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  1. #31

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I think hard cocks are beautiful, just like I find wet pussy beautiful. The smoothness of a hard cock feels so good in my mouth, the taste of precum and the feeling of another man’s passion as he fucks my mouth, I just love it! Then he cums and I feel so satisfied, swallowing ever drop.

  2. #32

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I've always loved doing it since I started at 13 I am 60 now and still enjoy it .
    I love the taste of a cock in my mouth ,sucking it as it gets hard in my mouth and when he cums that's the biggest turn on for me. I could do it all day.

  3. #33

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by jimkimball View Post
    I've always loved doing it since I started at 13 I am 60 now and still enjoy it .
    I love the taste of a cock in my mouth ,sucking it as it gets hard in my mouth and when he cums that's the biggest turn on for me. I could do it all day.
    I too love the sensation of having a cock grow in my mouth until it reaches full hardness, and then to know you're pleasuring it until you are rewarded with a big creamy load of cum. I also enjoy a great 69 session with a partner who enjoys sucking as much as I do. I recently hooked up with a guy from my cycling club. You have to love cycling shorts because it lets you check out everyone's package, and he has a very nice one... 9c with a big mushroom head! I've only had the opportunity to blow him twice, but... WOW! What a beautiful cock! And after the whole Covid drought, it's so nice to find a partner who appreciates a good cocksucker.

  4. #34

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Cause, if I can get him hard..
    And if I can make him horny enough to cum hard and get addicted to my mouth. He'll want it often and becum my FWB's, " I made a guy hard and horny for me!!!💯

  5. #35

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I started very young. I can remember jacking off in the bathroom at 4 or 5, I was obsessed with how good it felt. I wanted to suck myself, but bend enough to do it. I hadn’t really thought about sucking other cocks. At about 7 or 8, my mother bought a season pass to the public swimming pool in town. She would drop me off for half the day at the pool. I was so amazed at the sight of so many older mens big cocks and hairy balls. Now when I jacked off, I would imagine touching them and wondering what it would be like suck one of them. It was always on my mind. I finally got my chance when one man noticed I was looking at his cock for too long. There weren’t many guys around, he came over while I sat on a bench in the changing/shower room. He stood right in front of me and his cock brushed my face. I had my towel covering my cock, which had gotten hard looking at all the cocks in the room. He asked if I liked why I saw, my towel shifted and he sw my hard cock. He said I guess you did like it. He did to meet him outside. I went outside and waited for him, I was nervous, I didn’t know what to expect. He finally came out and said to follow him to his car. We got in and he slid his trunks down and got instantly hard. Instinctively I leaned over and started to suck his cock. I knew he liked it from the ounce and comments he was making. The, suddenly, he came in my mouth, I was so surprised, it tasted good and he said to swallow it, so I did. I was totally hooked from then on, all I wanted to do, was to suck cocks. I didn’t care if I got sucked or jacked off, I just wanted to feel guys cumming in my mouth. I think some guys are naturally born cocksuckers, I know I was. When I discovered pussy, it was the same thing, all I wanted to do was eat it. I got more pleasure getting others off, then jerking off later and licking up my cum.

  6. #36

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I am same way...sucking cock and swallowing cum is one of my very favorite sexual activities. I really can't get enough to suck. All other MM play is great too, but pleasing others is my ultimate. Eating pussy is the same way. Having them sit on my face and putting y tongue up their cunts is the greatest, especially as the rock on my face. Licking their clit ubtil they cum is amazing...love to feel them contract and even lose a little piss as they cum.

    Oral sex with M or F is the greatest and the fluids are all just great. Wish I was sucking a nice cock or eating pussy now, all day.

  7. #37

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    For me, I find it highly arousing to be sexually submissive, being used for another's pleasure. I can take of the role of dominant with men or women but when the roles are reversed, I have found submissive sex play to be the most intense for my sexual lusts. But why is this so? I can't answer that.

    Also, I like that sucking a cock is something I have to hide. The 'naughtiness' of sneaking and hiding to secretly pleasure another man's cock and let him cum in my mouth is a powerful turn-on. I love the feel of a hard dick and I love the sensations of sucking it, feeling it grow rock hard and spurt warm, thick cum in my mouth. Why is that so? I don't know that either. All I can say is at some point I had a curiosity about sucking cocks and I entertained those thoughts to the point that I found myself, for a long time, wanting to actually try it. I was openminded about sex, so when I had the opportunity, I did it, and I found that I liked it...a LOT!

    I imagine if more people would allow themselves to act out their hidden fantasies, many of us would wonder what drives us to like doing a particular thing. We might never find an answer to those questions, but as long as it's something that brings pleasure for consenting adults and there's no harm done, why not?

  8. #38

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Excluding fucking, if you're sucking dick and don't have the desire and feeling that rush of pleasure when he cums in your mouth, uh, why are you sucking dick? Sure - most of us look at cum as the reward for our hard work but it is so deliciously nasty to suck a guy's cum out of him and even considering how much fun it is to thumb your nose at the taboo. I get a great sense of accomplishment and more so when I know it's not always "easy" to get a guy to cum. But to me - and from the beginning - if I suck your dick and you're not going to cum in my mouth, well, what the hell is wrong with you? Don't you know that it's what you're supposed to do? Getting deep into the why of this is difficult since a lot of it are... impressions that you just can't put into words.

    But you know why it's so desirable because if it wasn't, you wouldn't do it. The "ego trip" you can get because you made him cum is quite the desirable rush. I made you cum and if I made you do it before you wanted to, that's an even bigger rush. I'm not submissive about this; my mind just cannot work like that; I suck dick with a purpose and a focus about that most desirable result: Your cum i my mouth. I want you to submit to the lust I feel when sucking your dick and taking your cum from you and if it tastes good, I'll do it again and sometimes without giving you a chance to catch your breath. Because sucking dick is damned good but still is behind eating pussy... but the same desires are there and if she's not looking at me like I tried to kill her, I did it wrong... so I gotta make it right.

  9. #39

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Giving & receiving pleasure is what it's all about! The rewards are delicious....

  10. #40

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by happymouthandtongue View Post
    For me, a large part of it is the total submission to a cock and the man. Plus I get a real rush and joy from feeling another guy cumming in my mouth and swallowing his cum. I like to suck verbal guys and have them tell me how good I sucked their cocks.
    mmmm. Yes! I love when a guy is verbal. I, too, find the submissiveness of sucking another guy's cock the main driver of my desires. And it is icing on the cake if he is verbal with me.

    "You love sucking that hard dick, don't you?" ...... " I know you want my cum"... "You're a good little cocksucker."

    He can call me faggot...slut....cum whore. The more a guy verbally taunts me about being his slut, the better I suck it.

    For me, submissiveness is a huge part of why I like kneeling to serve. The kinky factor, and that it is a taboo act, is also a big part of the arousal for me,
    I don't seem like a sub cock slut on the surface. I'm just a regular guy, but I find it incredibly arousing to turn into a slutty oral whore when I am presented with a cock for sucking....privately...secretly.

  11. #41

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rest85 View Post
    mmmm. Yes! I love when a guy is verbal. I, too, find the submissiveness of sucking another guy's cock the main driver of my desires. And it is icing on the cake if he is verbal with me.

    "You love sucking that hard dick, don't you?" ...... " I know you want my cum"... "You're a good little cocksucker."

    He can call me faggot...slut....cum whore. The more a guy verbally taunts me about being his slut, the better I suck it.

    For me, submissiveness is a huge part of why I like kneeling to serve. The kinky factor, and that it is a taboo act, is also a big part of the arousal for me,
    I don't seem like a sub cock slut on the surface. I'm just a regular guy, but I find it incredibly arousing to turn into a slutty oral whore when I am presented with a cock for sucking....privately...secretly.
    that is so hot. What is it about the submissive aspect?

  12. #42

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I sucked my first dick when I was 13 and was never able to stop. Combination of the thrill, the taste the accomplishment. Just something too hard to describe. Nothing at all like it but be prepared to be in it for the long haul.

  13. #43

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    for me personally, when I suck a cock it is the moaning that gives me the most rush. Its feeling the cock throb in my mouth, Its how it jumps when I tease it. The feelings I get just from giving in to my desires. Knowing that what I am doing is driving someone wild.
    And...
    When he cums, its not just the ejaculant that is a rush for me, Its listening to him gasp for air, his heavy breathing, his stuttered moans. Its feeling his body quiver and quake as he thrusts forward, giving me even more of himself just before he collapses to the floor in a heap of complete satisfaction.
    Him giving me his precious load is just reward for a job well done
    but thats just me

  14. #44

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I was eating pussy long before I ever sucked a cock and it is such a thrill to make her cum while eating her. I found the same thrill sucking cock and making him cum

  15. #45

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    once you find the right guy it is a real trip. coming to this later and it is such a rush to be providing good head to another man. nothing like it.

  16. #46

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I love oral, woman or man. I love a cock in my mouth, licking and sucking on the shaft and head. My old buddy would begin to moan and move his hips, I knew I was doing good, when he got close he got more verbal and heavy breathing. That was encouragement to me and he would thrust as he was cumming, sometimes I would keep him deep in my mouth at the back of my throat, other times just the head in so I could feel it on my tongue all hot and creamy, Sure wish I could suck my own

  17. #47

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by coleb5791 View Post
    that is so hot. What is it about the submissive aspect?
    I can't explain why I love the role of being submissive while sucking cock. In my day to day public life I don't tolerate taking anyone's shit, so to speak. I treat other guys with respect and I expect to be treated with respect while doing business with someone or when with friends. BTW, my friends don't know about my secret sub cocksucker side.

    But when I connect with a guy to suck his cock I let him know ahead of time that I am the sub.

    A lot of guys don't say a word while having their cocks sucked and that's fine. But the first time I met a guy who teased me with statements like, "you want to suck that dick, don't you?" "You like the way that cock feels?" "Suck it slut, slut", I loved it. It made me feel so dirty and slutty and I knew I would always want that.

    Now, whether a guy is verbal with me or not, I always stop to tell him, "I love sucking a hard dick" "Am I sucking it good?" (I know...bad grammar)

    Sometimes I will ask, "Are you going to 'make' me swallow your cum?" It really, really turns me on to play the role of a guy who is being 'made' to suck cock. I find that most guys like it when they realize the can call me a faggot or cumslut, then hear me moan out my approval.

    And, no, I didn't have any experience being 'made' to suck someone's cock when younger. I didn't start out craving the role of sub. It has developed over time. My girlfriends and ex wife would have taken offense if I called them a slut or cocksucker/cumwhor, etc. but I always wanted to. Now, I find that the things I wanted to do with my women during oral sex is exactly what I want said or done to me while I am sucking dick.
    What is the psychology of that, the reason I want it and seek it out? I have no clue.

    "Use' me and 'make' me take your cum in my mouth and I'll thank you afterwards every time.

    Many guys, but especially straight guys seem surprised when I tell them, "Thank you for letting me suck your cock." or "Thank you for cumming in my mouth" Many straight guys don't get why a cocksucker is so grateful, but we both like that I have been their slut.

    I a curious to know why I love it so much to be someone's oral sub. Regardless, I like being used.

    And, oh...as an afterthought... I also love being sub when I'm licking pussy. If a girl wants to straddle me and use my tongue to grind on while saying, "You love licking that wet pussy, don't you?" it gives me the same overpowering feelings of lust.

  18. #48

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by Veryoralniceguy View Post
    I think hard cocks are beautiful, just like I find wet pussy beautiful. The smoothness of a hard cock feels so good in my mouth, the taste of precum and the feeling of another man?s passion as he fucks my mouth, I just love it! Then he cums and I feel so satisfied, swallowing ever drop.
    I 100 % agree

  19. #49

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by chongster View Post
    I was eating pussy long before I ever sucked a cock and it is such a thrill to make her cum while eating her. I found the same thrill sucking cock and making him cum
    This!!

  20. #50

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    rest 85 , you took the words right out of my mouth , you cocksucker !

  21. #51

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Because dicks are delicious. I find the ability to make a man feel good hot as well.

  22. #52

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rest85 View Post
    I can't explain why I love the role of being submissive while sucking cock. In my day to day public life I don't tolerate taking anyone's shit, so to speak. I treat other guys with respect and I expect to be treated with respect while doing business with someone or when with friends. BTW, my friends don't know about my secret sub cocksucker side.

    But when I connect with a guy to suck his cock I let him know ahead of time that I am the sub.

    A lot of guys don't say a word while having their cocks sucked and that's fine. But the first time I met a guy who teased me with statements like, "you want to suck that dick, don't you?" "You like the way that cock feels?" "Suck it slut, slut", I loved it. It made me feel so dirty and slutty and I knew I would always want that.

    Now, whether a guy is verbal with me or not, I always stop to tell him, "I love sucking a hard dick" "Am I sucking it good?" (I know...bad grammar)

    Sometimes I will ask, "Are you going to 'make' me swallow your cum?" It really, really turns me on to play the role of a guy who is being 'made' to suck cock. I find that most guys like it when they realize the can call me a faggot or cumslut, then hear me moan out my approval.

    And, no, I didn't have any experience being 'made' to suck someone's cock when younger. I didn't start out craving the role of sub. It has developed over time. My girlfriends and ex wife would have taken offense if I called them a slut or cocksucker/cumwhor, etc. but I always wanted to. Now, I find that the things I wanted to do with my women during oral sex is exactly what I want said or done to me while I am sucking dick.
    What is the psychology of that, the reason I want it and seek it out? I have no clue.

    "Use' me and 'make' me take your cum in my mouth and I'll thank you afterwards every time.

    Many guys, but especially straight guys seem surprised when I tell them, "Thank you for letting me suck your cock." or "Thank you for cumming in my mouth" Many straight guys don't get why a cocksucker is so grateful, but we both like that I have been their slut.

    I a curious to know why I love it so much to be someone's oral sub. Regardless, I like being used.

    And, oh...as an afterthought... I also love being sub when I'm licking pussy. If a girl wants to straddle me and use my tongue to grind on while saying, "You love licking that wet pussy, don't you?" it gives me the same overpowering feelings of lust.
    wow. Thank you for sharing. I love it! I think the idea of being a slut and doing taboo kinds turns me on. Wow. I need to suck a cock bad

  23. #53

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    I think that most heterosexual women would disagree with you on sucking cock and the reward of cum being so desirable. At least in my experience. C’est la vie. Probably because it's been done in porn so much, and so badly from the point of view for women. I don't go much for throat fucking or when someone gags themselves so much on a cock that they're choking and spitting out when they finally pull the cock out of their throats. That to me just looks more like a medical emergency.

    I do love passionate and sensual though. The biggest thing that gets me off is seeing my partner getting off. I love the way a tongue feels on my cock, slowly, passionately bringing me to the edge, and over to a nice orgasm. I'd love to look up into partner's eyes when I've got him on the edge of cumming too, then see his look as he loses his load into my mouth.

    I think one of the differences between us guys and when women think about the ending of a blowjob, and why guys relish the ending where women seem to dread it is caused by the differences in our perspectives. Women are almost punished for their sexuality in our society. They're looked down on for being sluts and whores for doing what men are almost encouraged to do. They get punished by enjoying their sexual desires by an unwanted pregnancy. This, to me, seems to attach a dread to semen. It can develop into a revulsion to cum along with all the other bodily fluids of other people.

    For us guys, the cum is produced out of the very part that's tingling the most when we cum. It's like it's an extension of the orgasm. The further, farther, and more that's produced is like an extension of our orgasm.

    Your mileage may vary, but I think that's the biggest difference in how cum is viewed, and why it's women seem to dread the ending of a blowjob, where guys get into it so much.

  24. #54

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Aside from the fact that it's just great sex, it's an exhilarating change of pace to break out of my everyday decision-making masculine persona. When giving myself to a man, the only decision I have to make is choosing the man. From then on it's all about his pleasure, from which I get my pleasure. I prefer to be naked when I suck off another man because there's an intense feeling of vulnerability and femininity in taking off my clothes in preparation to please another man, and then standing there naked and ready to be taken as he walks in my door. Once my mouth is on his cock it becomes a sexual act not really that much unlike than any sexual act I've had with women. That is, until he cums. There's a passionate personal connection that takes place when a man is ejaculating inside my mouth. As he begins to orgasm I feel his sexual energy surging from his body into mine with each pulse of his cock and every spurt of his cum. When all of his cum is inside me and his cock begins to deflate that feeling of vulnerability and femininity returns. Then when the man is zipping up his pants and walking out my door, as well as hours later, the lingering taste of his cock and cum inside my mouth is a reminder that I let a man cum inside me. It's just so surreal. Ever since I sucked that first cock I'm constantly thinking about getting another one in my mouth.
    Last edited by licyou69; Jul 20, 2024 at 9:32 AM.

  25. #55

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    For me it's sort of power thing -- at first it's the idea of being desired or the desire you feel for someone else -- then all the tension builds up during sex, knowing you are helping someone experience intense pleasure -- then the release -- it's like watching a storm brewing right? All that action, motion, desire, energy building up and then spraying out .. sometimes involuntarily, but always with the idea of pleasure in mind -- the rhythmic movements, the contractions, the pulsing, knowing someone has just surrendered to you -- in wave after wave of pleasure - during one of their most intimate and vulnerable moments ..

  26. #56

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by stephmtl View Post
    once you find the right guy it is a real trip. coming to this later and it is such a rush to be providing good head to another man. nothing like it.
    So true. Finding the right guy is important. For me, it was getting to suck the type of dick that I personally love and the man having the right chemistry that helped me feel relaxed and not shy to completely act on my impulses. Love smoking weed together and just tripping out while I worship a cock in a long drawn out blowjob. When the vibe is warm and right, the feeling of swallowing a man's cum at the end is so fucking amazing.

  27. #57

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by licyou69 View Post
    Aside from the fact that it's just great sex, it's an exhilarating change of pace to break out of my everyday decision-making masculine persona. When giving myself to a man, the only decision I have to make is choosing the man. From then on it's all about his pleasure, from which I get my pleasure. I prefer to be naked when I suck off another man because there's an intense feeling of vulnerability and femininity in taking off my clothes in preparation to please another man, and then standing there naked and ready to be taken as he walks in my door. Once my mouth is on his cock it becomes a sexual act not really that much unlike than any sexual act I've had with women. That is, until he cums. There's a passionate personal connection that takes place when a man is ejaculating inside my mouth. As he begins to orgasm I feel his sexual energy surging from his body into mine with each pulse of his cock and every spurt of his cum. When all of his cum is inside me and his cock begins to deflate that feeling of vulnerability and femininity returns. Then when the man is zipping up his pants and walking out my door, as well as hours later, the lingering taste of his cock and cum inside my mouth is a reminder that I let a man cum inside me. It's just so surreal. Ever since I sucked that first cock I'm constantly thinking about getting another one in my mouth.
    I think every man on the planet needs a break from his masculine persona at times and have their own ways of doing that. I totally relate to your words. I love that feeling of vulnerability, getting naked with another man. It feels taboo, risky, perverted, but so thrilling. As men, we are naturally guarded and competitive with each other. It's in our biology of survival. In another context, you might fight a man to the death if you were in war. A man is a dangerous animal. I get so aroused by making myself vulnerable to that threat. To me, it might feel like the same rush someone gets if they get up close with a tiger or animal that could rip them apart if the animal wanted to. That feeling of danger and vulnerability keeps you on edge and truly in the present moment. I can say that with women, it's easy to not be in the moment and let your mind wander, but with men, I have always felt totally engaged in the present, which is when you are truly alive the most. I tend to seek out men that are masculine and dominant because I enjoy the feeling of being overpowered and controlled by someone else. Even if he doesn't act that way, just knowing that he could if it came down to it makes it so erotic. Getting to experience his male energy as you said is so intoxicating, and the feeling of intimacy and personal connection is so pleasurable when you feel that male energy, in the form of his semen, spraying into your mouth. I have told men before to manhandle me a bit, to "make me" eat their cum. I enjoy the feeling that if I don't do what he says, or I let him down in any way and disappoint him, that there is the threat that he might hurt me. I like feeling that threat under the surface as it makes me feel even more vulnerable, which is the key to feeling the most intimacy...which is what we all want as humans.

  28. #58

    Re: Why is sucking cock and the reward of cum so desirable?

    Quote Originally Posted by camelblue View Post
    I think every man on the planet needs a break from his masculine persona at times and have their own ways of doing that. I totally relate to your words. I love that feeling of vulnerability, getting naked with another man. It feels taboo, risky, perverted, but so thrilling. As men, we are naturally guarded and competitive with each other. It's in our biology of survival. In another context, you might fight a man to the death if you were in war. A man is a dangerous animal. I get so aroused by making myself vulnerable to that threat. To me, it might feel like the same rush someone gets if they get up close with a tiger or animal that could rip them apart if the animal wanted to. That feeling of danger and vulnerability keeps you on edge and truly in the present moment. I can say that with women, it's easy to not be in the moment and let your mind wander, but with men, I have always felt totally engaged in the present, which is when you are truly alive the most. I tend to seek out men that are masculine and dominant because I enjoy the feeling of being overpowered and controlled by someone else. Even if he doesn't act that way, just knowing that he could if it came down to it makes it so erotic. Getting to experience his male energy as you said is so intoxicating, and the feeling of intimacy and personal connection is so pleasurable when you feel that male energy, in the form of his semen, spraying into your mouth. I have told men before to manhandle me a bit, to "make me" eat their cum. I enjoy the feeling that if I don't do what he says, or I let him down in any way and disappoint him, that there is the threat that he might hurt me. I like feeling that threat under the surface as it makes me feel even more vulnerable, which is the key to feeling the most intimacy...which is what we all want as humans.
    What an insightful and engaging reply! I feel the same way, with the additional idea of abandoning all daily.responsibilities other than my top's pleasure. And when he explodes in my mouth or up my ass my reward is his pleasure. And yes, there is a thrill in the fear of his reaction to disappointment, but "man handling" is off the table. Talk to me yes, but rough housing is going to get you hurt. I may be a submissive bottom, but still I'm letting you into me and enveloping you with my body. Feel free to imagine you're "taking" me, but I still control that little part of the scene.

 

 

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