea what that meant and didn’t do anything. He starts whispering through the hole for me to stick my dick in so he could suck it for me. I had never had any kid of sex at that point, other than with myself. I was afraid, but also super aroused and stood up, dropped my pants and stuck my adolescent dick through the hole. He immediately wrapped his lips around it – I can still feel the warmth of his hot mouth on my cock right now. He sucked me for just a few minutes, I was about to blow and said something and started to pull away, but he clamped down on my cock with his lips and didn’t let go. I came deep in his throat. I went back many times and always got my cock sucked, so I learned that there are men who love to suck cock.

Later I bought a Blueboy magazine at a place that sold it alongside Playboy and Penthouse. That was a revelation for me. I loved looking at cocks. I masturbated to that magazine so many times, just looking at cock. I still remember the voice in my head at those times – I thought that cock was so beautiful as I stared at the pages of the magazine. I almost was brought to tears I was so joyful when visually worshipping one cock in particular. I wanted to suck that cock right off the pages.

Still now as a married older adult I spend a lot of time fantasizing about sucking cock. So maybe my desire is driven by porn but I think it is simply a part of me.

[CockHummer]

I am confused by your presentation. You said at one point that you thought your cock craving started before porn was even in the picture, so I don't know why you bounce back to the question of whether porn is what gets us hooked on cock. I suspect this thing you read was written by someone young enough that porn has always been readily available for him, and he's just describing his own experience, presuming it applies to everyone. I started craving dick in my teens, several decades before homoerotic porn was even available to me, and the curious thing is that I don't find it erotically enticing at all to watch guys fucking. I don't even like to see guys' bodies in any sort of porn, straight, bi, or gay, or even trans. I like watching lesbian porn. As far as guys go and my homoerotic side, all I want to see of porn are still photos of really nice cocks. That really gets me going, but as much as I crave sucking cock, watching two guys do it to each other turns me off. I know. It's weird, but it doesn't hurt anything. But now that gay porn is so readily available online, of course there are plenty of guys who get just about hooked on it. I'm happy to be able to say I am truly more hooked on dick than I am on porn videos. It didn't take watching videos to have me linking pleasure to the idea of cocksucking, forming independent fantasies about cocksucking or developing something of a dependency on gay fantasies to cum, at least when by myself. My exposure to cocksucking, the only step that was different, was tied to being a horny teen and finding one summer that I was dying to get my best friend's pants down and his gorgeous dick in my mouth, when it just so happened that he was feeling the same way toward me, and we finally hooked up. In all honesty, having had that experience as what got me started, I find it hard to believe that porn can have anywhere near the power of actually having sex with someone and enjoying it incredibly when you do it. To me that just sounds silly.

The other thing that drives me crazy in any of this discussion is the business of humiliation that you bring up. There's also all this crap about guys who like to suck cock being sissies, and that is all really annoying and should have nothing to do with enjoying sex. I don't find it humiliating at all to plant myself between another guy's knees to suck his cock. What, is there something wrong or demeaning about getting a screaming erection and a very hard orgasm from sucking a dick? I don't see it that way, at all. I don't suck cock because I want to be another man's sex toy or slave or any of that bullshit. I suck cock because it turns me on extraordinarily to do it. I don't have any idea why, but erotically, I just love the feeling of an erect cock in my mouth. It makes me so horny it is amazing--it's got nothing to do with me wanting to service another guy. I like it when I find someone who gets off on cock as much as I do, and we suck each other off, and I have good reason to believe he is getting off on having my cock in his mouth every bit as much as I am getting off on having his in my mouth--feeling it with my lips, my tongue, my throat, and the roof of my mouth as the guy I am having sex with is trying to get off by fucking my mouth and similarly enjoying the feeling of having mine throbbing and swelling in his mouth. What, are we both supposed to be humiliated by that or something, or should I only feel humiliated when I'm sucking off a guy who doesn't really enjoy it the way I do, so he doesn't suck me back? I fucking feel sorry for a guy that can't appreciate how hot a cock really is. I don't feel like I am taking some subservient role to him. That's just absurd! Similarly, I am a big man, 6' 4'' and weighing well over 200 pounds, I don't get the sissy thing about enjoying cock sexually at all.

[KDaddy23]

@CockHummer, once upon a time, sucking cock was a way to humiliate guys who, usually, were said to be sissies and a way for “real men” to “teach a lesson” about how to be a man. Total bullshit but I knew guys who got off humiliating and emasculating other guys and to cover up their own homosexual behaviors. Not until more recent times had I heard about guys who enjoyed being humiliated and, well, to each his own. You toss in porn that puts humiliation on display and you get a kind of connection - but only if you get off being humiliated. Otherwise, there’s nothing humiliating about two guys sucking each other off.

We all have different reasons why we do it and our unique perceptions on how it makes us feel to do it, like the many guys who say that it makes them feel deliciously submissive. Those of us who suck cock have learned that once you do it, you can’t get enough of doing it so, yes, it’s addictive but, hopefully, never in a “negative” way, i.e., being careless and reckless about it. Still, back in the day, if you wanted to humiliate a guy, make him suck your dick and more so when you know he’s quite against such things. And if being humiliated gets one’s dick hard, okay… but know it’s not a “standard” of cocksucking etiquette.

[CockHummer]

Once upon a time, sucking cock was a way to humiliate guys who, usually, were said to be sissies and a way for “real men” to “teach a lesson” about how to be a man. Total bullshit but I knew guys who got off humiliating and emasculating other guys and to cover up their own homosexual behaviors.

It's still going on all over the place. I got into this discussion on Quora last winter, in response to this guy who claimed he was straight despite regularly having sex with other guys and reportedly enjoying it. He wanted to know how straight guys could enjoy sucking other guys' cocks. I simply walked him through the functional definition and use of the word bisexual and informed him that if he regularly enjoyed sex with people of both genders, then the definition fit him. I got a few positive comments but never heard back from him.

Then a couple of weeks ago out of nowhere I get yet another positive commentary on my remarks from some guy who had missed my simple point altogether. He came back informing me how much he agreed with me, and how he was just straight because he only liked abusing other guys and making them suck his cock and take it up the ass, and he'd rough them up like they deserved for playing the submissive role, "those damn sissies". He described idolizing some guy he was aware of who claimed to have brutally abused large numbers of men playing an abusive sexually dominant role like that and came up with some I can only hope absurd number, like his having so abused over 300 men in a year. Now, there's someone to idolize! Aside from him being someone who should not be allowed out in the streets, all I could think is, this guy's gotta be gay and just not dealing with it very well, at all, because it struck me as hard to believe, that while he was having abusive sex with over 300 men in a year, he was still finding time or motivation to enjoy sex with women as well.

Beyond that, considering the discussion that came to that pitiful end, it's amazing the number of guys who readily proclaim still, even in this day with so much greater acceptance of people's sexual differences, that they are absolutely straight, despite enjoying having even ordinary, enjoyable sex with other men on a regular basis.

[luvcock400]

For me sucking cock came in midlife with a shemale who I’d been fucking for quite some time.she always walked around her house nude and I could never stop looking at her beautiful cock so she offered it to me and after a few sessions I was hooked on her length girth her sperm was addictive to hell the entire experience from sucking her off every other day I still sex many women off and enjoy women but love to suck tranny and shemale cock all the time.it has tapered off some but there’s nothing like a thick dick to suck on I’m going to find a gloryhole soon n suck suck a man’s dick because I crave it so much