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Originally Posted by
Christopher South
Guys get with other guys for a number of reasons. Some guys feel the need to bond with other guys. Others have that "itch" that they need to get scratched every week/month/year. Other guys just need a sexual outlet and some of those guys view getting their sexual needs met by another guy either less or not even cheating.
My view is yes, I'm cheating. My wife and I had the sex discussion several times and it hasn't gone anywhere and our sex life is at zero so I have gone elsewhere to have those needs met. She knows I have had sex with guys in the past and it almost killed our marriage. We worked on it, I made some changes but she hasn't. So instead of me walking around frustrated and angry at her, I'm getting my needs met elsewhere. And once sex is taken off the table between us, we get along much better.
If I had to take a guess, I'd say she knows what I'm doing. I went from pestering her almost daily about our sex life to absolutely no interest in having sex with her. I make decent pay, bring my entire pay check home, keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, no expensive hobbies that take time and money away from her and meet with fuckbuddies to take care of that part of my life.
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