What percentage of men around you may have same sex desires?

[bikurinpa]

I often wonder what is the percentage of men who you are around every day or meet in general occasions in real life have the toughts and desires for same sex involvement with someone but just like me, dont know how to go about expressing it! I wonder if there is way more then I realize. I know I dont know how to bring it up with someone for it may ust go all bad or ust go the wrong way and out me!
I would like to se what others think on this.

[KDaddy23]

One thing becomes apparent: There's no way to tell who is "like you" and who isn't. Someone you think is "like you" can be not like you and the last person you might suspect could be more like you than you are. Since so many guys are in the closet, they learn how to "hide in plain sight" and not let, say, their inability to express themselves openly affect their mannerisms and behavior. I learned that I could be standing next to a guy who's like me and I wouldn't know it; I could be talking to him and not get a single clue that he might be interested in getting his dick sucked by me or he's seriously thinking about peeking out of his closet so he can ask me if he can suck my cock.

I sometimes marvel at this; I see so many men going about their business when I go out and my mind just gawks over the fact that I could have just walked by a guy who's just like me and... neither of us knows it. So many guys who don't have someone they can talk to about this, which just makes things worse for them and then there's this: If you want to get with a guy, at some point, you're going to have to out yourself to him and just like guys like us have done for untold generations, you out yourself and take your chances because you'll never know how things are going to turn out until you do.

Let's say that you didn't know that I was bi - but I was attractive to you and you wanted to get naked with me so we can do (add some stuff here) - then let's say that I wouldn't be able to pick up on the vibe you'd be putting off while making the important decisions to (1) start a conversation with me and (2) get to the point and part where you try to find out if I find M2M stuff objectionable and (3) would I be interested? If you don't do these things - and you can do the first two without outing yourself (because it can be a general kind of conversation) but, yeah, that third one calls for you having to out yourself and, again, assuming that I couldn't pick up on this.

If you don't ask, you will never know. I've outed myself and asked guys who I wanted to have sex with and sometimes, I got it wrong and things sometimes got ugly but not fugly, if you catch my drift. That's just how it goes because if there no such thing as a free lunch, there's also no such thing as a sure thing - and even if you happened to know that the other guy likes dick, too - but you're not his type. You're either going to throw the dice and take your chances or... you're going to remain silent and never leave your closet.