Cums and goes?anyone?

**coleb5791** · Jun 9, 2024, 2:20 PM

I?m a 53 year old straight but bicurious man. Every now and then I get into this ?heat? where I just want to hook up with guys left and right. Like right now I want to suck off a guy so bad that he blows a huge load in my mouth. Or even try getting fucked in the ass. It hits me for a few days, I jack off to gay porn and fantasies and then it just goes away snd I?m back to women.
Does this happen to anyone else?

**BackyardShaman** · Jun 9, 2024, 6:00 PM

Yes!! Often happens to me this way although I tend to more want to receive anal, but will suck cock and I’m good at it. I know exactly how you feel and I suspect a lot of guys feel this way.

**coleb5791** · Jun 9, 2024, 6:21 PM

Do you feel awkward afterwards? Are these random hookups or a regular? I’ve had opportunities but I chicken out. I get too nervous

**BackyardShaman** · Jun 9, 2024, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by coleb5791

Do you feel awkward afterwards? Are these random hookups or a regular? I?ve had opportunities but I chicken out. I get too nervous

. I was not active with guys for many years and never sucked a cock until I was 54, but had received anal and topped a few times when younger. I got pegged by a couple of women and got interested in bi 3 ways and transsexuals at some point and at 54 a friend talked me into letting him suck me off. I got with a few random hookups and it made me feel awkward, the first 3 times (different guys) I had a cock in my face I just froze up, I couldn?t do it. Then finally by hookup number 4 I just went for it and actually enjoyed it. I still felt awkward but it got less so and now I have 2 friends that are like me bi married and discreet that I occasionally get to see. Not awkward anymore, they both get sucked by me and both fuck me, one of them won?t bottom but one will. We?ve had a couple of 3 ways but usually it?s just two of us. So I went from random to 2 regulars. They also both suck me off one has a very wide round uncircumcised cock and the other has a longer skinnier dick that?s circumcised. I?m in between sized and circumcised.

**jjourneyman** · Jun 10, 2024, 1:05 AM

Originally Posted by coleb5791

I?m a 53 year old straight but bicurious man. Every now and then I get into this ?heat? where I just want to hook up with guys left and right. Like right now I want to suck off a guy so bad that he blows a huge load in my mouth. Or even try getting fucked in the ass. It hits me for a few days, I jack off to gay porn and fantasies and then it just goes away snd I?m back to women.
Does this happen to anyone else?

I think this is quite common with a lot of straight bi curious guys. I've been with my share. Some of the best bjs I've ever received were from guys wanting to explore their wilder side. It's all good though. When I was younger, I was usually on the receiving end and loved every minute of it.

**KDaddy23** · Jun 10, 2024, 1:53 AM

Yeah, the moment you jerk off, that usually kills that urge to have sex with a guy and it's back to women-only... until the next time this pops into your head. If I get it into my head that I want to suck a guy off, some guy is going to get sucked off even if I jerk off at some point; that jerking off thing is a mood-killer of the highest order so if you ever really want to go through with sucking a guy off, don't jerk off - go find a guy and give him da bizness!

**coleb5791** · Jun 10, 2024, 5:01 PM

Originally Posted by BackyardShaman

. I was not active with guys for many years and never sucked a cock until I was 54, but had received anal and topped a few times when younger. I got pegged by a couple of women and got interested in bi 3 ways and transsexuals at some point and at 54 a friend talked me into letting him suck me off. I got with a few random hookups and it made me feel awkward, the first 3 times (different guys) I had a cock in my face I just froze up, I couldn?t do it. Then finally by hookup number 4 I just went for it and actually enjoyed it. I still felt awkward but it got less so and now I have 2 friends that are like me bi married and discreet that I occasionally get to see. Not awkward anymore, they both get sucked by me and both fuck me, one of them won?t bottom but one will. We?ve had a couple of 3 ways but usually it?s just two of us. So I went from random to 2 regulars. They also both suck me off one has a very wide round uncircumcised cock and the other has a longer skinnier dick that?s circumcised. I?m in between sized and circumcised.

wow. That sounds awesome

**BackyardShaman** · Jun 10, 2024, 5:12 PM

It is awesome!!

**Rest85** · Jun 11, 2024, 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by KDaddy23

Yeah, the moment you jerk off, that usually kills that urge to have sex with a guy and it's back to women-only... until the next time this pops into your head. If I get it into my head that I want to suck a guy off, some guy is going to get sucked off even if I jerk off at some point; that jerking off thing is a mood-killer of the highest order so if you ever really want to go through with sucking a guy off, don't jerk off - go find a guy and give him da bizness!

Exactly, KDaddy.

Sometimes (rarely) I won't even be thinking about sucking a guy off...and I won't even really be horny. But, if I decide to watch some porn, no matter which sort of porn I start out with, I invariably end up watching cocksucking and cum swallow porn. Then I want to suck a cock so bad! If I don't follow through to jack off and cum, I'll be craving a cock until I do get off.
Then the desires ease until the next time..
When I get horny, I'll definitely take some pussy, but what really works for me at that point is a cock to suck. "go find a guy and give him de bizness" indeed!