woohoo.... these are the people that most intrique me.....mysterious and so beautiful, inside and out....they are one of the most misunderstood groups of people in the world
TG or transgender people are part of the group that are known by the terms * inter sexual, contra sexual and the third sex*
trans gender are classed as gender challenged.... or simply people that feel they are in the wrong body...... and what a sad mistake society makes, with that label
TG, are people that feel, relate and understand in a way that is different to the normal traits associated with their gender.....and so they are not seen or acknowledged as to who they are based on their understanding and feelings.... but by their gender....
most cases are of M2F transgender... but in fact F2M transgender do exist... just not as publicly
most TG don't state their case as being born in the wrong body.... but in fact that their body is not suitable for who they are as a person, and therefore, it needs to be changed to better reflect the person inside
and that comes the most difficult question of, is a transgender, a bisexual, gay or lesbian....
now to be considerate of the TG.. the correct answer normally is based around the sex of the person within... not the gender of the body....
a post op M2F TG that wishs to form a relationship with a male.... sees themselves as a lady wishing to bond with a male...hence heterosexual..... and not gay as society would dictate.... gay is M2M...
a post op TG that is now 100% female... doesn't wanna be addressed as SIR... and doesn't wish to be classed as gay
but that is not to say that a TG can't have GRS ( gender reassignment surgery ) and become a lady... and still be gay inside....or even bisexual
sexuality is defined by the sex that attracts you...and its possible to be a lady but attracted to guys as a guy....
even tho your body has changed... your desires and attractions can remain the same.....
sadly the legal terms and BS that surround TG needs to reflect the person within... and often they face the battle of becoming the sex of the person within, against a legal system that is neither caring nor compassionate
often we hear the term she male..... and this is a very narrow term applied to a broad range of people
she male generally refers to a pre op TG M2F..... but it also covers TG that have had hormone therapy and breast enhancements.... but do not desire losing the male genitalia....or people with a condition known as gynemimesis or female impersonation in a male who is able to relate sexually exclusively with men, and who may be hormonally but not surgically sex-reassigned
Andromimetophilia is when a woman is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man,
nothing i write, can do justice to the inner soul of a TG... and sadly, misunderstanding of a TG is very common.....
over the years i have worked with and befriended many cd/ tv /tg people....and to see the inner soul of them is incredible......
we are born male or female as a rule and grow up as one......
but for a cd / tv / tg... they are like young children taking their first steps..... and when they become the sex they feel more content as, they glow with a beauty that is not possible to define in words
in nz, i had the chance to see that with a young person that fought in court for the right to become who they truly were and at 16 they ended their life as a male and started life as a lady... 4 hours after the surgery... the smile on their face, lit up the room..... until the day i die.... i will never forget that look and smile of total happiness.....
now one thing that pisses me right off...is the fact that TG are referred to as people with Gender Identity Disorder ....
BULLSHIT.......questioning your gender or sexuality is NOT a disorder and I don't care what anybody says........the experience of learning and understanding is NOT a disorder.... unless you wanna count every day in school as a DISORDER
a disorder is a inability to act, function or live in a normal manner......its natural and normal for TG to question their gender...... it is classed as a disorder by somebody that believed that each person should NOT question their gender and seek to become another gender
now i know that in the eyes of the psych community, i am wrong.... that TG is classed as a disorder..... but this is my post and they can get fucked.... I am not telling any TG that they have a disorder or that they are in need of therapy.... they are in need of support, understanding and help to make the best decisions for themselves
having seen some of the most gorgeous TG ladies.... and yes, some ladies that look more masculine than feminine even after surgery......it is often a pleasure to see them as content with their bodies as possible.....
the old saying that * the inner beauty is what makes the outside beautiful *...is indeed very true in the case of the TG... and true as well in the case of any person
to call a TG a freak or a pervert, is to show a lack of understanding for a persons inner struggle to find peace into themselves....
in the cases in which i have found myself in a bar with TG friends, and dealing with pre historic mankind.... hell bent on * dealing to the freaks *... i am often heard to make the remark about how mr neanderthal's partner must love beastiality.... cos to fuck a half evolved ape with the brain the size of my left nut, would take a person with a deep love of beastiality and severe mental retardation.....
I am very proud of my TG friends ... they walk a hard path.... and earn my respect greatly....and they treat me with the respect and love that i happily return 10 fold.... even if it does mean that i get banned from the local bar for * animal training *....lol
so give a TG person a hug and a smile, and let them know that you understand a lil better.... but you now love them so much more lol
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